Zamkatimu
Chifukwa cha kulenga ndi ntchito zamagalimoto zoperekedwa ndi mphunzitsi, mwanayo amagwiritsa ntchito luso lake ndikukulitsa chidziwitso chake. Ndi malamulo a makhalidwe abwino operekedwa ndi anthu ammudzi, amaphunzira za moyo wa anthu komanso kulankhulana.
Ali ndi zaka 3, mwanayo amayamba kupanga
Mwana wanu tsopano amachita ndi zolinga zenizeni, amatha kuika maganizo ake nthawi yaitali, amagwirizanitsa zochita zake bwino. Ndi, fungulo, zotsatira zoonekeratu: amachita ndikuchita bwino zinthu zambiri.
M'magawo ang'onoang'ono, ntchito zamanja zimapanga gawo lalikulu la pulogalamu yake: kujambula, collage, modelling… Utoto, zomata, zinthu zachilengedwe, zinthu zingapo zomwe zimamupangitsa kuti azitha kulenga zingapezeke kwa iye. Pamodzi ndi zochitika zosangalatsa zodzutsa izi, amaphunziranso luso la zida zosiyanasiyana.
Tsopano ali ndi lingaliro m'malingaliro akamayamba kujambula kapena kuti akugwira pulasitiki. Amagwira bwino pensulo ndipo, atawongolera malingaliro ake, amayesa kutulutsanso nyumba, nyama, mtengo… Zotsatira zake ndi zopanda ungwiro, koma timayamba kuzindikira nkhaniyo.
Kupaka utoto kumawathandiza kumvetsetsa lingaliro la malo. Poyamba, imakhala yodzaza kwambiri ndi malo omwe ali nawo; ndiyeno amakwanitsa kudziika pa autilaini. Komabe, ntchitoyi, yomwe imafuna kugwiritsa ntchito kwambiri komanso yosasangalatsa m'malingaliro, sikusangalatsa aliyense. Choncho osachepera kumupatsa kusankha mitundu!
Nthawi yomaliza ya "tadpole man"
Mnyamata uyu ali ndi mbiri yake chifukwa chakuti ali wamba kwa ana ang'onoang'ono padziko lonse lapansi, komanso kuti chisinthiko chake chimachitira umboni za kukula kwabwino kwa mwanayo. Dzina lake lotchedwa "tadpole" limachokera ku mfundo yakuti mutu wake sunasiyanitsidwe ndi thunthu lake. Zimabwera mu mawonekedwe a bwalo lochulukirapo kapena locheperapo, okongoletsedwa ndi zinthu zomwe zimayimira tsitsi ndi miyendo, pamalo osasintha.
Chisinthiko chake choyamba: amakhala ofukula (pafupifupi zaka 4). Chowulungika kwambiri, chimakhala chofanana ndi mawonekedwe amunthu. Wolemba wachinyamatayo amakongoletsa ndi zinthu zambiri pathupi (maso, pakamwa, makutu, manja, ndi zina zotero) kapena zowonjezera (chipewa, mabatani a malaya, etc.). Ndiye, pa gawo lapakati la sukulu ya mkaka (zaka 4-5), pamabwera symmetry.
Ndi kuchuluka kwa zinthu zomwe zimatsimikizira kusinthika kwabwino kwa munthu. Zimasonyeza kuti mwana wanu akuyamba kuzindikira thupi lake, amadziwa kuyang'anitsitsa bwino komanso amakhala womasuka kufotokoza maganizo ake pojambula. Ubwino wa kapangidwe kake ndi wopanda ntchito. N'chimodzimodzinso ndi maphunziro ena.
Pafupifupi zaka 5, mutu wa mwamuna umasiyana ndi thunthu. Tsopano ili ndi mabwalo awiri omwe amaikidwa pamwamba pa mzake. Gawoli limalemekezedwa kwambiri, ndipo gawo lililonse limadzikonzekeretsa ndi zinthu zoyenera. Ndi mathero a "tadpole" ... koma osati a anzake. Chifukwa phunziroli silinathe kumulimbikitsa.
Kuphunzira kulemba kumayambira ku kindergarten
Inde, kuphunzira kulemba bwino kumayamba mu CP. Koma kuyambira chaka choyamba cha kindergarten, aphunzitsi adakonza malo.
