Ena amati palibe cholakwika ndi izi. Ena amati ili ndi vuto. Komanso ena amachita mantha. Kodi tikukamba za chiyani? Momwe mungayendere ndi mwana.
Dongosolo limakhala lofunikira nthawi zonse, ngakhale poyenda opanda ana. Koma ngati mwana ali nanu panjira, gawo loyamba ndikulemba zonse zofunika. Zovala, matewera, madzi, chakudya, zoseweretsa, zida zothandizira - malo ochezera omwe ayenera kukhala nanu. Longedzani zinthuzi kuti musayang'ane katundu wanu amene mwayang'ana. Muyenera kuti mupereke zinthu zosafunika kwenikweni ponyamula katundu wanu kuti, mwachitsanzo, pasakhale olemera kwambiri mundege.
Koma, muyenera kuvomereza, ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti mwanayo azikhala wodekha, wokhutira komanso wachidwi njira yonse. Nthawi yomweyo, payenera kukhala "zisangalalo" zingapo, chifukwa ana amasewera masewera osaposa mphindi 15. Osachotsa zonse nthawi imodzi, mulole kuti zomwe zadabwitsazo zikhalebe. Zitangoyamba kumene zikhumbo, sinthani mutu wa kuphunzira.
Mukamasankha tchuthi, kumbukirani kuti maulendo omwe ali ndi mwana wosakwanitsa zaka 12 sangakuunikireni. Ana amatopa msanga ndi nkhani ya namulondola. Komanso kusilira zowoneka bwino. Ngati zosangalatsa sizikuphatikizidwa, kusanguluka kumatha kusintha. Simungayende mzindawu ndi mwana mwina: ndizovuta (simudzangonyamula khanda, komanso chikwama cha "mayi"), nyengo imatha kusintha kwambiri, ndipo muyenera kukumbukira za kudyetsa. Ulendo wopita kunyanja ndibwino - pamenepo mukakhala pafupi ndi hotelo. Ngati mukufunadi kuwona zochulukirapo kuposa kungoyenda pagombe, yesetsani kusinthana pamaulendo - amayi amayang'ana malo, abambo amakhala ndi mwana, kenako.
Funsani pasadakhale ngati hoteloyo imapereka ntchito zokomera mabanja. Mahotela ena amakhala ndi makanema ojambula kuti azisangalatsa ana pomwe akulu akusangalala ndi dziwe, malo osambira kapena zakudya zam'deralo. Khitchini, mwa njira, imatha kuphatikizaponso mndandanda wa ana.
Ndizosangalatsa ngati pali malo a masewera a ana, zipinda zosewerera, zida zobweretsera ana. Malo omwe hoteloyi ilili ndiyofunikiranso - pafupi ndi siteshoni ya sitima kapena eyapoti, zimakhala bwino. Osati zokhazo, kuchokera kumalo opumulirako, nthawi zambiri timabwerera kuchokera komwe tidagwiritsa ntchitoоMatumba ochulukirapo okumbutsa ndi mphatso kwa onse mabanja ndi abwenzi, onjezerani pano mwayi woyimilira pagalimoto ndi mwana wanu.
Ngakhale mutapita kumwera mchilimwe, nyengo yakomweko singawonetsere bwino alendo apaulendo. Ndipo kusintha kwakanthawi kwakanthawi nyengo kumakhala vuto lalikulu. Pabwino kwambiri, zimatenga tsiku limodzi kapena awiri kuti thupi lizolowere. Koma zazing'ono mwanayo, njirayi ndiyosavuta kwa iye.
Ngati dziko lachilendo likukonzekera, ndi bwino kuchita katemera woyenera masabata 2-3 pasadakhale. Ndipo samalani ndi mbale zakomweko! Matumbo osazolowereka a ana sangalandire izi. Apaulendo odziwa zambiri amalangizanso kuti musabwere kudziko lina kapena mzinda nthawi yamaluwa yazomera zakomweko, kuti zisayambitse chifuwa.
Makolo ambiri amakonda kukhulupirira kuti ndibwino, monga amati, kugona. Inshuwaransi ya zamankhwala, makamaka kudziko lina, ingathandize kwambiri ngati mwadzidzidzi pakhala zovuta ndi thanzi la mwanayo. Kumayiko ena, osadziwa bwino chilankhulo, ndizosavuta kusokonezeka. Dziwani zomwe mabanki amapereka, pezani zomwe zikukuyenererani, ndipo musadandaule chilichonse. Pakachitika inshuwaransi, kampaniyo ikakupezerani dokotala, komanso kuwongolera njira zochiritsira.
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