"Sindinachitepo mantha kukhala mayi wakhungu", nthawi yomweyo amalengeza Marie-Renée, mayi wa ana atatu ndi mphunzitsi pa Institute for achinyamata akhungu ku Paris. Mofanana ndi amayi onse, pa kubadwa koyamba, muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungasamalire mwana. ” Kuti muchite izi, ndi bwino kuti musinthe thewera nokha, kuyeretsa chingwe… akufotokoza amayi. Wakhungu amafunika kumva ndi kumva mwana wake. Ndiye iye akhoza kuchita chirichonse “Ngakhale kudula misomali yake”, akutsimikizira Marie-Renée.
Dzimasuleni nokha pamaso pa ena
Ku chipinda cha amayi oyembekezera, pobadwa mwana wake wachitatu, Marie-Renée akukumbukira mmene anakwiyira pamene mnzake wokhala naye m’chipinda chimodzi, mayi wina, anadzilola kumuweruza ponena za kulephera kwake kukhala mayi wabwino. Malangizo ake: "Musalole kuti muponderezedwe ndikumvera nokha".
Funso la bungwe
Malangizo ang'onoang'ono amakulolani kuti muthe kusintha chilema ku ntchito za tsiku ndi tsiku. "Zoonadi, zakudya zimatha kuwononga. Koma kugwiritsa ntchito bulawuzi ndi ma bibs kumachepetsa kupha ”, amayi amasangalala. Dyetsani mwanayo pomuika pa mawondo ake, m’malo mokhala pampando, amakulolani kulamulira kayendedwe ka mutu wanu.
Pankhani ya mabotolo a ana, palibe chomwe chingakhale chophweka. Mbale yomaliza maphunziro a anthu akhungu imawalola kuti amwedwe, ndi mapiritsi - osavuta kugwiritsa ntchito - kuwatsekereza.
Mwana akayamba kukwawa, zomwe muyenera kuchita ndikukonza malo musanamuike pansi. Mwachidule, musasiye chilichonse chili pozungulira.
Ana amene mwamsanga kuzindikira kuopsa
Mwana mwachangu kwambiri amazindikira kuopsa kwake. Potengera kumudziwitsa. “Kuyambira ali ndi zaka 2 kapena 3, ndinaphunzitsa ana anga kuwala kofiira ndi kobiriwira. Podziwa kuti sindikanatha kuwayang'ana adakhala anzeru kwambiri, akutero Marie-Renée. Koma ngati mwanayo alibe mtendere, ndi bwino kukhala ndi leash. Iye amadana nazo kwambiri moti mwamsanga amakhalanso wanzeru! “