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Moni, owerenga okondedwa a Valery Kharlamov's blog! Kuzindikira ndi luso lotha kulosera zochitika potengera zomwe wakumana nazo komanso zomwe wapeza. Zigawo zake zazikulu ndi kulingalira, intuition ndi kuzindikira. Munthu samabadwa ali ndi chidziwitso chokhazikika. Zimakula m'moyo wonse, kotero ngati nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuti musamangodziwiratu, koma ngakhale kuyembekezera zotsatira za zochita zanu, musataye mtima, lero ndikukuuzani momwe mungaphunzitsire luso limeneli mwa inu nokha.
Njira Zapamwamba
1 Kuganizira
Kwa kanthawi, muyenera kusintha kukhala Sherlock Holmes, ndiye kuti, zindikirani zilizonse, ngakhale zazing'ono. Ndipo akumbukireni. Mufunika izi kuti mukulitse gawo lachidziwitso, ndikumvetsetsa momwe zochitikazo zingakhalire.
Mwachitsanzo, tayerekezerani kuti mwawerenga nkhani yonena za kulankhulana popanda mawu. Tsopano, poyang’anitsitsa bwino mmene amachitira ndi nkhope ya amene ankalankhula naye, anazindikira kuti akunama, n’chifukwa chake sanagwirizane naye kuti agwirizane naye. Motero, iwo anasunga mbiri yawo ndi mkhalidwe wandalama wa kampaniyo. Ndiuzeni, kodi mungamvetse kuti kuyanjana ndi munthu uyu ndi imodzi mwamalingaliro oyipa kwambiri, ngakhale amalankhula mwaluso, kukopa, komanso kuyesa lingalirolo, ngati simunamvetsere mawonekedwe ake osalankhula?
Kwa kamphindi zingawoneke kuti chinachake chauzimu ndi chachinsinsi chikuchitika pamene wina akulengeza motsimikiza kuti ntchito zina alibe chiyembekezo, ndipo m'pofunika kusinthana ndi ntchito zosiyana kotheratu, ndipo kenako likukhalira zolondola. Pali kumverera kuti munthu woteroyo amatha kuwona zam'tsogolo, kuwerenga malingaliro kapena kupanga mgwirizano ndi mdierekezi, posinthanitsa ndi mphatso ya clairvoyance.
Koma kwenikweni, ndi chiwonetsero chabe cha gawo lachidziwitso lophunzitsidwa bwino. Ndiko kuti, ali ndi kuganiza bwino, kukumbukira, chidwi, etc. Choncho, ine amati inu ndithudi ntchito malangizo a m'nkhani «Momwe mungaphunzire mfundo za Sherlock Holmes deductive njira."
2. Phunzirani "kuwerenga pakati pa mizere"
Ndiko kuti, yesani kusanthula zolinga za anthu ena. Ichi ndichifukwa chake wina amadzilowetsa m'mabwenzi, winayo amachedwa nthawi zonse kumisonkhano ndi inu, zomwe zimamukwiyitsa kwambiri, ndipo wachitatu amalankhula m'njira yoti nzosamvetsetseka zomwe akufuna ndi zina zotero?
Pokhapokha, kuti musakhale munthu wogwidwa ndi schizophrenia ndikukhala m'maganizo, nthawi ndi nthawi yerekezerani zomwe mumaganiza ndi zenizeni. Chifukwa chake mudzadziwa chomwe chinali chabwino ndi cholakwika, mudzapeza chidziwitso pakumvetsetsa anthu ndi inu nokha, kuphatikiza. Kufananiza kumachitika mothandizidwa ndi mafunso achindunji. Zowona, ndikofunikira kuganizira ndikusankha nthawi yomwe adzakhale, titero, "pamutu", ndiye kuti, iwo adzawoneka owoneka bwino komanso opanda pake.
Kukwera mu moyo sikuli koyenera, kuyesa kufika pansi pa choonadi. Koma ngati mumkhalidwe wodekha munganene kuti: "Ndikufuna kukufunsani kwa nthawi yayitali, ndikungodabwa, chifukwa chiyani mwandisankha?" ndi zina zotero, ndizotheka kuti mudzamvedwa.
Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, muyenera kusanthula chilichonse mwazochita zanu. Ngati muphunzira kumvetsetsa nokha, mudzamvetsetsa bwino maganizo a anthu omwe akuzungulirani. Chifukwa chake sungani zomwe mukumva, chifukwa chake, ndikuganiza momwe mungathanirane nazo - pakadali pano, dziko lonse lapansi lidzakutsegulirani, ndipo moyo udzasintha kwambiri.
3. Zolemba
Kumbukirani kuti kulingalira, ndiko kuti, kulemba malingaliro, zochitika zina, malingaliro, ndi zina zotero, ndizothandiza kwambiri pakuzindikira. Chifukwa chake, pezani kope kapena kope komwe mungalembe zomwe mwawona, kukayikira ndi mafunso.
