Mutha kukhala ndi kugonana kodabwitsa, kodabwitsa, koma ndi kupsompsona kodabwitsa kotani komwe mukukumbukira? Blogger James Woodroof pa zomwe kupsompsona kwachimuna kumatanthauza.
Kupsompsona, mosiyana ndi kugonana, ndi mchitidwe wachikondi umene sudziwika ndi khalidwe la machitidwe ake. Chofunika chake ndi chiopsezo. Iyi ndi nthawi yomwe, kwa nthawi yoyamba ndili ndekha ndi mtsikana, ndinadzimva kukhala wosatetezeka komanso wamanyazi. Chifukwa ndi kupsompsona kuti malire onse amatha.
Ndikukumbukira kupsompsona kwanga koyamba - ndipo pali wina amene sangamukumbukire? Dzina lake linali Natasha, ndipo ankakhala pafupi. Kutatsala tsiku limodzi kapena awiri kuti tsiku langa lobadwa la 13 likwane, adandiyimba belu la pakhomo kuti andifunira tsiku lobadwa losangalala. Atakhala chete osachita bwino, anandiitanira ku kanema. Sindikudziwa kuti n’chiyani chinandisangalatsa komanso chimene chinachititsa kuti azibwera pakhomo panga, koma tsopano ndinkangoganizira za mmene tingapitire limodzi naye kukaonera nawo mafilimu.
Tsiku limenelo linafika, tinakhala mbali ndi mbali, ndinamupatsa ma popcorn. Iye anakana ndipo anapitiriza kuyang'ana kutsogolo pa sikirini yopanda kanthu popanda kutembenuzira mutu wake kwa ine. Tinakhala mbali ndi mbali osayang'anana. Filimuyo itangoyamba, anandikumbatira m’mutu n’kundipsompsona.
Si amuna onse amene amalankhula mokweza maganizo awo. Kumvera kwina kungasonyezedwe mwa kukhudza
Kupsompsonako kunali koyamba, kotero sindimadziwa choti ndichite. Koma ndinamukonda, ndipo ndinamulola kuti azinditsogolera. Kupsompsona kumeneku sikunali kokongola kwambiri: kusadziwa kwathu ndi zingwe zake zidagwira ntchito, ndinamva kukoma kwa magazi mkamwa mwanga ndikuthamangira kuchimbudzi ...
Kupsompsona koyamba ndi kosaiwalika. Ndi mantha a zosadziwika ndi chikhumbo kukumana nazo. Imvani kulumikizana ndi munthu wina - pafupi kwambiri kuposa momwe mungaganizire.
Pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya ma kiss...
Kupsompsona koyamba. Chiwonetsero choyera cha chidwi, chidwi. Amayamba ngati nthabwala, ngati masewera, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo amakhala ndi mantha pang'ono. Malire sanadziwikebe. Kupsompsona koyamba ndikuyesa kumvetsetsa komwe ndiyambira, komwe ndikumaliza ndikuyamba. Lingaliro lachinsinsi, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo limabwera ndikukhala bata ndi chitetezo.
Kupsompsona kwa chilakolako chenicheni. Uku ndiye kupsompsona komwe kumafuna, kulimbikira ndipo sikungathe kudikirira. Waukali komanso wonyoza. Uku ndi kupsompsona komwe malingaliro onse amakwera kwambiri. Ndipo n’kupsompsona komweko komwe timaona m’mafilimu komwe kumatichititsa kumva ngati taphonya chinachake m’moyo wathu ngati tilibe mapsopsona amenewo.
Chifukwa timachifuna.
Mwamuna akapsompsona mkazi, tinganene kuti nkhonya yamphamvu ikagundana.
Kiss "Ndakusowa kwambiri". Zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti ndiye wofunikira kwambiri pa kupsompsona kulikonse komwe mwamuna angapereke kwa mkazi. Si amuna onse amene amalankhula mokweza maganizo awo. Zomverera zina zitha kuwonetsedwa kokha mwa kukhudza.
Mwamuna akakupsopsonani chifukwa wakusowani, ndi kukumbatirana komwe kumakukumbatirani nonse. Mutha kusochera, kutha mwa wina ndi mzake.
Ndipo pali malingaliro ochuluka okha, kuphulika kwa malingaliro osiyanasiyana, kulimba mtima, chiyembekezo, kuvomerezana wina ndi mzake, kudalirana ndi chidaliro. Kodi iwo ndi ndani, simunganene motsimikiza.
Mwamuna akapsompsona mkazi, tinganene kuti ndi nkhonya yachiwawa pa kugundana. Mphamvu ziwiri zotsutsana zimawombana kuti zipangitse kuwala.
Ndipo pakuphulika kumeneko, mwamunayo amanena zoona zenizeni za momwe amamvera ndi mkaziyo komanso malo omwe ali nawo pamoyo wake.