Zamkatimu
- Umboni wa Marie: “Ndinkafuna kudzidalira kuti ndikulere mwana wanga. »Marie, wazaka 26, mayi wa Leandro, wazaka 6.
- Umboni wa Jean-Baptiste: "Chovuta kwambiri ndi pomwe adalengeza kutsekedwa kwa masukulu a coronavirus!"
- Jean-Baptiste, bambo wa Yvana, wazaka 9.
- Umboni wa Sarah: “Kukhala wekha kwa nthawi yoyamba kumandizunguza mutu! Sarah, wazaka 43, mayi ake a Joséphine, wazaka 6 ndi theka.
Umboni wa Marie: “Ndinkafuna kudzidalira kuti ndikulere mwana wanga. »Marie, wazaka 26, mayi wa Leandro, wazaka 6.
"Ndinakhala ndi pakati ndili ndi zaka 19, ndi wokondedwa wanga wakusekondale. Sindinasambe msambo ndipo kusakhalako sikunandidetse nkhawa. Ndinadutsa Bac ndipo ndinaganiza zodikira mpaka mapeto a mayeso kuti ndiyese. Kenako ndinazindikira kuti ndinali ndi pakati pa miyezi iwiri ndi theka. Ndinali ndi nthaŵi yochepa kwambiri yoti ndisankhe zochita. Chibwenzi changa anandiuza kuti chilichonse chimene ndingasankhe iye andichirikiza. Ndinalingalira ndipo ndinaganiza zomusunga mwanayo. Panthawiyi n’nali kukhala ndi bambo anga. Ndinachita mantha ndi zimene ananena ndipo ndinapempha bwenzi lake lapamtima kuti amuuze za nkhaniyi. Atadziwa anandiuza kuti nanenso andithandiza. M’miyezi yoŵerengeka, ndinapereka kachidindo, ndiyeno chilolezo chitangotsala pang’ono kubadwa. Ndinafunikira kudziimira paokha kuti ndithe kusamalira mwana wanga. M’chipinda cha amayi oyembekezera, ndinauzidwa za ubwana wanga, ndinadzimva kusalidwa pang’ono. Popanda kupeza nthawi yofunsa kwenikweni, ndinasankha botolo, momasuka pang'ono, ndipo ndinadzimva wotsutsidwa. Pamene mwana wanga anali ndi miyezi iwiri ndi theka, ndinapita kumalo odyera kuti ndikapeze zina zowonjezera. Choyamba changa chinali pa Tsiku la Amayi. Kusakhala ndi mwana wanga zinandiwawa koma ndinadziuza kuti ndikumupangira tsogolo lake. Nditakhala ndi ndalama zokwanira zokhala ndi nyumba, tinasamukira pakati pa mzinda ndi bambo ake, koma Léandro ali ndi zaka 2, tinapatukana. Ndinkaona kuti sitilinso pamlingo wofanana. Zimakhala ngati sitinasinthike pa liwiro lofanana. Tayimba foni yosinthira: Loweruka ndi Lamlungu lililonse komanso theka latchuthi. “
Kuyambira wachinyamata mpaka mayi
Chifukwa cha kumenya kwachinyamata kwa amayi, ndinavutika kuti ndipeze ndalama pamapeto a sabata opanda kanthu. Sindikanatha kudzikhalira ndekha. Ndinatenga mwayi wolemba buku lonena za moyo wanga monga mayi ndekha *. Pang’ono ndi pang’ono moyo wathu unasintha. Atayamba sukulu, ndinkamudzutsa 5:45 am kupita kwa wosamalira ana, ndisanayambe ntchito 7am ndinaitenga 20 pm Ali ndi zaka 6, ndinkaopa kutaya chithandizo. CAF: ndingamuletse bwanji kusukulu osawononga malipiro anga onse kumeneko? Abwana anga anali kumvetsetsa: Sindimatsegulanso kapena kutseka galimoto yonyamula zakudya. Patsiku ndi tsiku, sikuli kophweka kukhala ndi zonse zoyendetsera, osakhoza kudalira aliyense pa ntchito zonse, osakhoza kupuma. Ubwino wake ndi wakuti ndi Léandro, tili ndi unansi wapamtima kwambiri. Ndimamupeza wokhwima chifukwa cha msinkhu wake. Amadziwa kuti chilichonse chomwe ndimachita ndi cha iyenso. Amapangitsa moyo wanga watsiku ndi tsiku kukhala wosavuta: ngati ndiyenera kugwira ntchito zapakhomo ndi mbale ndisanatuluke, amangoyamba kundithandiza popanda kumupempha. Mwambi wake? “Pamodzi, ndife amphamvu.
