Zamkatimu
Kukwiya pakulephera: chizindikiro chakukhumudwa
Nthawi zonse Loulou wathu akalakwitsa akamabwereza ndakatulo zake mwachitsanzo, amakwiya ndipo amafuna kuyambanso kuyambira pachiyambi, ali ndi mkwiyo wambiri. Akalemba chiganizo chimene mphunzitsi walamula n’kulakwitsa, amayankha mopambanitsa. Iye akuwoloka, ndi chizindikiro chachikulu cha kukwiyitsidwa, ndikuponya kope lake pansi. Kodi mwakumana ndi vuto? Chizindikiro chomwecho cha kukwiyitsidwa pamene sangapeze malo oyenera chipinda. Loulou wathu wakhumudwa, ndizo zonse!
Timamuperekeza popanda kuthetsa vuto lake
“N’zachilendo kuti mwana wazaka zapakati pa 6 ndi 8 amakwiya ngati zotsatira zake sizikukwaniritsa cholinga chake. Makamaka kuyambira pa msinkhu umenewo, ntchito zake zamagalimoto sizigwirizana ndi zomwe akuyembekezera pamene akuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ", akufotokoza David Alzieu, katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi psychotherapist *. Kwa ife nkhaniyi ingaoneke ngati yachilendo. "Koma kwa iye, izi zikuyimira moyo wake wonse. Samvetsa akauzidwa kuti si serious, chifukwa inde ndi serious! Kumupangitsa kuti azidalira luso lake,Cholinga chake ndi kuthandiza mwana wathu pomusonyeza kuti tikumvetsa zimene akumva. "Musazengereze kumufunsa ngati akufunikira thandizo popanda kumupatsa yankho, zomwe zingamukhumudwitse kwambiri", akufotokoza motero David Alzieu.
Amadzikakamiza: timakhala chete
Choncho palibe chodetsa nkhawa ngati maganizo amenewa ndi ofulumira komanso osasokoneza. "Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti izi zimabisala kukhumudwa komwe mwana sangathe kufotokoza mwanjira ina. Zitha kukhala chizindikiro cha kupsinjika, chinthu chomwe mwana amachitanthauzira ngati chofunikira kwa makolo kapena kusukulu ", akutero katswiri wazamisala asanawonjezere kuti: "Ana amakula akuwonetsa akulu awo. Ataona kuti makolo awo akukwiya akalephera kuthetsa vuto linalake, angayambe kudzikakamiza. “. Palibe chifukwa chodziimba mlandu pa zonsezi. Koma zabwino
kupsya mtima. “Uyenera kukhala wodekha,” akuumiriza motero katswiri wa zamaganizo. Ndipo timasonyeza kuti timamvera mwana wathu.
“Mwana akakhumudwa ndipo akuvutika kukhala wodekha, muyenera kukhala tcheru pakudya kwanu shuga. Shuga wowonjezera amakonda kukulitsa malingaliro. Iwo amapereka poyamba
kukondoweza maganizo. Koma amachita ngati mankhwala. M’kupita kwa nthaŵi, amachepetsa maganizo ndi kukhudza maganizo. ” Fotokozani David Alzieu, katswiri wazamisala ndi psychotherapist *
(*) Wolemba "Makhalidwe obisika a 10 a ana athu omwe amakhudzidwa kwambiri", lofalitsidwa ndi Jouvence