Pali nthano yosangalatsa yonena za chiyambi cha chikondi m’chipembedzo chachihindu. Poyamba, panali superbeing - Purusha, amene sankadziwa mantha, umbombo, chilakolako ndi chikhumbo kuchita chirichonse, chifukwa Chilengedwe anali kale wangwiro. Ndiyeno, Mlengi Brahma anatenga lupanga lake laumulungu, kugawa Purusha pakati. Kumwamba kunalekanitsidwa ndi dziko lapansi, mdima ndi kuwala, moyo ndi imfa, ndipo mwamuna ndi mkazi. Kuyambira pamenepo, theka lililonse limayesetsa kuyanjananso. Monga anthu, timafunafuna umodzi, womwe ndi chikondi.
Momwe mungasungire lawi lopatsa moyo la chikondi? Anzeru akale a ku India anatchera khutu kwambiri nkhaniyi, pozindikira mphamvu ya chikondi ndi ubwenzi wapamtima podzutsa maganizo. Komabe, funso lofunika kwambiri kwa iwo linali lakuti: Kodi nchiyani chimene chimayambitsa chilakolakocho? Momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mphamvu yoledzera yachikoka kuti mupange chisangalalo chomwe chidzakhalapo ngakhale lawi loyambirira litazima? Afilosofi amalalikira kuti chikondi chimakhala ndi magawo angapo. Magawo oyamba ake safunikira kuchoka pamene munthu ayamba kuunikiridwa. Komabe, kukhala nthawi yayitali pamasitepe oyamba kumabweretsa chisoni komanso kukhumudwa.
Ndikofunika kugonjetsa kukwera kwa makwerero a chikondi. M’zaka za zana la 19, mtumwi wachihindu Swami Vivekananda anati: .
Kotero, magawo asanu a chikondi kuchokera ku lingaliro la Chihindu
Chikhumbo chophatikizana chimasonyezedwa kudzera mu kukopeka, kapena ngati. Kuchokera pamalingaliro aukadaulo, ngati amatanthauza "chilakolako chofuna kumva zinthu", koma nthawi zambiri chimamveka ngati "chilakolako cha kugonana".
Kale ku India, kugonana sikunagwirizane ndi chinthu chamanyazi, koma chinali mbali ya moyo wosangalala waumunthu ndi chinthu chophunzira kwambiri. The Kama Sutra, yomwe inalembedwa pa nthawi ya Khristu, si mndandanda wa malo ogonana komanso njira zowonongeka. Zambiri za bukhuli ndi nzeru za chikondi zomwe zimakhudza chilakolako ndi momwe tingachichiritsire ndi kuchikulitsa.
Kugonana popanda ubwenzi weniweni ndi kusinthanitsa kumawononga zonse ziwiri. Ndicho chifukwa chake afilosofi a ku India anaika chidwi kwambiri pa gawo la maganizo. Iwo atulukira ndi mawu ochuluka a mawu osonyeza mikhalidwe ndi malingaliro osaŵerengeka okhudzana ndi ubwenzi.
Kuchokera ku "vinaigrette" uyu wamalingaliro, shringa, kapena chikondi, amabadwa. Kuphatikiza pa zosangalatsa zachiwerewere, okonda amasinthanitsa zinsinsi ndi maloto, amalankhulana mwachikondi ndikupatsana mphatso zachilendo. Zimayimira ubale wa banja laumulungu Radha ndi Krishna, omwe maulendo awo achikondi amawonekera mu kuvina kwa Indian, nyimbo, zisudzo ndi ndakatulo.
Malinga ndi maganizo a anthanthi a ku India, . Makamaka, izi zikutanthawuza kuwonetseredwa kwa chikondi mu zinthu zosavuta: kumwetulira potuluka, chokoleti cha chokoleti kwa osowa, kukumbatirana moona mtima.
, - adatero Mahatma Gandhi.
Chifundo ndicho chisonyezero chosavuta cha chikondi chimene timakhala nacho kwa ana athu kapena ziweto zathu. Zimagwirizana ndi matru-prema, liwu la Sanskrit lotanthauza chikondi cha amayi, chomwe chimawonedwa ngati chopanda malire. Maitri amaimira chikondi cha amayi, koma amasonyezedwa kwa zamoyo zonse, osati mwana wake wobadwa yekha. Kuchitira chifundo anthu osawadziŵa nthaŵi zonse sikungobwera mwachibadwa. Muzochita za Chibuda ndi Chihindu, pali kusinkhasinkha, pomwe kuthekera kolakalaka chisangalalo cha zamoyo zonse kumapangidwa.
Ngakhale kuti chifundo ndi sitepe yofunika, si yomaliza. Kupitilira pa anthu, miyambo yaku India imalankhula za chikondi chopanda umunthu momwe kumverera kumakula ndikulunjika ku chilichonse. Njira yopita ku mkhalidwe wotero imatchedwa “bhakti yoga”, kutanthauza kukulitsa umunthu mwa kukonda Mulungu. Kwa anthu omwe si achipembedzo, bhakti sangaganizire za Mulungu, koma pa Ubwino, Chilungamo, Choonadi, ndi zina zotero. Ganizilani za atsogoleri monga Nelson Mandela, Jane Goodall, Dalai Lama, ndi ena osawerengeka omwe amakonda kwambiri dziko lapansi ndi amphamvu kwambiri komanso opanda dyera.
Izi zisanachitike, gawo lililonse la chikondi lidalunjika kudziko lakunja lozungulira munthu. Komabe, pamwamba pake, imapanga chozungulira chozungulira chokha. Atma-prema akhoza kumasuliridwa ngati kudzikonda. Izi siziyenera kusokonezedwa ndi kudzikonda. Izi zikutanthauza chiyani muzochita: timadziwona tokha mwa ena ndipo timawona ena mwa ife tokha. “Mtsinje umene umayenda mwa inu umayendanso mwa ine,” anatero wolemba ndakatulo wachinsinsi wa ku India Kabir. Kufika ku Atma-prema, timamvetsetsa: kuyika pambali kusiyana kwathu mu chibadwa ndi kulera, tonse ndife mawonetseredwe a moyo umodzi. Moyo, womwe nthano za ku India zidapereka mu mawonekedwe a Purusha. Atma-Prema amabwera ndikuzindikira kuti kupitirira zolakwa zathu ndi zofooka zathu, kuposa dzina lathu ndi mbiri yathu, ndife ana a Wamkulukulu. Pamene tidzikonda ife eni ndi ena mozama chotero koma mopanda umunthu, chikondi chimataya malire ake ndipo chimakhala chopanda malire.