Nsonga zisanu ndi zitatu, mawu olekanitsa asanu ndi atatu. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti pali zokhumudwitsa zochepa m'moyo wa mwana wamkazi ndi malo ochuluka a chisangalalo.
Ayi, ayi, musade nkhawa, izi ndizochitika pamene palibe amene adamwalira. Caitlin Moran ndi mtolankhani wodziwika waku Britain komanso wolemba. Iye analemba mabuku akuti "Momwe Mungakulire Mtsikana" ndi "Momwe Mungakhalire Mkazi". Ndipo Caitlin adadziwika kuti ndi wolemba nkhani ku England kangapo. Ndipo ali ndi nthabwala zodabwitsa. Komabe, mudzadziwonera nokha.
Anayenera kulemba kalata yotere chifukwa cha mpikisano woperekedwa ku chitsitsimutso cha mtundu wa epistolary. Caitlin anatulutsa ntchito - kulembera kalata mwana wanu ngati wamwalira ndipo adzaiwerenga mukamwalira. Wankhanza, ndikuganiza. Koma chidziwitso.
Kumanani ndi Caitlin Moran
Kalata ya Caitlin inapita kwa mwana wake wamkazi wazaka khumi ndi zitatu (mtolankhaniyo ali ndi ana aakazi awiri. Kalatayo inalembedwa kwa wamkulu). “Ndimasuta kwambiri. Ndipo nthawi imeneyo ndikamaona ngati mbewa yaing'ono ikukanda m'mapapu mwanga, ndimakhala ndi chikhumbo cholemba kalata "Tsopano ndafa, nawa malangizo anga amomwe ndingakhalire opanda amayi," adatero Caitlin. m’mawu oyamba a kalatayo. Ndipo ndi izi.
"Wokondedwa Lizzie. Moni, awa ndi amayi. Ndine wakufa. Pepani nazo. Ndikukhulupirira kuti maliro anali abwino. Adadi adayimba Mfumukazi ya “Musandiyimitse Tsopano” pamene bokosi langa lamaliro linkapita ku uvuni wowotchera mitembo? Ndikukhulupirira kuti aliyense adayimba ndikuyimba gitala mongoganizira momwe ndimafunira. Ndipo kuti aliyense anali ndi masharubu a Freddie Mercury, monga ndinapempha mu kalata ya "Mapulani Anga a Maliro" yomwe inayikidwa mufiriji kuyambira 2008, pamene ndinali ndi chimfine choopsa.
Onani, apa pali zinthu zingapo zomwe mungapeze zothandiza m'zaka zikubwerazi. Uwu si mndandanda wokwanira wa maupangiri, koma ndi chiyambi chabwino. Komanso, Ine ndiri zambiri inshuwalansi moyo ndipo anapereka chirichonse kwa inu, kotero kusangalala pa eBay ndi kugula anthu madiresi mpesa mumakonda kwambiri. Mwakhala wokongola kwambiri mwa iwo nthawi zonse. Mwakhala wokongola nthawi zonse.
Caitlin analera ana aakazi aŵiri pafupifupi achikulire
Chinthu chachikulu ndikuyesera kukhala munthu wabwino. Ndiwe wokongola kale - mpaka zosatheka! - ndipo ndikufuna kuti mupitirize kukhala choncho. Pang'onopang'ono onjezerani kukongola kwanu, sinthani ngati kuwongolera voliyumu. Ingosankhani kuwala, nthawi zonse komanso mopanda chilichonse, monga nyali yotentha pakona. Ndipo anthu adzafuna kuyandikana nanu kuti azisangalala komanso kuti aziwerenga mosavuta. Mudzakhala owala nthawi zonse m'dziko lodzaza ndi zodabwitsa, kuzizira ndi mdima. Izi zimakupulumutsirani nkhawa yakuti muyenera “kukhala wathanzi,” “kukhala wopambana kuposa wina aliyense,” ndi “wochepa thupi kwambiri.”
Chachiwiri, nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti nthawi zisanu ndi zinayi mwa khumi, kuwonongeka kumatha kupewedwa ndi kapu ya tiyi ndi makeke. Mungadabwe kuti ndi mavuto angati omwe zinthu ziwirizi zimatha kuthetsa. Ingotenga cookie wamkulu.
Chachitatu, nthawi zonse chotsani mphutsi mumsewu ndikuziyika pa udzu. Ali ndi tsiku loyipa, ndipo amafunikira ... malo kapena china chake (afunseni abambo za izi, sindili pamutu pang'ono).
Chachinayi, sankhani mabwenzi amene mumamasuka nawo. Pamene nthabwala zimakhala zosavuta komanso zomveka, pamene zikuwoneka kwa inu kuti mwavala zovala zanu zabwino kwambiri, ngakhale mutavala T-shirt yosavuta.
Osakonda munthu yemwe mukuganiza kuti akuyenera kusintha. Ndipo musakonde munthu amene amakupangitsani kumva ngati mukufunika kusintha. Pali anyamata ofunafuna atsikana owala. Adzaimirira mbali imodzi ndikunong'oneza chiphe m'makutu mwanu. Mawu awo adzayamwa chimwemwe mu mtima mwanu. Mabuku a vampire ndi oona, mwana. Konzani chibowo mu mtima mwake ndikuthamanga.
Khalani mwamtendere ndi thupi lanu. Musaganize kuti mulibe mwayi ndi iye. Phunzirani mapazi anu ndikuwathokoza kuti atha kuthamanga. Ikani manja anu pamimba panu ndikusangalala ndi momwe zimakhalira zofewa komanso zofunda; sangalalani ndi dziko lozungulira mkati, mawotchi odabwitsa. Momwe ndidapangira mukakhala mkati mwanga ndipo ndimalota za inu usiku uliwonse.
Nthawi zonse mukalephera kuganiza zomwe munganene pokambirana, funsani anthu mafunso. Ngakhale mukulankhula ndi munthu amene amasonkhanitsa zomangira ndi mabawuti, mwina simudzakhalanso ndi mwayi wina wophunzira zambiri za zomangira ndi mabawuti, ndipo simudziwa ngati zingakhale zothandiza.
Mabuku a Caitlin adagulitsidwa kwambiri
Chifukwa chake upangiri wotsatirawu ukutsatira: moyo umagawika kukhala nthawi yodabwitsa yosangalatsa komanso zochitika, zomwe zimatha kunenedwa ngati nthano. Mutha kudutsa chilichonse ngati mukuganiza momwe mutafotokozera anzanu za izi, ndipo amalankhula modabwitsa komanso osakhulupirira. Inde, inde, nkhani zonsezi “O, ndikuwuzani chiyani tsopano! ..” Ndiyeno – nkhani yochititsa chidwi.
Mwana, kumana ndi kutuluka kwadzuwa ndi kulowa kwadzuwa momwe mungathere. Thamangani m'minda kuti mukanunkhe maluwa akuphuka. Nthawi zonse onetsetsani kuti mutha kusintha dziko, ngakhale kachidutswa kakang'ono. Ganizirani nokha ngati roketi yasiliva yoyendetsedwa ndi nyimbo zokweza ndi mabuku m'malo mwa mamapu ndi zolumikizira. Khalani opambanitsa, okonda nthawi zonse, kuvina mu nsapato zabwino, lankhulani ndi Abambo ndi Nancy za ine tsiku lililonse ndipo musayambenso kusuta. Zili ngati kugula chinjoka choseketsa chomwe chimakula ndikuwotcha nyumba yanu yayikulu.
Ndimakukondani amayi.