Mu gawo laling'ono, mwana wasukulu amakwaniritsa chidziwitso chake cha njira zosiyanasiyana: mfundo, mzere, kupindika, kuzungulira. Amapanganso mawonekedwe ndi ziwerengero. Amadutsa zilembo za dzina lake loyamba kuti alilembe pang'onopang'ono. Ayenera kuphunzira kugwira bwino pensulo yake, yomwe imapangidwa ndi chala chake chachikulu ndi chala chakutsogolo. Zimafunika kukhazikika komanso kulondola. N'zosadabwitsa kuti atangofika kunyumba, ayenera kusiya nthunzi!
M'chaka chachiwiri, akupitiriza ndi mizere yomwe adzayenera kuidziwa bwino polemba makalata. Amakopera mawu ndi kuloweza ena mwa iwo.
Pa pulogalamu ya chaka chatha, padzakhala kofunikira kumangirira manja kuti agwirizane ndi zilembo. Komanso kutulutsanso mitu ndi ma cursives ndikusintha kukula kwa zilembo kuti zigwirizane ndi zothandizira. Kumapeto kwa chaka, wophunzira amadziwa zizindikiro zonse ndi zilembo za kulemba pamanja.
CP imatengedwa ngati chiyambi cha "bizinesi yayikulu". Zoonadi, tsopano pali udindo wopeza zotsatira, koma aphunzitsi ambiri, pamene amafuna chilango ndi kukhwima, amatengera njira yophunzirira yosangalatsa. Motero amalemekeza malire a ana ang'onoang'ono poganizira komanso kutengera. Amaganiziranso zaka za wophunzira aliyense (kuyambira 5½ mpaka 6½, kumayambiriro kwa CP), zomwe zimakhudza kukhwima kwawo, komanso kuthamanga kwa maphunziro awo. Palibe kusaleza mtima: vuto lenileni lidzabweretsedwa kwa inu nthawi zonse.
Mwanayo amaphunzira kuyenda mumlengalenga
Ntchito zamagalimoto zilinso gawo la pulogalamu ya nazale. Amayang'ana pa kufunafuna kupeza thupi, malo ndi thupi mumlengalenga. Izi zimatchedwa ukadaulo wa chithunzi cha thupi: kugwiritsa ntchito thupi lanu ngati benchmark, osakhalanso ma benchmark akunja kuti mudziyang'anire nokha mumlengalenga. Kudziwa bwino kumeneku komanso kukulitsa luso lake logwirizanitsa mayendedwe ake kudzatsegula mwayi kwa ana pamasewera akunja (kulumpha chingwe, kuyenda pamtengo, kusewera mpira, ndi zina).
Kuti mupeze njira yanu mumlengalenga, akuluakulu amagwiritsa ntchito malingaliro osamveka omwe amatsutsana ndi otsutsa: mkati / kunja, mmwamba / pansi, pamwamba / pansi ... Ndipo izi sizophweka kwa ana osapitirira zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi! Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, chifukwa muwonetsa mwana wanu zitsanzo zenizeni, ndi kuti adzatha kukutsanzirani potchula zotsutsanazi, zidzamveka momveka bwino kwa iye. Zimakhala zovuta zikafika pazomwe alibe patsogolo pake. Ichi ndichifukwa chake lingaliro la mtunda ndi nthawi ya ulendo lidzakhala lachilendo kwa iye kwa nthawi yaitali.
Lateralization ndi gawo la kupeza kwa chithunzi cha thupi. Maonekedwe a mphamvu yogwira ntchito mbali imodzi ya thupi pamwamba pa ina imatchedwa lateralization. Mwana wamng'ono poyamba amakhala ndi ambidextrous ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito manja ake awiri kapena mapazi ake mosasamala. Osowa ndi anthu amene amatsalira pambuyo pake. Pafupifupi zaka 4, imayamba kugwiritsa ntchito bwino, mwa njira yokhayo, miyendo ndi diso kumbali imodzi. Popemphedwa, ophunzitsidwa bwino, mamembala a mbali yosankhidwa amakhala aluso kwambiri.
Dzanja lamanja kapena lamanzere? Kungoti anthu akumanja ndi ambiri sizikutanthauza kuti anthu akumanzere adzakhala opusa. Poyamba, amavutika pang'ono ndi zomwe pafupifupi chilichonse m'dera lawo chimapangidwira anthu olankhula dzanja lamanja. Ngati muli ndi mwana wamanzere ndipo nonse muli ndi dzanja lamanja, khalani ndi mnzanu wamanzere kuti amuphunzitse luso lina. Kumanga zingwe za nsapato zanu, mwachitsanzo.