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Jean-Baptiste, bambo wa Yvana, wazaka 9.
“M’chaka cha 2016, ndinasiyana ndi mnzanga, mayi wa mwana wanga wamkazi. Anakhala wosakhazikika m'maganizo. Pamene tinali kukhala limodzi ndinalibe zizindikiro zochenjeza. Kusiyanitsidwako kunakula kwambiri. Choncho ndinapempha kuti andipatse yekha udindo wolera mwana wathu. Mayi amangomuona kunyumba kwa mayi ake omwe. Mwana wathu wamkazi anali ndi zaka 6 ndi theka pamene anabwera kudzakhala nane nthaŵi zonse. Ndinafunika kusintha moyo wanga. Ndidasiya kampani yanga yomwe ndidakhala ndikugwira ntchito kwa zaka khumi chifukwa ndidali pamiyezo yokhazikika yomwe sindinagwirizane ndi moyo wanga watsopano monga bambo ndekha. Ndinali ndi maganizo kwa nthawi yaitali kuti ndibwerere ku maphunziro kukagwira ntchito kwa notary. Ndinayenera kutenganso Bac ndikulembetsa maphunziro aatali chifukwa cha CPF. Kenako ndinapeza mlembi wina woti azindigwira ntchito pa mtunda wa makilomita pafupifupi XNUMX kuchokera kunyumba kwanga, yemwe anavomera kundilemba ntchito ngati wothandizira. Ndinapanga chizolowezi chaching'ono ndi mwana wanga wamkazi: m'mawa, ndimamuyika m'basi yomwe imapita kusukulu, kenako ndimapita kuntchito yanga. Madzulo, ndimapita kukamtenga pambuyo pa ola limodzi losamalira ana. Apa ndipamene tsiku langa lachiwiri limayambira: kuyang'ana bukhu logwirizanitsa ndi diary kuti ndichite homuweki, kukonzekera chakudya chamadzulo, kutsegula makalata, osaiwala masiku ena kuti mutenge galimoto ku Leclerc ndikuyendetsa makina ochapira ndi chotsuka mbale. Pambuyo pa zonsezi, ndimakonzekera bizinesi ya tsiku lotsatira, kulawa mu satchel, ndimagwira ntchito zonse zoyang'anira nyumba. Chilichonse chimazungulira mpaka kambewu kakang'ono kamchenga kamene kadzayimitse makinawo: ngati mwana wanga akudwala, ngati atagunda kapena ngati galimoto yawonongeka ... kupeza yankho kuti ndithe kupita ku ofesi!
Palibe amene angatenge, palibe galimoto yachiwiri, palibe wamkulu wachiwiri wogawana nawo nkhawa. Izi zidatifikitsa pafupi ndi mwana wanga wamkazi: tili ndi ubale wapamtima. Pokhala bambo ndekha, kwa ine chomwe chinali chovuta kwambiri ndi pomwe adalengeza kutsekedwa kwa masukulu, chifukwa cha coronavirus. Ndinasowa chochita. Ndinadzifunsa kuti ndizichita bwanji. Mwamwayi, nthawi yomweyo, ndinalandira mauthenga ochokera kwa makolo ena okha, anzanga, omwe amati tidzikonzekere tokha, kuti tisunge ana athu kwa wina ndi mzake. Ndiyeno, mwamsanga kwambiri kunadza chilengezo cha kutsekeredwa m’ndende. Funso silinabwerenso: tinayenera kupeza njira yathu yogwirira ntchito mwa kukhala kunyumba. Ndili ndi mwayi kwambiri: mwana wanga wamkazi ndi wodziimira payekha ndipo amakonda sukulu. M’mawa uliwonse tinkalowamo kuti tikaone homuweki ndipo Yvana ankachita zolimbitsa thupi payekha. Pamapeto pake, pamene tonse tinatha kugwira ntchito bwino, ndimakhala ndi malingaliro akuti tinapeza moyo wabwino pang'ono panthawiyi!
Umboni wa Sarah: “Kukhala wekha kwa nthawi yoyamba kumandizunguza mutu! Sarah, wazaka 43, mayi ake a Joséphine, wazaka 6 ndi theka.
