Munthu anapangidwa motere: ndi zikhulupiriro zamatsenga ndi makhalidwe! Ochepa a ife timavomereza, koma timayika kufunikira kwakukulu kuposa momwe timaganizira ku zizindikiro zazing'ono, zamatsenga, komanso maphunziro a parascientific, monga kukhulupirira nyenyezi, clairvoyance kapena mizere ya dzanja. Kodi zikhulupiriro ndi makhalidwe amenewa zimachokera kuti? N’chifukwa chiyani tikuchita zimenezi?

Kukhulupirira malodza ndi chikhulupiriro chopanda nzeru. Ulalo woyambitsa ndi zotsatira umasungidwa pakati pa zomwe zachitika ndi zomwe zawonedwa. Kutengera ngati wina watsatira miyambo yachikhulupiliro kapena ayi, chochitikacho chimawonedwa ngati chotsatira chakupha, chosangalatsa kapena chosasangalatsa.

Mwachitsanzo, kupeza clover ya masamba anayi kungakhale chizindikiro chamwayi ndi chisangalalo. Ngati china chake chabwino chingatichitikire chifukwa cha zomwe tapezazi, tidzanena kuti izi zimachokera ku chizindikiro chamatsenga. Kapena, ngati tipita pansi pa makwerero, ndipo chochitika chosasangalatsa kapena chatsoka chikachitika kwa ife pambuyo pake, ifenso tidzanena kuti tsoka lathu ndi makwerero awa omwe sitinawalambalale.

Ojambula ambiri ndi othamanga amavomereza mosavuta kuti amakhulupirira malodza: ​​ena amafotokoza kuti amatsatira mwambo winawake, kapena amakhala ndi zinthu zinazake msonkhano wamasewera usanachitike, konsati. Amalongosola ngakhale kumverera kwachilendo kwa chisangalalo, kulamulira, potsatira miyambo imeneyi kapena kusunga zinthu izi pafupi, kaya chovala, chowunikira, chithumwa, ndalama. Koma aliyense amatsatira, chisanachitike chilichonse chofunikira (mayeso, opaleshoni yaumoyo, kuyankhulana, ndi zina zotero) miyambo iyi ya miyambo. Tikatero timakhulupirira kuti tikadakhala aluso kuposa tikadapanda kukhulupirira mizimu kutithandiza.

Akatswiri a zamaganizo amapeza zifukwa zitatu za zikhulupiriro ndi makhalidwe. Monga tanenera, miyambo ya zikhulupiriro imasangalatsa. Ngati atonthozedwa, ndi chifukwa chakuti poyamba pali nkhawa, chifukwa cha chochitika mwachitsanzo:

• chifukwa choyamba ndicho kuchepetsa nkhawa zomwe zimachitika mwa ife, popanga "kuwongolera" zotsatira. Izi zimatipatsa mwayi wopanga chinyengo choti timagwira bwino zomwe zikuchitika, padziko lonse lapansi. Koma ndithudi, ichi ndi chinyengo! Kukhulupirira izi kumakhala ndi zotsatira zochepetsera kupsinjika: kuchotsa chinyengo chaulamuliro kungatipangitse kusiya ntchito komanso kukhumudwa. Ngakhale kuti zikhulupiriro zathu n’zosathandiza kwenikweni, zimatithandiza kumva bwino, ndi kukhala odekha poyang’anizana ndi dziko ndi zochitika zake;
• chifukwa chachiwiri cha zikhulupiriro zathu ndi chakuti timafuna kugwirizana pakati pa zochita zathu ndi zochitika zongochitika mwachisawawa. Zimatipatsa mwayi wopereka tanthauzo ku zochita zathu, komanso moyo wathu wonse. Kupeza zochitika mwamwayi pamakona onse amisewu kumatitsimikizirabe za mphamvu zathu zosintha dziko lapansi, kudzera muzochita zazing'ono, zopanda pake;
• potsiriza, zikhulupiriro zimatilola kupeza malingaliro atsopano, chifukwa cha kuganiza mofananiza. Timapeza msanga kufanana, mafananidwe, mayanjano pakati pa mawu ndi malingaliro. Timakonda izi chifukwa mafananidwe awa ndi osadziwika bwino komanso odabwitsa. Amatisunga mu "matsenga", mphamvu zauzimu, zosadziwika za moyo ndi dziko lapansi. Mwachitsanzo, tingaganize kuti tikuthawa ngozi chifukwa tapeŵa mphaka wakuda pakona ya msewu.

Asayansi masiku ano akudziwa kuti zikhulupiriro zamatsenga n'zothandiza kwambiri kuposa anthu. Kuona zinthu zobisika pambuyo pa zochitika zazing’ono kungatithandize kupanga mayanjano ambiri. Mkhalidwe umenewu umayamikiridwa ndi kusinthika kwachilengedwe kwa munthu, chifukwa umakonda kuwonjezereka kwa chidziwitso chathu ndi chikhalidwe chathu. Amalola anthu kukulitsa luso lawo la kuphunzira, mwa kugwirizanitsa mawu ndi malingaliro ndi zochitika.

Motero, kupita patsogolo kofunikira kwaumunthu monga chinenero, chidziwitso chaumisiri, sayansi ingakhale mbali imodzi pa chiyambi cha zikhulupiriro zamatsenga ndi maganizo "zamatsenga", ngakhale kuti zotsirizirazi zilibe chiyambi.

Mbali zina zimasonyeza kuti pali ubwino wokhala ndi miyambo yaing’ono ya zikhulupiriro zamatsenga. Izi zisanachitike, zimatithandiza kudzilimbitsa, kudziletsa kuti tizichita bwino, kuchotsa nkhawa komanso kukhulupirira kuti ndife amphamvu kwambiri.

Koma chenjerani: kukhala ndi miyambo yambiri yachikhulupiriro kungalepheretsenso kukula kwathu koyenera komanso kuwonekera kwa zochita zathu. Mantha atha kukhala patsogolo kuposa kuchitapo kanthu ndi kutilepheretsa kukhala ndi moyo wapagulu, m'chigwirizano china. Miyambo yochepa chabe ya zikhulupiriro sizidzatipweteka; komabe, zonse zimatengera muyeso ndi kuthekera kwathu kukhala wolondola.