Mwana wanga akulotanso zoopsa
Mwachidziwitso, kuyambira ali ndi zaka 4, kugona kwa mwana wanu kumakhala kofanana ndi kwa munthu wamkulu. Koma, kuopa kukukhumudwitsani, vuto ndi mnzanu wa m’kalasi (kapena mphunzitsi wake), kusamvana kwa m’banja (pamsinkhu uwu, ana amalanda nkhani zathu zambiri pakati pa achikulire popanda kukhala ndi makiyi onse ndi kupeza mfundo zochititsa mantha nthaŵi zina) zingasokonezenso. usiku wake.
Kuopa chinthu chosanenedwa kungawonekerenso ngati mwanayo akumva kuti akuluakulu akumubisira chinachake.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuyika mawu pa mantha awa.
Ndikokereni chilombo!
Pofuna kuthandiza ana omwe ali m'maloto owopsa kuti adzipulumutse ku mantha aubwana wawo, katswiri wa psychoanalyst Hélène Brunschwig akusonyeza kuti amawajambula ndi kuwaponya papepala mitu yawo yodzaza ndi mano kapena zilombo zowopsya zomwe zimawonekera m'maloto awo ndi zilombo zoopsa zomwe zimawonekera. maloto awo. kupewa kugonanso. Kenako akuwalangiza kuti asunge zojambula zawo pansi pa kabati kuti mantha awo atsekeredwe muofesi yawo. Kuyambira kujambula mpaka kujambula, maloto owopsa amakhala ochepa komanso kugona kumabwerera!
Pamsinkhu uwu nawonso mantha a mdima amakhala ozindikira. Ichi ndichifukwa chake lingakhale lingaliro labwino kuyenda m'chipindamo ndikuthandizira mwana wanu kusaka "zilombo" zomwe zabisalamo pozindikira zowoneka bwino. Komanso patulani nthawi (ngakhale salinso “mwana”!) Kuti mupite naye kukagona. Ngakhale pazaka 5 kapena 6, mumafunikirabe kukumbatira ndi nkhani yowerengedwa ndi amayi kuti muchotse mantha ake!
Mankhwala si njira yothetsera
Popanda zotsatira za "mankhwala", mankhwala a homeopathic angathandize, nthawi zina, kuthandiza mwana wanu panthawi yachisokonezo. Koma musanyalanyaze zotsatira zamaganizo za mankhwalawa: mwa kumupatsa chizolowezi choyamwa ma granules angapo madzulo kuti mukhale ndi usiku wamtendere, mumamupatsa lingaliro lakuti mankhwala ndi gawo la mwambo wogona, basi. monga nkhani yamadzulo. Ichi ndichifukwa chake njira iliyonse yothandizira homeopathy iyenera kuchitika mwa apo ndi apo.
Koma, ngati kusokonezeka kwawo tulo kukupitirira ndipo mwana wanu akuwoneka kuti ali ndi maloto owopsya kangapo usiku, ndiye kuti ichi ndi chizindikiro cha vuto. Musazengereze kuyankhula ndi dokotala wanu, yemwe angakulozereni kwa psychotherapist kuti athetse vutolo.
Kuwerenga limodzi Kuti mumuthandize kugwiritsira ntchito chuma chake kuti athetse mantha ake, adziŵeni mantha ake. Mashelefu a masitolo ogulitsa mabuku ali odzaza ndi mabuku omwe amaika mantha a ana mu nkhani. - Pali maloto owopsa m'chipinda changa, ed. Gallimard achinyamata. - Louise amawopa mdima, ed. Natani |