Atsikanawo, asadziwike dzina lawo, amakambirana za zomwe akatswiri oyenerera ayenera kukhala nazo. Kupatula akatswiri, zachidziwikire.
Kwa mayi aliyense, kuyendera mayi wazimayi ndizovuta. Ngakhale zonse zitakhala bwino, timakhala pansi pachitseko cha chipatala cha amayi oyembekezera ndikudikirira kukayezetsa: bwanji ngati atanena china chake cholakwika? Kodi adzakhala amwano kapena onyozedwa? Pafupifupi msungwana aliyense anali ndi milandu ingapo yomwe sindikufuna kukumbukira. Tidafunsa anzathu, atolankhani ndi atsikana, funso: kodi ayenera kukhala dokotala wazachipatala wabwino bwanji?
Marina, wazaka 25: "Nthawi zingapo ndidakumana ndi ulemu - kuchipatala mutha kukakumana ndi dokotala aliyense wazachipatala waulere, koma ndidafunsidwa ndikulakalaka kuti ndichifukwa chiyani sindinapite kunyumba kwathu komwe zomata. Ndipo sindimadziwa omwe amalankhula, popeza ndinali wokondwa kubwera kumeneko. Ndikuganiza kuti dokotala wazachipatala woyenera sayenera kusokoneza atsikana ndi mafunso ake - zokhudzana ndi zolemba komanso momwe amakhalira. Chabwino, Wamuyaya "Iwe uli kale zaka 25, udzabereka liti ana?" - zosatheka. Iyi ndi bizinesi yanga, yomwe sindingafune kuti iperekedwe kwa mlendo.
Gynecologist woyenera ayenera kulemekeza zisankho zanga komanso malire amunthu wanga.
Irina, wazaka 16: “Kusukulu yasekondale tinakayezetsa, ndipo atsikana ankakakamizidwa kukaonana ndi azimayi. Inde, aliyense anali ndi mantha, makamaka kwa ife omwe tinali tikugonana kale. Kodi mumawopa chiyani? Ankawopa kukanidwa ndi anzawo akusukulu pazomwe dokotala angauze makolo kapena "kalasi" - anawo ndi ankhanza kwambiri ndipo sangaphonye mwayi woloza mtsikana yemwe wadziwika. Panali mantha - osaneneka! Koma, oddly mokwanira, zonse zidayenda bwino - zachidziwikire, kupatuka kulikonse kunali funso lokhalo la dokotala komanso wodwala. Ndikukhulupirira kuti dokotala wazachipatala woyenera sangakambirane za odwala ndi komwe amakhala kapena ndi anzawo - ichi ndichinsinsi chachipatala. "
Adele, wazaka 31: “Sindiiwala kuti ku chipatala cha kwathu komweko nthawi zonse kunali okulitsa kwazitsulo kuzizira, pambuyo pake kholako lidapweteka kwa sabata lina. Tsopano ndimagwiritsa ntchito ma gynecologist achinsinsi - ndi apulasitiki ndipo samazizira konse, ndipo ndikatha kuyesa sindikumva kuwawa kulikonse. Ndikuganiza kuti dokotala wazachipatala woyenera ayenera kuganizira za chitonthozo cha wodwala wake. Mwa njira, mu polyclinic yomweyi yaubwana wanga, madokotala sanamvetse bwino: "Ndani wakupatsani matendawa? Zamkhutu zotani? ”- ndipo ndimamva kale choncho, ndi ine amene ndimalakwitsa, osati mnzake.
Maria, wazaka 26: "M'malingaliro mwanga, dotolo wamkazi woyenera ayenera kukhala wachinyamata komanso wamakono yemwe amamvetsetsa kuti moyo mumzinda ndi chiyani komanso kusowa nthawi. Mwachitsanzo, dokotala wanga ali ndi zaka 31-32, nthawi zonse amakhala tcheru komanso wokonda kulankhula nawo. Koposa zonse ndidakonda kuti nthawi yoyamba kupatsidwa adapereka nambala yake ya foni ndikuti nditha kusunga nthawi yanga ndikapeza zotsatira zamayeso pomulembera SMS m'masiku atatu. M'malingaliro mwanga, iyi ndi mphatso yeniyeni yamtsogolo. "