Kubadwa kwa woyamba ndi tsiku losangalatsa kwambiri m'moyo wa okwatirana. Mwana akuyamba banja, "Amakonda bambo ake" akufotokoza motero katswiri wa zamaganizo Régine Scelles. Chifukwa chake zimatengera chidwi chawo chonse. Pobwezera, amayembekezera zambiri kuchokera kwa iye ...
Motero mkuluyo angakhale wofuna kutchuka ndi wosalakwa. Pobwezera, amayembekezera kuzindikiridwa. Inde, aliyense amakonda kuti kupambana kwawo kuzindikirike, koma amasangalala nazo! Chodabwitsa n’chakuti, makolo amayembekezera zambiri kuchokera kwa mwana wawo wamkulu moti zimawavuta kum’khutiritsa.
Pokhala wamkulu pa abale, wamkulu ndiyenso ali ndi udindo waukulu. Makamaka chifukwa makolo amamupatsa ntchito zambiri kuposa ena. Makamaka kwa atsikana, omwe amatenga udindo wa "mayi wachiwiri" ndi wamng'ono kwambiri, makamaka m'mabanja akuluakulu.
Ufulu Wakubadwa
Wamkulu amatsegula abale. Chifukwa chake, amadzipatsa "ufulu wakubadwa". Ndani amasankha pulogalamu ya pa TV? Ubweya. Ndani amakhala patebulo lomwe aliyense amakonda? Ubweya…
Makhalidwe olemetsa
Wodalirika, wofuna kutchuka komanso wofuna kuchita zinthu mwangwiro: makhalidwe amenewa amaika chiopsezo kupangitsa mwana kukhala ndi nkhawa pang'ono. Ngati chikhumbo chake chili champhamvu kwambiri, akhoza kuopa kulakwitsa. Pamenepa, iye amakonda kumamatira ku njira yotetezeka, yomwe ali ndi mwayi wopambana. “Akuluakulu sakonda kuonedwa ndi ena pokhapokha ngati ali nyenyezi. Ngati angapange cholakwika chomwe chingawononge chithunzi chawo chaungwiro, amakonda kupeŵa ”, akufotokoza motero Michael Grose.