Nthawi yaunyamata ingakhale nthawi yovuta, pamene makolo angakhale osungulumwa kwambiri komanso opanda chithandizo pamene wachichepereyu ali m’vuto la kudziwika. Samvetsetsa zosowa, ziyembekezo, sangathe kuzikwaniritsa. Vuto likakhalapo ndiponso maunansi abanja akusokonekera, kuitana mphunzitsi kungathandize kupuma pang’ono.

Aphunzitsi apadera amapangidwa kuti athandize achinyamata omwe ali m'mavuto ndi mabanja awo kuti athe kudutsa njira yovuta yaunyamata.

Kuti apeze mutu wa mphunzitsi, katswiriyu ali ndi maphunziro olimba a zaka zosachepera zitatu za maphunziro osiyanasiyana, makamaka mu psychology ya ana ndi achinyamata, mu chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi njira ndi njira za maphunziro apadera.

Iye ndi wa gawo la anthu ogwira nawo ntchito, zomwe zimamulola kuti alowererepo monga mphunzitsi kwa achinyamata m'mabungwe ambiri: kukwera, nyumba yophunzirira kapena ntchito yotseguka ya chilengedwe.

Iye akhoza kugwira ntchito zosiyanasiyana:

• kukhala ndi udindo wa mphunzitsi wa makolo;
• kukhala ndi udindo wa mlangizi wa maphunziro;
• kukhala mphunzitsi wapadera pamalo otseguka kapena otsekedwa.

Pamilandu yokhudzana ndi zilango zamalamulo, palinso aphunzitsi ochokera ku Judicial Protection of Youth omwe amasankhidwa kukhala Directorate of the Ministry of Justice.

Palinso akatswiri odziyimira pawokha, otchedwa mphunzitsi wamaphunziro, mkhalapakati kapena mlangizi wa makolo. Kusowa kwalamulo pankhani ya mayina sikupangitsa kuti zitheke kuzindikira maphunziro omwe akatswiriwa amalandira.

Kuposa ntchito, ntchito

Ntchito imeneyi sitingaphunzire kwathunthu kudzera mu maphunziro. Aphunzitsi ena ndi amene kale anali achichepere m’mavuto. Chifukwa chake iwo amadziwa bwino zowongolera zokondweretsa ndipo amachitira umboni, mwa bata ndi kupezeka kwawo, za kuthekera kotulukamo. Nthawi zambiri amakhala othandiza kwambiri pantchito yawo yophunzitsa, chifukwa amadziwa zovuta zake ndipo adzichitikira okha mabuleki ndi zolephereka kuti azigwira ntchito.

Kaimidwe ka mphunzitsi ndi kopambana zonse kupanga chomangira chakukhulupirirana ndi wachinyamatayo ndi banja lake.

Zokumana nazo zambiri zakumunda ndizofunikira komanso kuyeseza komanso kudziwa. Chisoni ndichofunikanso, sikuti ndikuphunzitsa achinyamata opanda pakewa kuti alowe mumzere, koma kumvetsetsa zomwe amafunikira kuti akhale ndi moyo wamtendere pakati pa anthu.

Mphunzitsi, yemwe nthawi zambiri amaitanidwa ndi makolo, amayamba kuyang'ana ndikukambirana kuti adziwe komwe vuto liri:

• mikangano ya m’banja, chiwawa, kukwiyira makolo;
• vuto la kuphatikiza akatswiri ndi chikhalidwe;
• khalidwe lodana ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu, zigawenga;
• kuledzera kwa mankhwala;
• uhule.

Amagwira ntchito limodzi ndi dokotala wopezekapo, kuti adziwe zifukwa zonse zokhudzana ndi matenda a thupi kapena maganizo, omwe angafotokoze khalidweli.

Zifukwa izi zitachotsedwa, azitha kuphunzira:

• malo a achinyamata (malo okhala, chipinda, sukulu);
• zokonda ;
• mlingo wa sukulu;
• malamulo a maphunziro kapena kusowa kwa malire ogwiritsidwa ntchito ndi makolo.

Njira yake ndi yapadziko lonse lapansi yothandizira kwambiri wachinyamatayo ndi banja lake. Akakhala ndi zinthu zonsezi, angathe kudziikira zolinga zachipambano, nthaŵi zonse kulankhula ndi wachinyamatayo ndi banja lake, mwachitsanzo, “kuchepetsa mkwiyo, kuonjezera magiredi kusukulu, ndi zina zotero.” “.

Zolingazo zikakhazikitsidwa, adzathandiza wachinyamatayo ndi banja lake kuzikwaniritsa mwa kulinganiza masitepewo. Monga othamanga mtunda wautali, sangathe kuchita mpikisano woyamba. Koma mwa kuphunzitsidwa ndi kuthamanga mochulukira, adzakwaniritsa zofuna ndi zolinga zawo.

Kulankhula ndikwabwino, kuchita ndikwabwinoko. Ophunzitsa apangitsa kuti zitheke kutsimikizira kufuna kusintha. Mwachitsanzo: zidzathandiza makolo kudziwa nthawi yogona, mikhalidwe yochitira homuweki, kangati kugwiritsa ntchito laputopu, etc.

Chifukwa cha kulowererapo kwa mphunzitsiyo, wachinyamatayo ndi banja lake adzakumana ndi zochita zawo ndi zotsatira zake. Choncho payenera kukhala kalilole wolimba ndi wachifundo ndikukumbutsa malamulo okhazikika pamene awa sakulemekezedwa kapena kulemekezedwa moyipa.

Zochitika zina zowawa m'moyo wa ana awo komanso m'moyo wawo zimafuna kulowererapo kwa munthu wina. Imfa ya wokondedwa, kupezerera anzawo kusukulu, kugwiriridwa… Kudzichepetsa ndi kuulula kulephera kungalepheretse makolo kuitana akatswiri. Koma anthu onse amafunikira thandizo panthaŵi ina m’moyo wawo.

Malinga ndi akatswiri a ku Consul'Educ, ndizothandiza kupeza uphungu musanafike pa nkhanza zakuthupi. Kumenya mbama si njira yothetsera vutolo ndipo makolo akamachedwetsa kukambirana m'pamenenso vutolo limakula kwambiri.

Hervé Kurower, woyambitsa Consul'Educ, Teacher-Educator for National Education kwa zaka zambiri, adawona kusowa kwenikweni kwa chithandizo cha maphunziro kunyumba panthawi ya ntchito zake. Iye amakumbukira kuti mawu akuti “maphunziro” poyambilira amachokera ku “ex ducer” kutanthauza kudzitulutsa, kukula, kuphuka.