Malingaliro amalingaliro a zomwe tinaphunzira mosazindikira kwa makolo athu amakhala amphamvu nthawi zonse kuposa zomwe timaphunzira mozindikira. Izi zimapangidwanso zokha nthawi iliyonse yomwe tili mumalingaliro, ndipo timakhala okhudzidwa nthawi zonse, chifukwa timakhala ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse. Kukambirana kwa Alexander Gordon ndi psychotherapist Olga Troitskaya. www.psychologos.ru
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Psychotherapy mwachibadwa imafalitsa, monga uthenga wake, lingaliro lakuti "Ndine wamng'ono, dziko ndi lalikulu."
Aliyense ali ndi deformation yakeyake. Ngati kwa zaka zambiri wapolisi ali ndi akuba, akuba ndi mahule okha pamaso pake, nthaŵi zina maganizo ake pa anthu sakhala osangalatsa kwa iye. Ngati psychotherapist imabwera kwa iwo omwe sangathe kulimbana ndi zovuta za moyo paokha, omwe sangathe kumvetsetsana ndi ena, omwe amavutika kudziletsa okha ndi mayiko awo, omwe sanazolowere kupanga zisankho zoyenera, izi zimapanga pang'onopang'ono masomphenya akatswiri a psychotherapist.
Katswiri wa zamaganizo nthawi zambiri amayesetsa kuonjezera chidaliro cha wodwalayo mu luso lake, komabe, amachoka ku lingaliro losadziwika (chiyambi) chomwe kwenikweni munthu sangayembekezere zambiri kwa wodwalayo. Anthu amafika pa nthawi yokumana osati mwanzeru kwambiri, m'malingaliro, nthawi zambiri sangathe kufotokoza bwino zomwe akufuna - amabwera m'malo mwa Wozunzidwa ... ndipo mwaukadaulo wosakwanira mu masomphenya a psychotherapeutic. Chinthu chokhacho chomwe chingakhale cholunjika kwa wodwalayo ndikuyika zinthu mwayekha, kukwaniritsa mgwirizano wamkati, ndikusintha dziko lapansi. Kugwiritsa ntchito fanizo, kwa psychotherapist, dziko nthawi zambiri limakhala lalikulu komanso lamphamvu, ndipo munthu (osachepera amene adabwera kudzamuwona) ndi wocheperako komanso wofooka poyerekeza ndi dziko lapansi. Onani →
Malingaliro oterowo angakhale odziwika kwa onse a psychotherapist ndi "munthu wochokera mumsewu" yemwe wadzazidwa ndi malingaliro ndi zikhulupiriro zotere.
Ngati kasitomala akukhulupirira kale kuti ndi wamng'ono pamaso pa chikomokere chachikulu, zingakhale zovuta kumutsimikizira, nthawi zonse pamakhala chiyeso chogwira naye ntchito mu psychotherapeutic. Mofananamo, kumbali ina: kasitomala amene amakhulupirira mphamvu zake, mu mphamvu ya chidziwitso chake ndi kulingalira, adzadandaula mokayikira polankhula za chikomokere. Mofananamo, ngati katswiri wa zamaganizo mwiniyo amakhulupirira mphamvu ya malingaliro, iye adzakhala wokhutiritsa mu psychology yachitukuko. Ngati sakhulupirira m'malingaliro ndikukhulupirira mu chikomokere, amangokhala ngati psychotherapist.