Makolo: Chifukwa chiyani munapanga akauntiyi?
maviedepapagay: Pochita ziwawa choyamba. Tinkafuna kupereka chiyembekezo kwa ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe akufuna kukhala ndi ana, kuwauza kuti "ndizotheka! »Ndikusintha malingaliro okhudza kulera amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ndimalankhulabe mawu onyoza amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pa Twitter, pali ntchito yoti ndichite… Zimandibweretsera zosinthana zambiri komanso zimayambitsa misonkhano, mapulojekiti.
Ana anu aakazi atatu anabadwa chifukwa cha surrogacy (Surrogacy) ku United States, kodi munakhala ndi pakati bwanji?
Ubwino wake ndikuti palibe aliyense wa ife amene adakumana ndi vuto lokhala ndi pakati (ngakhale ndidakhalako pang'ono)! Koma tinali tidakali otopa kwambiri. Mtunda pakati pathu ndi Jill, mayi woberekera, kudikira zotsatira za mayeso, mayeso ndiyeno kubadwa kunali kovutitsa maganizo.
Kodi munamva bwanji mutakumbatira ana anu aakazi kwa nthawi yoyamba?
Iyo inali mphindi yanthawi yake. Tidapezekapo potumiza zonse. Kwa mapasawo, aliyense anagwira mmodzi m’manja mwake. Ndinayang'ana Romain, ndinayang'ana pa makanda ... Ndinachita mantha kwambiri, pa dziko lina. Ndinamva kusanganikirana nawo nthawi yomweyo. Ndinakhala ngati nkhuku ...
Mu kanema: Mafunso a Pierre, alias @maviedepapagay
Kodi padutsa nthawi yochuluka bwanji pakati pa polojekiti ya mwana wanu ndi kubadwa kwa mapasa?
Pakati pa masitepe oyambirira ndi kubadwa kwa akulu, pasanathe zaka ziwiri. Tinali ndi mwayi, chifukwa nthawi zina zimatenga nthawi yayitali. Tinapatsidwa opereka osadziwika (omwewo kwa atsikana atatu) mwachangu kwambiri. Jill adatilumikizana nthawi yomweyo ndipo sanapite padera.
Munagonjetsa bwanji zovutazo?
Tinakambirana zambiri za zomwe tikufuna. Kukumana ndi mabanja kudzera mu bungwe la ADFH * komwe tinapeza otsogolera. Tidayang'ana bungwe loyenera, tidali ndi chidaliro…Komanso ndi bungwe lazachuma. Pakati pa mtengo waulendo, loya, kutenga mimba, zimatengera pafupifupi ma euro 100. Kuwongolera, zonse sizinathe. Tonse tinawazindikira ana athu aakazi. Ali ndi zitupa, koma mulibe m'mabuku athu ojambulira banja lathu… Ndizopenga.
Ana atatu… mumadzikonzekeretsa bwanji?
Kachitatu, ndinatenga tchuthi cha makolo (chomwe chimatha mu October). M’maŵa, Romain nthawi zambiri amatenga ana okulirapo kupita nawo kusukulu. Ndipo ndimayendetsa madzulo. Patchuthi, timakonda kuyenda, koma mwadongosolo kwambiri, zonse zasungidwa. Tsiku ndi tsiku, timachita zomwe tingathe kuti tikhalebe okoma mtima ngakhale kuti nthawi zina timakhala okwiya, timakwiya monga momwe ndimaganizira ena… Kumapeto kwa sabata, ndikuyenda, kuphika, nyumba zosungiramo zinthu zakale ...
Kodi maganizo a ena pa ubwenzi wanu ndi olemera bwanji?
Ngati anthu ena sakonda, sititenga. Ndi madokotala, wothandizira amayi, nazale, zinthu zikuyenda bwino. Tinkachita mantha chaka choyamba cha sukulu, kulandira aphunzitsi, makolo ... Koma tinalandira zizindikiro za ulemu.
Kodi ana anu aakazi amafunsa mafunso okhudza kubadwa kwawo?
Ayi, chifukwa timawauza zonse. Timalankhula za Jill “mkazi amene anawavala” mopanda manyazi. Timamuimbira nthawi ndi nthawi. Ali ndi udindo wapadera, koma ubalewu ndi wamphamvu kwambiri.
Amakutcha chiyani?
Abambo! Sitinkafuna dzina la aliyense wa ife, “Papou” kapena chirichonse. Timayamikira kufanana kwa udindo umenewu. Tonse ndife bambo awo.
Mafunso ndi Katrin Acou-Bouaziz
* Mgwirizano wa mabanja ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. https://adfh.net/