Mwachitsanzo, mumalankhula ndi mnzanu ndipo munawona kuti anali wovuta kwambiri, koma pazifukwa zina zokhudzana ndi inu - konzekerani izi ndikukhala tcheru kwambiri kwa iye m'tsogolomu kuti mupeze yankho la funso la chifukwa chiyani. ali pafupi kwambiri ndi inu. Mantha, kapena kukhala ndi pakati kuti agwetse pamalo omwe ankafunidwa? Kapena mwina kukangana kumawonekera chifukwa chozindikira kuti ndinu wantchito wovomerezeka?
4. Woyang’anira
Khalani wopenyerera wamuyaya wotero. Nthawi yafika pamene kuli koyenera "kukwiya", ndiko kuti, kusinthana ndi zochitika zakunja ndi chilengedwe. Lowezani malo atsopano, misewu, zikwangwani za masitolo ndi mayina a misewu, anthu omwe mumakumana nawo pafupipafupi, ndi chirichonse, chirichonse, chirichonse chimene chimakopa maso anu.
Munthawi yanu yaulere, muyenera kuyamwa zidziwitso ngati siponji, ndiye kuti zidzakhala zovuta kukupusitsani, kapena kukukhazikitsani, chifukwa kuzindikira kumakulolani kuyembekezera nthawi zoterezi.
5. Maganizo
Kodi mphatso yowoneratu ingakhale yotani ngati munthu samva, kapena sakhulupirira mawu ake amkati? Phunzitsani chidziwitso chanu pophunzira kudalira nokha - zidzakhala zosavuta kulosera zomwe zikuchitika ndikupanga zisankho zoyenera, nthawi zina ngakhale zomwe zingapulumutse miyoyo.
Ngati simukumvetsa kuti ndi chiyani komanso momwe mungaphunzitsire, zilibe kanthu, njira zabwino kwambiri zafotokozedwa m'nkhaniyi.
6. Dzikhulupirireni
Phunzirani kukhulupirira zigamulo zanu ndi ziganizo, makamaka ngati mlingo wa kudzidalira kwanu ukusiya zambiri zofunika. Koma, panthawi imodzimodziyo, musafulumire ndipo musamaganize mopupuluma, khalani, pamodzi ndi makhalidwe ena, kuleza mtima ndi chipiriro.
Zidzakhala zogwira mtima ngati mutayesa nthawi imodzi njira zomwe zasonyezedwa m'nkhani yakuti "Kulimbitsa ndi kuphunzitsa mphamvu zanu ndi khalidwe lanu."
7. “Bwanji ngati?”
Sewerani masewerawa: "Bwanji ngati?". Lolani malingaliro anu asokonezeke ndipo mulole malingaliro anu ofuna kudziwa abwere ndi mafunso achilendo komanso ovuta. Pamene mukusankha njira zabwino kwambiri, ndizotheka kuti mutha kuzindikira - yankho la funso lofunika lomwe limabwera mosayembekezereka, ndipo, titero, mbandakucha.
8. Kukayikira
Kukayika zomwe zikuchitika, mawu ndi zochita za ena, osati mokweza, koma kwa inu nokha, kuganiza ndi kusanthula. Chinthu chachikulu chomwe muyenera kukumbukira ndi chakuti izi ndi maphunziro, ndipo mumangofuna kukhala ndi luso lodziwiratu ndi kuyembekezera, mwinamwake mumatha kutaya maubwenzi ndi okondedwa anu.
9. Kufananiza
Khalani ndi chizoloŵezi chofanizira, kaya ndi zochita za munthu mmodzi, kapena zochitika zachilengedwe. Kodi tsikuli linali bwanji chaka chatha? Kodi nyengo inali yotani? Kodi ndi zinthu ziti zimene zinachitika? Yesetsani kuyang'ana zosiyana ndi zofanana.
10. Kuganiza
Kuwonetsetsa ndikofunika kwambiri, koma musaiwale za kuganiza. Komanso, zonse zomveka komanso zofananira, ndiko kuti, kulenga. Kupanda kutero, sitidzatha kufika pamalingaliro ndi mfundo zogwira mtima. Chifukwa chake, khalani ndi malingaliro ochokera m'nkhani yakuti "Njira Zopangira kuganiza motsatira" ndikuyamba maphunziro.
Kutsiliza
Ndipo ndizo zonse lero, owerenga okondedwa! Kuzindikira kumathandiza kukwaniritsa bwino, kuzindikira ndi kulemekeza, monga anthu omwe amatha kumvetsetsa "miyoyo yaumunthu", omwe amatha kuganiza momveka bwino ndikuthandizira zokambirana zilizonse ndizofunika kwambiri padziko lapansi.
Potsatira njira zomwe zili pamwambazi, simudzangozindikira komanso kumvetsera, komanso kukulitsa luso lanu lanzeru. Ndipo zinthu zonsezi zimatha kukutetezani kukunyengerera ndi mabodza, kuti mutha kumanga tsogolo lanu losangalala. Chifukwa chake werengani, phunzitsani ndikudzisamalira!