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Zolinga zogonana: ndi momwe amafunira, ndi momwe amafunira
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Ngakhale kuti akazi nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi malingaliro apamtima komanso achikondi, amawonetsa kukonda zochitika zakufufuza kapena zokopa zatsopano.
Kodi ndife oona mtima tikamalankhula zokonda zathu pabedi kwa mnzathu? Ndipo zikafika pakugawana zogonana? Pafupifupi 77% mwa maanja omwe adafunsidwa adanena kuti ali ndi chiyanjano chenicheni pa zokonda zawo zakugonana ndi zilakolako zawo, malinga ndi kafukufuku waposachedwapa wa Sexplace.es, zomwe zimasonyezanso kuti, ngakhale kuti amuna ndi omwe amachititsa mavuto osiyanasiyana. maanja awo, akazi ndi amene ambiri amapita m'masitolo apadera kufunafuna masewera, zidole kapena malingaliro recreate mwachinsinsi.
Ndizowona kuti zikafika pokamba za zokonda zakugonana ndi zokonda pali mitundu yonse ya casuistry, pafupifupi ochuluka monga anthu, koma pali zolemba zina zomwe timakonda tikakambirana. "Maganizo ofala kwambiri a kugonana mwa iwo" y "Zokonda zogonana pafupipafupi mwa iwo", monga momwe adafotokozera katswiri wazogonana ku Sexplace.es, Laura Hermoso.
Kusiyana pakati pa iwo ndi iwo
Malingaliro ofala kwambiri a amuna ogonana ndi amuna amakhala ochulukirapo wofufuza, ndiko kuti, zokhudzana ndi zochitika monga kugonana m'magulu kapena kufunafuna zatsopano monga "kugonana ndi akazi angapo nthawi imodzi", "kusinthanitsa zibwenzi" kapena "kuchita nawo zachiwerewere". Amakhalanso ndi chidwi, malinga ndi Laura Hermoso, sewero, fitishism, kugonana kumatako komanso kugonana ndi maanja amisinkhu yosiyana.
Amakonda kwambiri, malinga ndi ofufuza za kugonana, zongopeka zapamtima komanso zachikondi. Motero amaona kuti kugonana ndi kosangalatsa Zochitika zosiyana (chivundikiro cha galimoto, bwalo la chipinda chapamwamba, jacuzzi, chipinda chosinthira ...), kugonana ndi munthu wamkulu (mchitidwe wa BDSM), kugonana ndi mlendo kapena kugonana mwachisawawa ndi mlendo komanso kugonana mwachisawawa. malo achikondi. Amapezanso mwayi wosinthana ndi zibwenzi kukhala wokongola pankhani yongoganizira.
Kuonjezera apo, ofufuza za kugonana akufotokoza kuti amaganizira kwambiri za tsatanetsatane ndipo amasangalala kuwonjezera kapena kukongoletsa zochitikazo ndi zinthu zenizeni (momwe zimanunkhiza, momwe malowo alili, momwe kuwala kulili, nyimbo zomwe zikumvera ...) zomwe amawona kuti ndizofunikira. Amuna, m'malo mwake, amakhala achindunji komanso amauza zomwe zikuchitika kapena zenizeni, koma popanda tsatanetsatane.
Mukamalankhula za zongopeka zingapo Kugwirizana nthawi zambiri sikumakhala kovuta, malinga ndi katswiriyo, chifukwa zongopeka zimatha kukhala ndi maulalo omwe wina ndi mnzake angapereke mwaufulu ku zilakolako zawo. M'lingaliro limeneli, katswiri wa zachiwerewere amasonyeza kufunikira kwa kulankhulana ndi kugawana, zomwe ndizofunikira kuthetsa zokonda zosiyanasiyana ndi zokonda pa kugonana. Mfundo imodzi imene akuifotokoza n’njakuti, mwachisawawa, iwo amakonda kupereka zochuluka kuposa mmene amachitira m’zongopeka.
Ndi chiyani chomwe chimakudetsani nkhawa kwambiri pakugonana?
