Malingaliro athu amakhudza malingaliro athu, otsirizawa amakhudza mwachindunji thanzi la chamoyo chonse. Ngati zonse zamkati zimagwirizana ndipo zimadalira malingaliro ndi malingaliro, nchifukwa ninji kuli kovuta kwa ife kuvomereza kuti dziko lozungulira, lopangidwa ndi maatomu omwewo, limakhudzidwa ndi dziko lamkati?
Sizokhudzanso lingaliro losangalatsa la kanema "Chinsinsi" ndikukopa zomwe mukufuna. Ndi za kuzindikira ndi kuvomereza kusankha molingana ndi ufulu wakudzisankhira ndi kulingalira.
Kuti maubwenzi ndi okondedwa akhale ogwirizana komanso athanzi, ndikofunikira kudziwa zinthu zingapo:
Monga zokopa monga. Monga anthu, tili pano kuti tiphunzire. Timakopa anthu omwe ali ndi chidziwitso pafupi ndi chathu panthawi yomwe tapatsidwa. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, anthu amene amatiphunzitsa phunziro lofunika kwambiri. Monga lamulo, onse amayenera kuphunzira chinthu chimodzi, mwina m'njira zosiyanasiyana. M'chinenero chosavuta, pamene mumayesetsa kukulitsa chidziwitso chanu, kudzikuza nokha, mumakhala ndi mwayi wokumana ndi munthu wathanzi komanso wokhwima kwambiri kwa inu. Kukhala ndi udindo wa wina, osakhala wekha, mumakopa munthu yemwe amawonetsa chigoba ichi. Kumvetsetsa lingaliro ili ndi kukhazikitsidwa kwake m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku kumathandiza kumvetsetsa maubwenzi ndipo, ngati kuli kofunikira, "kutsika kavalo wakufa" mwachidwi. Dziwani kuti ndinu ndani. Tikazindikira zomwe tili, kutaya mantha athu, zizolowezi ndi kudzikonda, timayamba kumvetsetsa zomwe tikufuna m'moyo wathu. Popeza "taulula" "Ine" wathu, tikukumana ndi zochitika ndi anthu omwe ali ogwirizana kwambiri ndi zokonda zathu zenizeni. Titasiya kuwononga nthawi ndi mphamvu pazokonda komanso zizolowezi, ndikuzisintha kukhala zathanzi komanso zaluso, tikuwona momwe anthu ena amachoka kwa ife ndikubwera anthu atsopano, ozindikira. Sankhani zomwe mukufunadi. Ngati munthu wamkulu komanso wodziimira payekha sakudziwa zomwe akufuna, angakwaniritse bwanji zomwe akufuna? Mwinamwake aliyense wa ife anazindikira kuti mosasamala kanthu za momwe mungayesere kukwaniritsa chinachake, ngati pali kusatsimikizika pa chosowacho, zotsatira zake zimakhala zokhumudwitsa. Ndikofunikira kukhala ndi cholinga cha zomwe mukufuna (). blogger Jeremy Scott Lambert akulemba. Zindikirani kuti ndinu woyenera ndi kudzikonda nokha. Chitani zonse zomwe mungathe kuti mutulutse mphamvu, malingaliro, ndi malingaliro oipa omwe akukulepheretsani kupita patsogolo ndikudzikonda nokha mopanda malire. Tisanakhale ndi unansi wabwino, tiyenera kuphunzira kuleka mikhalidwe imene yatichitira mopanda chilungamo, ngakhale kutipweteka, ndi kutipangitsa kukayikira kukhala kwathu achimwemwe ndi ulemu. Pali njira zingapo zothanirana ndi izi: kusinkhasinkha, kuchotsa mphamvu, chithandizo, ndi zina. Sakani, yesani, sankhani zomwe zikukuyenererani. Nthawi zina ngakhale kutsimikizira kosavuta kwa tsiku ndi tsiku "Ndine woyenera kukondedwa, ndine woyenera kukhala ndi ubale wabwino" ndikwanira kuunikira njira ya machiritso amkati. Tonse tamva mawuwa ndipo tili otsimikiza kulondola kwake: