Zamkatimu
1. Kulitsani 'hygge' monga banja
Kodi mudamvapo za Danish "hygge" (kutchulidwa "huggueu")? Atha kumasuliridwa kuti "kucheza ndi banja kapena abwenzi". Anthu aku Danes adakweza hygge kukhala luso lamoyo. Izi nthawi za conviviality zimalimbitsa kumverera kwa kukhala nawo.
Chitani kunyumba. Gawani chochita ndi banja lanu. Mwachitsanzo, yambani kupanga fresco yayikulu palimodzi. Hygge amathanso kuyimba nyimbo yokhala ndi mawu angapo. Bwanji osapanga gulu lanyimbo zabanja?
2. Yesani popanda kupewa
Ku Denmark, makolo amatsatira lingaliro la "proximal zone" ndi ana awo. Iwo ali mu kutsagana, koma amapereka mwana danga kuyesa. Poyang'ana, kukwera ... mwanayo amamva kuti ali ndi mphamvu pa zovuta zake ndi zovuta zake. Amaphunziranso kuyang'anira mlingo wa ngozi ndi nkhawa zomwe ubongo wake ungathe kupirira.
Chitani kunyumba. Msiyeni akwere, yesani ... osalowererapo! Inde, zimakukakamizani kutembenuza lilime lanu maulendo 7 mkamwa mwanu mukaona mwana wanu akuchita ngati nkhumba!
3. Reframing zabwino
M'malo mokhala opusa achimwemwe, aku Danes amachita "positive reframing". Mwachitsanzo, ngati kugwa mvula patchuthi, munthu wa ku Dane adzafuula kuti, “Chic, ndidzipinda pabedi ndi ana anga,” m’malo motukwana thambo. Chotero, makolo a ku Denmark, ayang’anizana ndi mkhalidwe woti mwanayo atsekerezedwa, amamuthandiza kuwongolera maganizo ake kuti asinthe mkhalidwewo kuti ukhale ndi moyo wabwinoko.
Chitani kunyumba. Mwana wathu amatiuza kuti ndi "woipa pa mpira"? Vomerezani kuti ulendo uno sanasewere bwino, kwinaku akumupempha kuti akumbukire nthawi zomwe amagoletsa zigoli.
4. Muzimvera ena chisoni
Ku Denmark, maphunziro achifundo ali oumirizidwa kusukulu. Kusukulu, ana amaphunzira kufotokoza maganizo awo moona mtima. Amati ngati akhumudwitsidwa, ali ndi nkhawa… Chifundo chimakulitsa kudzimva kukhala wofunika.
Chitani kunyumba. Ngati mwana wanu akufuna kuseka mnzanu, m’limbikitseni kuti anene za iye mwini kuti: “Kodi munamva bwanji pamene ananena zimenezi kwa inu? Mwinanso amamva chisoni? ”
5. Limbikitsani kusewera kwaulere
Mu sukulu ya sukulu ya Danish (osakwana zaka 7) nthawi zonse amadzipereka kusewera. Ana amasangalala kuthamangitsana wina ndi mzake, kumenyana ndi zabodza, kusewera mwaukali komanso mwankhanza. Pochita masewerawa, amakulitsa kudziletsa, ndipo amaphunzira kulimbana ndi mikangano. Kupyolera mu masewera aulere, mwanayo amaphunzira kuwongolera bwino malingaliro ake.
Chitani kunyumba. Lolani mwana wanu azisewera momasuka. Payekha kapena ndi ena, koma popanda kulowererapo kwa makolo. Ngati masewerawa akuchulukirachulukira, afunseni kuti, “Kodi mukusewerabe kapena mukumenyera nkhondo zenizeni?” ”