Kukongola kwake kwapadera kumakondabe mitima ya anthu masiku ano. Pa Disembala 22, mayi wachifalansa wotchuka amakondwerera tsiku lobadwa ake. Tidzivomereza tokha kuti ali ndi zaka 47 sadzakalamba konse ndipo ali bwino.
Vanessa, mwa njira, sakusunga zinsinsi za kukongola kwake kuseri kwa zisindikizo zisanu ndi ziwiri. Nyenyezi yapadziko lonse lapansi yomwe imasewera komanso wochita masewera olimbitsa thupi amatsata mosamalitsa malamulo azisamaliro pamoyo wawo wonse, omwe amalankhula nawo mofunitsitsa ndikupempha azimayi kuti awagwiritse ntchito.
Kuti khungu likhale labwino nthawi zonse komanso limawoneka lokongola, simuyenera kugwiritsa ntchito njira zosiyanasiyana zodzikongoletsera. Malinga ndi Vanessa, pali njira zosavuta komanso zothandiza. Kugona tulo, madzi oyera ndipo kusangalala kwakukulu kumatha kuchita zozizwitsa, monga momwe ma stellar adatsimikizidwira kangapo.
Kudzidalira, kudziyimira pawokha nthawi zina kumatha kuwonetsedwa pagulu ngakhale popanda kuthandizidwa ndi wojambula wokongola kwambiri. Zokwanira tsindikani masokuti mupeze zotsatira zabwino.
Vanessa amakondanso kuthetsa kutopa ndi madzi oundana... Mothandizidwa ndi madzi oundana, malinga ndi iye, khungu limatsukidwa bwino, nthawi yomweyo limakhala likuwoneka bwino. Inde, poyamba zotengeka sizinali zosangalatsa, koma njirayi idakhala chizolowezi, chomwe sichingachitike popanda.
Maonekedwe aliwonse, makamaka mukafunika kuyenda bwino pamphasa wofiira, ndikudziyang'ana nokha, ndi bizinesi yosangalatsa komanso yovuta. Malinga ndi Vanessa, amapulumutsidwa ndikulimbikitsidwa kutikita nkhopeyomwe imakhala pafupifupi maola awiri. Ndi amene amapatsa nyenyeziyo mtendere wamumtima, komanso, kupumula thupi.
Maganizo a Vanessa pankhani ya opaleshoni ya pulasitiki ndi osangalatsa. Amakhulupirira kuti ndi bwino kukonza nkhope motere, kuchotsa matumba pansi pa maso, kusintha mphuno ndikulitsa mawere. Komabe, izi siziyimitsa zovuta za ukalamba ndipo sizibwezeretsa unyamata.
Atolankhani achidwi afunsanso Vanessa mobwerezabwereza zachinsinsi chake. Yankho la woimbayo linali losavuta: likukhalira, mukungofunika yendani pamwamba mutakweza mutu…
Vanessa amakonda maamondi, chokoleti chakuda ndi pasitala wokhala ndi nyama ndi batala. Zowona, sagwiritsa ntchito nkhanza pazakudya izi, posankha kumamatira zakudya zapadera, zomwe zimamupatsa nyonga ndi nyonga.
Kumva zachiwerewere si vuto kudabwitsidwa. Mwachitsanzo, Vanessa amapeza khalidweli pamene akuyenda wopanda nsapato pansi pa kunyezimira kwa dzuwa komwe kumadzutsa chidwi ndi chisangalalo cha moyo. Malinga ndi iye, madzi ofunda ndi mandimu pamimba yopanda kanthu m'mawa, kusowa kwa ufa ndi mkaka mu menyu kumapangitsa Vanessa kukhalabe ndi thupi lochepa.
Zomwe munthu anganene, koma Vanessa nthawi zina amayenera kupita kuofesi ya physiotherapy ndi matenda a mafupa. Apa ndipomwe amachotsa kutopa, kumachepetsa zowawa zomwe mwadzidzidzi zimadza chifukwa chodzaza ndi moyo wokangalika. Zachidziwikire, ntchito ya stellar model sikokwanira popanda zovuta. Vanessa amakonda kutuluka mwa iwo mothandizidwa ndi kuyenda paki, komanso kunyumba, kuti apewe malingaliro oyipa, werengani buku lomwe mumakonda. Yoga, makalasi a ballet komanso, pamlingo wina, amabweretsedwa mwakale. Ndipo, zachidziwikire, imodzi mwanjira zothandiza kwambiri zothana ndi kupsinjika ndi kugona tulo tofa nato.