BDSM ndi chidule chovomerezeka padziko lonse lapansi chomwe chimaphatikiza machitidwe ena ogonana ndikuyimira "ukapolo, ulamuliro, chisoni, masochism." M'mbuyomu, BDSM inkaonedwa kuti ndi yopotoka komanso yowonongeka, koma posachedwapa maganizo awo asintha.
Malinga ndi zotsatira za zatsopano , chidwi cha BDSM ndichofala kwambiri ku Finland.
Monga gawo la kafukufukuyu, ophunzira a 8 adafunsidwa mafunso osiyanasiyana okhudzana ndi BDSM. Anapambananso mayeso a umunthu. Choncho, 137% ya amayi ndi 37% ya amuna adagwidwa ndi kugonana kamodzi kokha, pamene 23% ya amayi ndi 25% ya amuna adagonjetsa okondedwa awo kamodzi kamodzi. Kuonjezera apo, 32% ya amayi ndi 38% ya amuna adanena chidwi ndi BDSM.
"Anthu angaganize kuti ili ndi gulu labwino kwambiri, koma zotsatira zake zikuwonetsa chidwi chodabwitsa chomwe chikuwonetsedwa mu BDSM," adatero wolemba kafukufuku Markus Paarnio.
Ofufuzawa adapezanso kuti amuna ndi akazi omwe anali ndi chidwi ndi BDSM akhoza kufotokozedwa kuti ndi "otseguka ku zochitika zatsopano" ndipo amayi ambiri "osakhala nawo". Koma maubwenzi awa "anali ovuta kwambiri, zomwe zinapangitsa kuti pasakhale mfundo zenizeni." "Zikuwoneka kuti umunthu wa anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi BDSM siwosiyana ndi omwe sali," adatero Paarnio.
Zapezekanso kuti achinyamata komanso anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakonda kwambiri BDSM.
Komabe, zosintha zina zofunika sizinaganizidwe mu phunziroli. Asayansi sanaganizire maphunziro a omwe anafunsidwa. "Ntchito yam'mbuyomu ikuwonetsa kuti akatswiri a BDSM nthawi zambiri amakhala ophunzira kwambiri kuposa osachita," adatero Markus Paarnio.
Ngakhale zatsopanozi, asayansi akadali ndi zambiri zoti aphunzire za psychology ya BDSM. Chifukwa chake, mwachitsanzo, maphunziro amtsogolo adzayenera kuganizira za kufalikira kwake m'maiko osiyanasiyana.
Zolemba: Tatyana Zasypkina