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Oyembekezera kapena ndi ana: Konzani ukwati wanu
Kuti akhazikitse banja lawo, kuti asangalatse ana, chifukwa zaka khumi zapitazo iwo sanafune koma lero inde ... maanja ena amabwerera mmbuyo ku nyimbo ya "Anali ndi ana ambiri ndipo adakwatirana". Kukhala ndi ana anu monga mboni zaukwati wanu, kukhala ndi pakati pa miyezi ingapo ndi kuvala chovala choyera, chirichonse ndi kotheka!
Okwatirana ndi makolo
Marina Marcourt, wolemba buku la "Organiser son mariage" ku Eyrolles, amapereka upangiri wofunikira kwa okwatirana kumene omwe ali kale makolo kapena amayi ali ndi pakati: ngati mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ali kale makolo a mwana wosapitirira zaka 5, ndi bwino kuzipereka kwa achibale, kuti apindule kwambiri ndi tsiku lokongolali. ndi kuyang'anira bungwe. Mosaiwala kuwabweretsa ku chithunzi chowombera.
Pambuyo pa zaka 5 kapena 6, ana akhoza kutenga udindo wofunika kwambiri. Kaŵirikaŵiri akapezeka pagululo, iwo angakonde kugwirizanitsidwa ndi tsiku lalikulu limeneli polemekeza chigwirizano cha makolo awo. Akulu angasankhidwe kukhala mboni.
Maumboni ochokera kwa amayi
Cécile ndi mwamuna wake anaganiza zokhala ndi mwana mu 2007. Atapima matenda achikazi, madokotala amawauza kuti ulendowo udzakhala wautali. Amaganizira kwambiri za kukonzekera ukwati wawo. Masiku khumi chikondwererochi chisanachitike, paupangiri wa gynecologist Cécile amayesa magazi. Amakhala odabwitsa. Gynecologist amapanga nthawi yoti apite ku ultrasound. Vuto, Lachisanu ndi tsiku la kukonzekera kwakukulu ndi kukongoletsa chipinda. Palibe vuto, Cécile amatenga ultrasound nthawi ya 9am. Chitsimikizo: pali shrimp yaing'ono ya masabata atatu pachithunzichi. Pa D-Day, ukwati umachitika mwachisangalalo, aliyense amafuna kuti mkwati ndi mkwatibwi akhale ndi makanda okongola. Madzulo, pokamba nkhani, Cécile ndi mwamuna wake amathokoza alendo awo. Ndipo auzeni omvera za kubwera kwa mwana ... m'miyezi 3. Pa Seputembara 9, 22, chikondwererocho chinali chosafa muzithunzi ndi makanema. Koma kwa okwatirana kumene, kumverera kokongola kwambiri ndiko kukhala kale "pa 2007" tsiku limenelo.
“Tinakwatirana kutchalitchi ndi kuholo ya tauni. Tinasankha Lachisanu, cha m’ma 16 koloko madzulo, kuti tipatse ana nthaŵi yoti agone. Tinali m'chipinda chokhala ndi "munda" wotsekedwa, kutali ndi msewu kuti athe kusewera panja panthawi ya aperitif yomwe inachitikanso kunja. Mkulu wathu adabweretsa mapangano ku mpingo, adanyada kwambiri. Anawo anasangalala kwambiri kutenga nawo mbali pa mwambowu, ndipo amalankhulabe nafe nthawi zonse. Komanso, pa chilengezocho, iwo ndi amene anaitanira anthu ku ukwati wa amayi ndi abambo. »Marina.
“Paukwati wathu, ndinali ndi pakati pa miyezi 6. Tinaganiza zokwatirana nditazindikira kuti ndili ndi mimba chifukwa sindinkafuna kukhala ndi dzina losiyana ndi la mwana wanga. Tinasankha tsiku laukwati mu May 2008, tinakwatirana mu August 2008 ndipo ndinabereka pa December 2. Banja lathu linatithandiza kukonza zinthu zonse. Sindisintha chisankho ichi. Madzulo pokhala ndi adzukulu 6 ndi adzukulu athu, ndife banja lalikulu logwirizana, tinasamalira ana athu tonse pamodzi. »Nadia