Ngakhale amuna akuda nkhawa ndi zinthu monga kuthekera kwa kusayezera pakama, kukwaniritsa orgasm kapena kuyambika, kwa amuna nthawi zambiri nkhawa zawo zimakhala ndi chifukwa choti mnzake sakufuna kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu, kuthekera kwa kutenga matenda, kuti thupi lawo silili lokopa kapena kuti samvetsa kapena sadziwa kumasulira “ayi” monga yankho.
Iwo ali ndi nkhawa
- Kuti awiriwa sakufuna kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu
- Kuti awiriwa ali ndi matenda a venereal
- Kuti kondomu imasweka ndipo pali mimba yosafuna
- Kuti amaganiza kuti thupi lawo ndi losasangalatsa
- Kuti “ayi” sizimamveka ngati mayankho
- Kuti awiriwo safika pachimake
- Kuti ali oipa pabedi
Iwo ali ndi nkhawa
- Kuti awiriwa ali ndi matenda a venereal
- Kuti awiriwo safika pachimake
- Kudwala kukomoka msanga
- Kuti amaganiza kuti thupi lawo ndi losasangalatsa
- Kuti sizingatheke kuti achite chiwerewere
- Kuti ali oipa pabedi
- Kuti amaganiza moyipa za kukula kwa mbolo
Kuopsa kogwiritsa ntchito molakwika "zolaula zakunyumba"
Chimodzi mwa zizoloŵezi zomwe zingapangitse malingaliro olakwika a kugonana ndi kufalikira kwa kugonana makanema amateur pazipata monga pornhub kapena zina zofananira. Monga momwe katswiri wa Sexplace akufotokozera, kupeza mosavuta kwa mitundu iyi ya mawebusaiti omwe amapereka zikwi zambiri zamakanema ogonana opangidwa kunyumba amatanthauza kuti gawo lalikulu la anthu likhoza kuwapeza. zithunzi zolaula za amene amati ndi enieni okwatirana mwachionekere akusonyeza kugonana kwa tsiku ndi tsiku. "Zomwe zimawonedwa ngati zatsiku ndi tsiku kapena chizolowezi m'mavidiyowa sizowona konse. Iwo analengedwa kuti asangalale choncho kufunafuna kudya mwachangu ndipo sizimawonetsa zenizeni za ubale. Zimapanga zenizeni zabodza zokhudzana ndi kugonana ", akuchenjeza katswiri wa zachiwerewere, yemwe amatsindika mfundo yakuti m'mavidiyowa mulibe zonena za kugonana.zoyambilira komanso kukula kwenikweni kwa gawo lililonse la ubale wapamtima sikukuwoneka mwa iwo. Iye anati: “Kuti zamoyo zinachita kusintha kuchokera ku zinthu zina ndi masitepe amenewo n’zofunika kwambiri pa nkhani ya kugonana.
Anthu omwe angakhudzidwe kwambiri ndi mavidiyo amtunduwu, malinga ndi katswiri wa zachiwerewere Laura Hermoso, ndi achinyamata komanso osadziwa zambiri, omwe amatha kuona m'mavidiyowa malingaliro kapena makhalidwe ena omwe angasokoneze maganizo awo pa zomwe ayenera kukhala ndi ubale wapamtima. .
NTHAWI ZABODZA PA KUGONANA
- Kukula Ndi Zofunika? Ayi, kuthekera kwa kukula kwa mbolo kumakondedwa. Kutalika kwapakati ndi 13 centimita.
- Kodi kugonana kumatako kumangochitika zokha? Ayi, pamafunika chidwi ndi onse awiri, kukonzekera (mafuta), kusalala ndi kuchita.
- Kodi kuchuluka kwa maubwenzi kuli kofunikira? Kulankhula za kugonana koyambirira sikulinso koletsedwa ndipo ndi chopinga chomwe chagonjetsedwera.
- Kodi orgasm ndiye cholinga nthawi zonse? Chisangalalo ndicho cholinga. Azimayi ogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakhala ndi ma orgasm ochepa kwambiri pogonana ndi anzawo, kuchepera kuposa gulu lina lililonse: amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna okhaokha komanso akazi okhaokha.