Poyembekezera tchuthi chotsatira, kaya ndi tsiku lobadwa kapena Chaka Chatsopano, mwanayo akuyembekezera mphatso. Pakadali pano, mwanayo amayamba kuchita bwino, kumvera makolo ake, omwe amangokhalira kudandaula kuti apatsa mwana wake chiyani, asalakwitse, kuti apereke chisangalalo komanso nthawi yomweyo chodabwitsa. Sikovuta kusankha mphatso kwa mwana, muyenera kungoyang'anitsitsa zomwe amakonda, zomwe zimamusangalatsa, mverani zokhumba zake, pamenepo zidzakuwonekerani zomwe mwana walota kuti adzalandire Tidzaonana.
Tiyeni tiwone zomwe mphatso ndizothandiza kwa ana azaka zosiyanasiyana.
Mpaka chaka
Makanda sazindikira kuti akukondwerera china chake, koma amamva bwino ngati akusangalala, pomwe akusangalala. Adzakhala wokondwa ndi choseweretsa chilichonse choyenera msinkhu wake. Chifukwa chake, mphatso imatha kukhala kalipeti yoimba, seti ya mabingu, mabuku owala, ma beepers, oyenda kapena olumpha kwa ana kuyambira miyezi isanu ndi umodzi.
Kuyambira wani mpaka atatu
Pakati pa chaka chimodzi mpaka zitatu, mwanayo amayamba kuzindikira kuti akukondwerera china chake ndi makolo ake. Mwana ali pachisangalalo, amakonda chisangalalo chisanachitike. Kuyambira ali ndi zaka ziwiri, makolo akuyenera kutenga nawo mbali mwana pokonzekera tebulo lachikondwerero, kufunsa thandizo lophiphiritsa, izi zithandiza mwanayo kumiza kwathunthu mumlengalenga patchuthi mtsogolo, kusangalala pakubwera kwa alendo, ndikukhala wochereza alendo mtsogolo.
Sikovuta kusankha mphatso ya m'badwo uno, popeza chikhumbo chachikulu cha mwana ndichoseweretsa, choseweretsa choyenera chikhala chosavuta kwa makolo omvera kuti asankhe, kusankha kwake kudzadalira kukoma ndi zomwe amakonda mwana wanu. Kwa anyamata, mphatso yotereyi imatha kukhala, mwachitsanzo, makina omangira, makina olembera, panjira yokhayokha yopangidwa ndi zigawo zikuluzikulu zosavuta, chida choimbira cha ana. Atsikana amakonda zaka izi mitundu yonse yazidole, mabuku akulu okongola, mipukutu yazakudya, zoseweretsa zosiyanasiyana zofewa. Kavalo kogwedeza kapena malo osewerera ana ndioyenera atsikana ndi anyamata.
Zaka zitatu mpaka zisanu ndi chimodzi
Ndikofunika kugula pa msinkhu uwu pokhapokha mwana atamupempha, popeza amadziwa bwino zomwe akufuna. Muyenera kufunsa mwanayo kuti angogawana maloto awo ndi amayi ndi abambo kuti athe kukwaniritsa. Ngati holide yomwe mukusankhira mphatso ndi Chaka Chatsopano, lembani agogo ndi agogo anu kalata.
Pamsinkhu uwu, magalimoto wamba ndi zidole sizimakonda kwenikweni mwana, chifukwa chake muyenera kusankha mphatso yosangalatsa, mwachitsanzo, galimoto yoyendetsedwa ndi wailesi, ndege, wopanga njanji zazikulu, galimoto yamagetsi, wopanga loboti ali oyenera anyamata, ndipo amakhala kukhitchini, zojambulajambula, mahema, oyenda ndi zidole, zidole zoyankhula - za atsikana.
Komanso, zojambula zanu zomwe mwana amatenga nawo mbali akhoza kukhala mphatso yayikulu. Mwachitsanzo, muvidiyo yochokera kwamatsenga ambiri, ngwazi yakujambula "Magalimoto" iyemwini amayamika mwana wanu patsiku lake lobadwa ndikukupemphani kuti mutenge nawo mpikisano.
Zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi mpaka khumi
Ali ndi zaka 6 mpaka 10, ana amasiya kukhulupirira Santa Claus. Mphatso yabwino ya tchuthi, kuphatikizapo Chaka Chatsopano, idzakhala ya iwo: kwa atsikana - mwachitsanzo, chovala chokongola cha mpira, zodzikongoletsera, zodzoladzola za ana; za mwana wamwamuna - chikwama choboola ndi magolovesi a nkhonya, njinga kapena mpira wozizira. Mutha kupatsa onse odzigudubuza, ma skis, ma skates onse. Foni yam'manja yeniyeni idzakhala mphatso yabwino kwa mwana pazaka izi, ipindulitsadi makolo: idzawalola kuti azilumikizana ndi mwanayo. Muthanso kupita ndi banja lonse ku circus, zisudzo za ana, dolphinarium.
Oposa zaka khumi
Pambuyo pa zaka khumi, ana ambiri apanga kale zokonda zawo ndi zokonda zawo, nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mtundu wina wazokonda. Ngati mwana wanu amakonda nyimbo, mungamupatse chida chake choyimbira. Ngati mwana wanu wamkazi apita kusukulu yovina, amasangalala kwambiri ndi chovala chake chatsopano. Makina ojambula kapena mahedifoni okwera mtengo amakhalanso mwana wabwino. Ngati ndi kotheka, mutha kupatsa mwana wanu ulendo waku Russia kapena Europe. Pamsinkhu uwu, ana amadziwa zachuma cha makolo awo, choncho ngakhale mphatsoyo siokwera mtengo, chinthu chachikulu ndichakuti chimapatsa mwana wanu chisangalalo, chikuwonetsa chidwi cha makolo.
Ndikofunikanso kuti musaiwale makolo kuti mphatso iliyonse iyenera kudzazidwa m'bokosi lokongola, kapena, ngati izi sizingachitike chifukwa cha kukula, ndiye kuti muchimange ndi riboni wowala wa satini. Mwanayo adzayamikiradi chikondi chanu komanso chidwi chanu.