“Pamene tinasiyana, Joséphine anali atangokondwerera kumene kubadwa kwake kwa zaka 5. Chochita changa choyamba chinali mantha: kudzipeza ndekha wopanda mwana wanga wamkazi. Sindinaganize zosinthana ndi wina aliyense. Anaganiza zochoka, ndipo chisoni chondimana sichinaphatikizeponso chondichotsera mwana wanga wamkazi. Pachiyambi, tinagwirizana kuti Joséphine azipita kwa atate wake Loweruka ndi Lamlungu lililonse. Ndinadziwa kuti kunali kofunika kuti asadutse ubale wake ndi iye, koma mutakhala zaka zisanu ndikusamalira mwana wanu, kumuwona akudzuka, kukonzekera chakudya chake, kusamba, kugona, kukhala yekha nthawi yoyamba ndikumangokhalira chizungulire. . Ndinali kulephera kudziletsa ndipo ndinazindikira kuti anali munthu wathunthu amene anali ndi moyo popanda ine, kuti mbali ina ya iye inali kundithawa. Ndinadzimva kukhala wopanda pake, wopanda ntchito, wamasiye, osadziwa chochita ndi ine ndekha, ndikuyendayenda mozungulira. Ndinapitiliza kudzuka m'mamawa ndipo monga china chilichonse, ndidazolowera.
Phunziraninso mmene mungadzisamalire monga kholo lolera lokha ana
Ndiyeno tsiku lina ndinaganiza kuti: “Bife, nditani ndi nthawi ino?“Ndinayenera kumvetsetsa kuti ndikhoza kudzilola kukhala ndi ufulu wosangalala ndi mtundu umenewu umene ndinataya m’zaka zaposachedwapa. Chifukwa chake ndidaphunziranso kukhala ndi mphindi izi, kudzisamalira ndekha, moyo wanga ngati mkazi ndikuzindikiranso kuti palinso zinthu zoti ndichite! Lero, Loweruka ndi Lamlungu likafika, sindimamvanso kuwawa pang'ono mumtima mwanga. Chisamaliro chasintha ndipo Joséphine amakhala usiku umodzi pa sabata kuphatikiza ndi abambo ake. Ndinakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi kusudzulana kowawa kwa makolo anga ndili wamng’ono. Chifukwa chake ndikunyadira kwambiri lero ndi timu yomwe tikupanga ndi abambo ake. Tili pamakhalidwe abwino kwambiri. Nthawi zonse amanditumizira zithunzi za chip yathu pamene ali m'manja, akundiwonetsa zomwe anachita, kudya ... Sitinkafuna kuti azimva kuti ali ndi udindo wosiyana pakati pa amayi ndi abambo, kapena kudziimba mlandu ngati angasangalale ndi mmodzi wa ife. Choncho ndife tcheru kuti imazungulira madzi mu makona atatu. Amadziwa kuti pali malamulo ofala, komanso kusiyana pakati pa iye ndi ine: kunyumba ya amayi, ndikhoza kukhala ndi TV kumapeto kwa sabata, komanso chokoleti cha abambo! Anamvetsetsa bwino ndipo ali ndi luso lodabwitsa la ana lotha kuzolowera. Ndimadziuza mochulukira kuti izi ndi zomwe zipangitsanso chuma chake.
Kulakwa kwa mayi Solo
Tikakhala limodzi ndi 100%. Tikakhala tsiku lonse kuseka, kusewera masewera, zochitika, kuvina ndipo nthawi yoti agone imakwana, amandiuza kuti " bah ndi iwe, utani tsopano? ”. Chifukwa kusakhalanso ndi kuyang'ana kwa wina ndikusowa kwenikweni. Chisoni chiliponso. Ndikumva kuti ndili ndi udindo waukulu woti ndikhale ndekha. Nthawi zambiri ndimadabwa "Ndine wachilungamo? Ndikuyenda bwino kumeneko?“Mwadzidzidzi, ndimakonda kulankhula naye kwambiri ngati munthu wamkulu ndipo ndimadziimba mlandu chifukwa chosasunga ubwana wake mokwanira. Tsiku lililonse ndimaphunzira kudzidalira ndikudzichitira ndekha. Ndimachita zomwe ndingathe ndipo ndikudziwa kuti chofunika kwambiri ndi chikondi chosatha chomwe ndimamupatsa.