Dziwani zomwe mumachita bwino

Kuzindikira mphamvu zanu, mikhalidwe, kupambana kwanu ndi chuma ndikofunikira kuti musiye kukhala mukufananiza. Zowonadi, zimakuthandizani kuti muchotse kumverera kuti ena akuchita bwino, kukhala ndi moyo wabwino. Tiyenera kuzindikira kuti tonse tili ndi mphamvu zomwe ndizopadera kwa ife, wina amachita bwino m'dera lina, mumapambana kwina ...

Dziwani bwino

Kuti muthe kuzindikira mphamvu zanu, ndikofunikabe kudzidziwa nokha, kudziwa zokonda zanu, zokhumba zanu, makhalidwe anu, zomwe mumaika patsogolo, zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala osangalala kapena osasangalala. Simuli olemera ngati mnansi wanu, koma kodi mukufunadi kugwira ntchito maola 12 patsiku mopanikizika? Kodi mungakonde moyo wake?

Yesetsani kuyamikira

Kusonyeza kuyamikira kumakuthandizani kuti muziganizira zimene zili zabwino panopa m’malo mongoganizira zam’mbuyo kapena kuganizira zimene zidzakhale zabwino m’tsogolo. Kulemba pansi kapena kungoganiza za zinthu zomwe mumayamikira tsiku ndi tsiku kumakupatsani chidwi chochuluka pa zomwe muli nazo osati zomwe mulibe.

Bwererani

Kuti musiye kudziyerekeza ndi ena, muyeneranso kudziwa momwe mungasinthire zomwe mumawonetsedwa, makamaka pamasamba ochezera. Kodi moyo wa anthu ena ulidi wangwiro chonchi? Kodi banja lojambula zithunzili likuchita bwino chonchi? Kodi tchuthi chawo chinali chakumwamba kapena ndi mawonekedwe a chithunzicho? Ndipo komabe, kodi mukufunadi kuti moyo wanu ukhale ngati chakudya cha Instagram?

Dzizungulireni ndi anthu oyenera

Ndikofunikira kuti mukhale ndi anthu omwe amakukwezani ndikukulimbikitsani pazomwe mukuchita. Ngati mumadziona kuti ndinu otsika ndipo mwazunguliridwa ndi anthu omwe amadziika patsogolo ndikukuikani mumpikisano, simudzamva kuti mukugwira ntchitoyo.

Dzilimbikitseni nokha popanda kudziyerekeza

Ndikofunika kusiyanitsa pakati pa kusilira ndi kaduka. Kusirira mkhalidwe wa munthu sikungakupangitseni kupita, kumangotulutsa malingaliro olakwika. Kumbali ina, kusirira munthu ndi kusonkhezeredwa ndi ulendo wake, zimene wachita bwino kungakuthandizeni kuphunzira, kudziposa nokha, kukwaniritsa cholinga.

Dzilandireni nokha momwe muliri

Muli ndi katundu wanu, mantha anu, zolakwa zanu… Zonse zimakupangani inu chomwe inu muli. Kuchokera ku zoipa, zinthu zabwino zimabadwa. Ngati mutha kusintha mbali zina, zinthu zina sizingasinthe, muyenera kuvomereza ndikusiya kufuna kukhala wangwiro, palibe amene angasinthe. Landirani zofooka zanu!

Pewani zoyambitsa

Pezani nthawi yoti muzindikire anthu, zinthu, kapena zochitika zomwe zikuyambitsa kusakhutira. Zindikirani momwe amakukhudzirani kuti muwazindikire, ndiye pewani. Apanso, yang'anani m'malo mwa mafananidwe omwe ali othandiza kwa inu, omwe amakulimbikitsani, monga makhalidwe aumunthu omwe mumakonda mwa anthu ena kapena ntchito zomwe zimakulolani kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino.

Dzichitireni zabwino

Dzichitireni chifundo! Kuyamikirana wina ndi mzake, kuponyerana maluwa, kumwetulira wina ndi mzake! Ndipo koposa zonse, kumbukirani kuzindikira, ngakhale kuzindikira kupambana kwanu. Timachita zinthu tsiku lililonse, zazikulu ndi zazing’ono, koma tiyenerabe kuzindikira zimenezi. Chakudya chabwino, chithandizo choperekedwa kwa wina, ntchito yabwino… Tsiku lililonse limakhala ndi zopambana zake 

Gawani zolephera zanu

Ngati tsiku lililonse lili ndi gawo lake la zopambana, limakhalanso ndi zolephera zake. Koma chosangalatsa n’chakuti aliyense ali m’ngalawa imodzi. Ngakhale munthu amene akuwoneka kuti ali ndi moyo wabwino kwambiri amakhala ndi zopinga ndi zopinga m’moyo. Tengani sitepe yoyamba ndikugawana zomwe mwakumana nazo (ndi anthu oyenera ndithu!), Mudzaona kuti ena adzaulula zakulephera kwawo.

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