Munthu ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza kuti ayenera kuthera nthawi yake yonse pakati pa makamu a abwenzi, mabwenzi ndi anthu ena. Izi zikugwiranso ntchito kwa onse oyambitsa ndi owonetsa. Pali ubwino wokhala panokha ndi kupindula nako. Pokhala akuthamanga masana, ubongo umakhala wovuta nthawi zonse. Chidwi chimayang'ana pazinthu zambiri, milandu, komanso anthu omwe amafunikira upangiri, chithandizo kapena upangiri. Mumayang'ana kwambiri kuchita zinthu mwachangu momwe mungathere komanso momwe aliyense amasangalalira. Koma kodi ilipo nthawi yoti muime ndi kumvetsera nokha? Kusweka masana, mwakachetechete komanso popanda kufulumira, kukulolani kuti muyike malingaliro anu, kuti mukhale oyenera. Kulinganiza ndi kumene kumatithandiza kupita patsogolo mogwirizana. Musanyalanyaze kudzitsekera nokha kwa mphindi zingapo pakati pa tsiku ndikuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi angapo. Osaganiza kanthu. Pangani lamulo kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yocheza nokha tsiku lililonse, mudzawona momwe izi zingakuthandizireni kukonza nthawi yanu. Mchitidwe umenewu umakulolani kuti muyang'ane zinthu zomwe zikuchitika m'moyo kuchokera kumbali ina ndikumvetsetsa zomwe ziri. Nthawi zambiri timadzilola tokha kuyenda ndi kuyenda kwa moyo, osaganizira kwenikweni za momwe tingasinthire zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi ife. Mwina tilibe nthawi kapena mphamvu zokwanira kuchita zimenezi. Pakalipano, uwu ndi moyo wanu wokha ndipo ndiwe nokha amene mungathe kulamulira zomwe zimakuvutitsani kapena zomwe zimakusokonezani. Pomaliza, chifukwa chimodzi chachikulu chimene tiyenera kukhalira tokha ndicho kuphunzira kukhala tokha. Masiku ano, chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe zimawopsa kwambiri ndikuopa kusungulumwa, komwe kumabweretsa kulankhulana mopambanitsa (kopanda pake), ndikuchepetsa tanthauzo lake.
Pali malingaliro olakwika m'dera lathu kuti ngati munthu amapita ku cinema kapena cafe yekha, zikutanthauza kuti ndi wotopetsa kapena alibe anzake. Si bwino. Panthawi ngati zimenezi, timaphunzira kukhala paokha komanso kumvetsa kuti kukhala pawekha ndi chimodzi mwa zosangalatsa zazing’ono m’moyo. Sangalalani ndi gulu lanu! Pumulani.