Zomwe Mamilionea Amayi Amaphunzitsa Ana Awo

Makolo onse amafunira mwana wawo zabwino. Amayi ndi abambo amayesa kupereka zomwe akumana nazo, kupereka malangizo omwe, mwa lingaliro lawo, angathandize mwana wawo wokondedwa kukwaniritsa zonse zomwe angathe. Koma simungaphunzitse munthu zimene simukuzidziwa kuchita nokha, ndipo palibe olemera enieni ochuluka pakati pathu. Mamiliyoni 1200 aku America adagawana maphikidwe awo kuti apambane - omwe, monga akunena, adadzipanga okha, ndipo sanalandire chuma chambiri kapena adapambana lottery. Ochita kafukufuku anafotokoza mwachidule zinsinsi zawo ndi kulemba malangizo asanu ndi awiri omwe anthu olemera amapereka ana awo.

1. Mukuyenera kukhala wolemera

Kuti mupeze ndalama poyambira "pa chiyambi chochepa"? Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti zimenezi n’zosatheka. Mukakhala ndi sukulu yapamwamba, yunivesite, chithandizo chochokera kwa makolo anu kumbuyo kwanu - ndiye kuti ndi nkhani ina, ndiye kuti ntchito yanu idzakwera phirili kuyambira pachiyambi. Chabwino, kapena iwe uyenera kubadwa wanzeru. Mamiliyoni opambana amatsimikizira kuti zonsezi sizofunikira, ngakhale sizoyipa. Choncho, phunziro loyamba: muyenera chuma. Ngati mupereka chinthu chofunidwa kapena ntchito, mudzalemeradi. Zowona, izi zimafuna kugwira ntchito mumsika waulere.

Ndalama sichimwemwe, tinauzidwa. Iwo ananena izo ndi wokoma mtima paradaiso ndi mu kanyumba. Koma pali chimwemwe chochuluka pamene simuyenera kuganiza za ndalama, ndipo simukukhala mu Khrushchev yofooka, koma m'nyumba yabwino. Chowonjezera chachikulu cha chuma ndi ufulu wopezedwa kudzera mu izo kuti mukhale ndi moyo momwe mukufunira. Mukakhala wolemera, mutha kukhala kulikonse, kuchita chilichonse, komanso kukhala aliyense amene mumamulakalaka. Chofunika kwambiri, kukhala ndi ndalama kumachotsa nkhawa zachuma ndikukulolani kusangalala ndi moyo womwe mwasankha. Kwa malingaliro athu aku Russia, ichi sichinali chowonadi chokhazikika. Kwa nthawi yaitali, anthu ambiri ankavomereza kuti kuthamangitsa ndalama kunali kochititsa manyazi.

3. Palibe amene ali ndi ngongole kwa inu

Ndipo kawirikawiri, palibe amene ali ndi ngongole kwa wina aliyense. Inu nokha muyenera kupanga tsogolo lanu. Aliyense amabadwa mumikhalidwe yosiyana, ndiko kulondola. Koma aliyense ali ndi ufulu wofanana. Mamiliyoni amalangiza kuti: Phunzitsani ana anu kudziimira ndi kudzidalira. Koma chodabwitsa n’chakuti, tikamachita zinthu paokha ndi kusonyeza kuti sitikufuna thandizo la wina aliyense, m’pamenenso anthu amafunitsitsa kutithandiza. Ndipo akatswiri a zamaganizo amatsimikizira kuti: anthu omwe ali ndi ulemu wotukuka amakopa anthu ena.

4. Pangani ndalama pamavuto a anthu ena

"Dziko likufuna kuti mukhale olemera chifukwa muli mavuto ambiri momwemo," - amatchula phunziro la Huffington Post… Ngati mukufuna kupanga ndalama, thetsani vuto lapakati. Ngati mukufuna kupeza ndalama zambiri, thetsani vuto lalikulu. Mukathetsa vuto lalikulu, mumalemeranso. Gwiritsani ntchito luso lanu lapadera, luso lanu, ndi mphamvu zanu kuti mupeze njira zothetsera vuto, ndipo mudzakhala panjira yopita ku chuma.

Ku America, paliponse mutha kukhumudwa pazizindikiro zomwe zili ndi mawu akuti "Ganizani!" Ndipo pa chifukwa. Kusukulu, ana amaphunzitsidwa ndendende zimene ayenera kuganiza. Ndipo wochita bizinezi yemwe angakhale wochita bwino ayenera kudziwa kuganiza. Ana anu adzalandira maphunziro ochuluka kuchokera kwa aphunzitsi ophunzira kwambiri omwe mwina sadziwa chilichonse chokhudza kulemera. Phunzitsani ana anu kuti adzipangire okha zisankho ndikuyenda njira yawoyawo mosasamala kanthu za kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe amatsutsa zokhumba zawo, amakayikira luso lawo, ndikuseka zomwe akuyembekezera.

Akatswiri ambiri a zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti ndi bwino kuti anthu aziyembekezera zinthu zochepa kuti asakhumudwe akalephera. Iwo amakhulupirira kuti anthu amakhala osangalala ngati atakhala ndi zochepa. Iyi ndi njira ina yotengera ogula ambiri. Phunzitsani ana kuti asiye kuchita mantha ndikukhala m’dziko lokhala ndi mwayi ndiponso mwayi. Lolani gulu lapakati likhazikike pakatikati pomwe mukulimbikira nyenyezi. Kumbukirani kuti ambiri mwa anthu ochita bwino kwambiri padziko lapansi amasekedwa ndi kuzunzidwa m’masiku awo.

Monga momwe zimasonyezera, si aliyense amene amachita bwino. Njira ya kutchuka, chuma, ndi zinthu zina zosangalatsa ili ndi zopinga, zolephera, ndi zokhumudwitsa. Chinsinsi cha Kupulumuka: Osataya mtima. Chilichonse chomwe chingachitike m'moyo wanu, khulupirirani nokha komanso kuti mutha kuthana ndi zovuta zilizonse m'moyo wanu. Mutha kutaya omwe akukuthandizani, koma osataya chikhulupiriro mwa inu nokha.