“Bambo anga alibe chiyembekezo!” mawu oterowo kaŵirikaŵiri angamveke kwa achichepere amene adzakhala osadya zamasamba. Poyesera kumamatira ku zakudya zamasamba m'banja, pafupifupi nthawi zonse ndi abambo omwe ali ovuta kwambiri kutsimikizira, kawirikawiri ndi amene amatsutsa kwambiri ndikutsutsa mokweza kwambiri.
Pambuyo pa mibadwo yachichepere m’banjamo kukhala osadya zamasamba, kaŵirikaŵiri ndi amayi amene amamvetsera mikangano mokomera kusadya zamasamba, ndipo nthaŵi zinanso amakhala odya zamasamba eniwo. Ngati amayi akudandaula, nthawi zambiri zimakhala chifukwa cha matenda komanso chifukwa sadziwa chakudya choyenera kuphika. Koma abambo ambiri amakhalabe opanda chidwi ndi moyo woyipa wa nyama, ndipo amalingalira lingaliro lothetsa kudya nyama ngati kupusa. Nanga n’cifukwa ciani pali kusiyana conco?
Pali mwambi wina wakale umene makolo amauza ana akagwa kuti: “Anyamata aakulu salira!” Ndiye kodi amuna ndi akazi analengedwa mosiyana, kapena kodi amuna anaphunzitsidwa kuchita zimenezi? Kuyambira pamene anangobadwa, anyamata ena amaleredwa ndi makolo n’kukhala amuna ankhanza. Simumamva akulu akunena kwa atsikana ang'onoang'ono kuti, "Ndiye msungwana wamkulu, wamphamvu pano ndi ndani?" kapena “Kodi msilikali wanga wamng’ono ndi ndani kuno?” Tangolingalirani za mawu ogwiritsiridwa ntchito ponena za anyamata amene sagwirizana ndi mafotokozedwe a amuna: achikazi, ofooka, ndi ena otero. Kaŵirikaŵiri zimenezi zimanenedwa ngati mnyamatayo analibe mphamvu zokwanira kapena kusonyeza kuti anali kuopa chinachake, nthaŵi zina ngakhale mnyamatayo atasonyeza kudera nkhaŵa kanthu kena. Kwa anyamata akuluakulu, palinso mawu ena omwe amasonyeza momwe mnyamata ayenera kukhalira - ayenera kusonyeza kulimba kwa khalidwe, osati kukhala nkhuku yamantha. Mnyamata akamva mawu onsewa m’moyo wake wonse, amasanduka phunziro losalekeza la mmene mwamuna ayenera kuchita.
Malingana ndi malingaliro akalewa, mwamuna sayenera kusonyeza malingaliro ake ndi malingaliro ake, ndipo makamaka kubisa maganizo ake. Ngati mumakhulupirira zachabechabezi, ndiye kuti mwamuna ayenera kukhala wokhwimitsa zinthu komanso wosachita zinthu. Zimenezi zikutanthauza kuti makhalidwe monga chifundo ndi chisamaliro ayenera kukanidwa monga zisonyezero za kufooka. N’zoona kuti si amuna onse amene analeredwa motere. Pali amuna okonda zamasamba ndi omenyera ufulu wa zinyama omwe ali osiyana ndendende ndi chithunzi chomwe chili pamwambapa.
Ndinakambirana ndi amuna amene ankakonda kuoneka ngati mwamuna, koma kenako ndinaganiza zosintha. Mnzanga wina ankakonda kusaka mbalame, akalulu ndi nyama zina zakutchire. Iye ananena kuti nthawi iliyonse akayang’ana nyama zimene wapha, ankadziimba mlandu. Anamvanso chimodzimodzi pamene anangovulaza nyama yomwe inatha kuthawa kuti ikafe mopweteka kwambiri. Kudziimba mlandu kumeneku kunamuvutitsa. Komabe, vuto lake lenileni linali chenicheni chakuti iye anawona kudzimva liwongo kumeneku kukhala chizindikiro cha kufooka, kumene sikuli kwachimuna. Anali wotsimikiza kuti ngati apitirizabe kuwombera ndi kupha nyama, ndiye kuti tsiku lina adzatha kuchita zimenezo popanda kudziimba mlandu. Kenako adzakhala ngati alenje ena onse. N’zoona kuti sankadziwa mmene ankamvera chifukwa mofanana ndi iye, iwo sankasonyeza mmene akumvera mumtima mwawo. Izi zidapitilira mpaka mnyamata wina adamuuza kuti kusafuna kupha nyama ndikwabwinobwino, ndiye mnzanga adavomereza yekha kuti sakonda kusaka. Yankho lake linali losavuta - anasiya kusaka ndi kudya nyama, kotero kuti palibe amene anafunikira kumupha nyama.
Abambo ambiri, ngakhale atakhala kuti sanagwirepo mfuti m’moyo wawo, akadali m’chisokonezo chomwechi. Mwina yankho la nkhaniyi liyenera kufunidwa penapake m’mbiri ya anthu. Anthu oyambirira anali osaka nyama, koma kusaka inali njira yopezera chakudya chowonjezera. Kwa mbali zambiri, kusaka inali njira yopanda phindu yopezera chakudya. Komabe, kupha nyama kwayamba kugwirizana ndi umuna ndi mphamvu zathupi. Mwachitsanzo, m’fuko la Amasai a ku Afirika, mnyamata wina sanalingaliridwa kukhala msilikali wamphamvu zonse kufikira atapha mkango yekha yekha.
Anthu omwe ankapeza chakudya chachikulu anali amayi omwe ankatolera zipatso, zipatso, mtedza ndi mbewu. M’mawu ena, akazi ndiwo ankagwira ntchito zambiri. (Sizinasinthe kwambiri kuyambira pamenepo?) Kusaka kukuwoneka kuti kwakhala kofanana ndi maphwando amasiku ano aamuna kapena kupita kumasewera a mpira. Palinso chifukwa china chimene amuna ambiri amadyera nyama kuposa akazi, mfundo imene imaonekera nthaŵi zonse ndikalankhula ndi gulu la achinyamata. Iwo amakhulupiriradi kuti kudya nyama, makamaka yofiira, kumawathandiza kumanga minofu. Ambiri a iwo amakhulupirira kuti popanda nyama akanakhala pakhomo komanso ofooka thupi. Inde, njovu, chipembere ndi gorila ndi zitsanzo zabwino kwambiri za zomwe zimachitika munthu akamadya zamasamba zokha.
Zonse zomwe zili pamwambazi zikufotokoza chifukwa chake pali okonda zamasamba ambiri kuwirikiza kawiri pakati pa akazi kuposa amuna. Ngati ndinu dona ndipo ndinu wosadya zamasamba kapena wosadya zamasamba, konzekerani mawu awa - kuphatikiza a abambo anu. Chifukwa ndinu mkazi - ndinu otengeka kwambiri. Simukuganiza zomveka - iyi ndi njira ina yosonyezera kuti chisamaliro sichikufunika. Zonse chifukwa chakuti ndinu otengeka kwambiri - mwa kuyankhula kwina, wofewa kwambiri, wodekha. Simudziwa zowona chifukwa sayansi ndi ya amuna. Zomwe zonsezi zikutanthawuza ndikuti simukuchita ngati "wanzeru" (wopanda chidwi, wosakhudzidwa), wanzeru (wopanda chifundo). Tsopano mukufunikira chifukwa chabwino chokhalira kapena kukhala wosadya zamasamba.