Zamkatimu
Mwana wanga akufuna chilichonse, nthawi yomweyo
Iye sangakhoze kudikira. Zimene anachita dzulo, adzachita chiyani mu ola limodzi? Sizomveka kwa iye. Amakhala nthawi yomweyo, alibe nthawi yoti avomereze kulepheretsa zopempha zake. Ngati sitifikira kulakalaka kwake nthaŵi yomweyo, kumatanthauza “kusatero” kwa iye.
Sangasiyanitse zosowa zake ndi zofuna zake. Anawona kagalimoto kakang'ono kameneka kali m'manja mwa wamkulu pa supermarket. Kwa iye, kukhala nacho ndikofunikira: kumamupangitsa kukhala wamphamvu, wamkulu. Akufuna kuti mumvetsere. Mwina simukupezeka pakali pano, palibe nthawi yokwanira yolankhula nanu. Kufuna chinachake kuchokera kwa inu ndi njira yake yopezera chikondi ndi chisamaliro kuchokera kwa inu.
Kukhumudwa kuphunzira
Kuchedwetsa kapena kusiya zilakolako zanu ndiko kukhumudwa. Kuti akule bwino, mwana amafunika kukhumudwa akadakali wamng’ono. Kudziŵa mmene angavomerezere kudzamthandiza kukhala m’gulu loganizira ena, kuzoloŵera malamulo a kakhalidwe ka anthu, ndiyeno, m’moyo wake wachikondi ndi waukatswiri, kukana zokhumudwitsa ndi zolephera. Zili kwa wamkulu kuti amuthandize kuthana ndi kukhumudwa kumeneku pochepetsa sewero.
Kupeza zilakolako zake zonse ndikuyesa, kuti mukhale ndi mtendere kapena chimwemwe chomupangitsa kukhala wosangalala. Komabe, ndizovuta kwambiri kumupatsa: ngati sitinganene kuti "ayi" kwa iye, sadzaphunzira kuchedwetsa zopempha zake, kuvomereza kusakondwa. Pamene akukula, sadzapirira zopinga zilizonse. Egocentric, wankhanza, adzakhala ndi nthawi yovuta kuyamikiridwa pagulu.
Kodi mungamukanize bwanji?
Akwaniritse zosowa zawo. Kodi ali ndi njala, ludzu, akugona? Sanakuwoneni tsiku lonse ndipo akupempha kukumbatira? Mukakumana ndi zosowa zawo zokhudza thupi ndi maganizo m'nthawi yake, mwanayo amaona kuti ndi wotetezeka, amakukhulupirirani mosavuta pamene inu funsani kuti kuchedwetsa zilakolako zake.
Mutha kuyembekezera. Malamulo omwe adakhazikitsidwa pasadakhale amakhala ngati zizindikiro. Nenani, "Tikupita kusitolo, mutha kuyang'ana chilichonse, koma sindikugulira zoseweretsa." “; "Ndikupatsirani maulendo awiri osangalatsa, koma ndi momwemo." Akanena, mukumbutseni za lamuloli, modekha komanso molimba mtima.
Imani nji. Chisankho chikapangidwa ndikufotokozedwa, palibe chifukwa chodzilungamitsira, zili choncho, kuyimitsa kwathunthu. Mukalowa kwambiri pazokambirana, m'pamenenso amaumirira. Usagonjetse mkwiyo wake: Malire omveka bwino amamuteteza ndi kumulimbikitsa. Ngati mukuvutika kukhala chete, chokanipo. Osanena kuti “ayi” nthawi zonse. Osachita mopambanitsa: pomuuza mwadongosolo "ayi" kapena "pambuyo pake", mungamupangitse kukhala wosaleza mtima, wosakhutira kwamuyaya yemwe amakhumudwa nthawi zonse ngati akuzunzidwa. Ipatseni zosangalatsa zanthawi yomweyo ndikusangalala ndi chisangalalo chake.