Kuchedwa pang'ono kwa lateralization kungasonyeze kukanika kwina. Ngati atapezedwa ali ndi zaka 5, zimakhala bwino kwambiri: zidzalimbikitsa kuphunzira kovuta kwambiri komwe kumatsimikizira chaka cha CP (ndiko kunena kuti kulemba ndi kuwerenga). Kuyambira zaka 6, muyenera kufunsa. Nthawi zambiri ndi kugwiritsa ntchito manja mosatsimikizika komwe kumachenjeza. Popeza kuti m’gawo lomalizira la sukulu ya ana aang’ono zochita zabwino zamanja zimachitika kawirikawiri, mphunzitsi amachenjeza makolowo ngati aona vuto.
Kusukulu ndi kunyumba amakonza bwino chinenero chake
Ali ndi zaka 3, mwanayo amalankhula ziganizo, zopanda ungwiro koma zomveka ... makamaka ndi inu! Kusukulu, tidzamupempha kuti anene maganizo ake pamaso pa ena, kuti anthu onse amumvetse. Ngati izi zimawopseza ena poyamba, ndi injini yeniyeni yokonzekera bwino ndi kufotokoza mawu ake.
Amakonda kulamulira kukambirana. Pakati pawo, ana sakhumudwa chifukwa chosamvetsera kapena kulola ena kulankhula. Amagawana njira yomweyi yosalankhulana. Koma palibe amene angaimire khalidwe limeneli kwa munthu wamkulu. Kusintha kuchoka pakulankhula pawekha kupita kukambitsirana sikumachitika popanda maphunziro. Ndipo zimatenga nthawi! Yambani kumuphunzitsa zoyambira pakali pano: musamudule, osafuula m'makutu anu mukakhala pafoni, ndi zina zotero. Adzamvetsetsa, pang'onopang'ono, kuti popanda zopinga zomwe izi zikutanthauza, kukambirana. ndi chisangalalo chogawana.
Ngati amadziona kuti ali pakati pa dziko lapansi, ayenera kudziwa kuti sali. Mumamumvetsera akamalankhula ndipo mumamuyankha mwanzeru kuti mutsimikizire zimenezo. Koma ayenera kumvetsa kuti ena, kuphatikizapo inuyo, ali ndi zokonda zina komanso amafuna kufotokoza maganizo awo. Chifukwa chake mudzamuthandiza kuti atuluke mu kudzikonda kwake, kusinthika kwachilengedwe kwamalingaliro mpaka osachepera zaka 7, koma zomwe zingamupangitse kukhala munthu wapawiri ngati atalimbikira.
Amatenga mawu ake kuchokera kuzinthu zambiri. banja ndi mmodzi wa iwo. Osazengereza kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oyenera, ngakhale ndi iye. Amatha kumvetsa tanthauzo la mawu osadziwika bwino chifukwa cha mawu apatsogolo ndi apambuyo. Mulimonsemo, ngati sakumvetsa, mukhulupirireni, adzakufunsani mafunso. Pomaliza, yesetsani kumaliza ziganizo zanu. Ngakhale atalingalira zolinga zanu, muyenera kumupatsa chizoloŵezi chabwinochi.
Amakonda kubwereza mawu oipa, makamaka “caca-boudin” wosawonongeka! Makolo ambiri amaona kuti kusukuluko n’kolimbikitsa, koma kodi mumaphonyanso mawu otukwana ochepa? Komabe, tiyenera kusiyanitsa izi ndi chipongwe. Tikhoza kulolera mawu osangalatsa olankhulidwa popanda njiru, koma osati mawu achipongwe amene amawononga ulemu wa ena, kuphatikizapo anzathu. Pakalipano, mwana wanu sakumvetsa tanthauzo la kugwiriridwa, koma nkokwanira kuti adziwe kuti ndikoletsedwa.
Zimatengeranso kusinthasintha kwa mawu ndi mawu. Adzalimbikitsidwa ndi syntax yanu kuti muwongolere zake. Mofanana ndi kamvekedwe ka mawu, chikoka chanu chimakhala chachikulu m'dera lanu: mwana wa ku Parisi woleredwa kumwera nthawi zambiri amatengera chilankhulo cha "kumpoto". Kumbali inayi, musaganize kuti muyenera kutengera zilankhulo zomwe amagwiritsa ntchito ndi anzanu amsinkhu wake, zitha kumukwiyitsa. Lemekezani munda wake wachinsinsi.
M'malo mozibwezera, bwerezani zomwe zangonena kumene pogwiritsa ntchito mawu olondola pomwe mawu ake sakudziwika. Popanda ndemanga. Mimicry imagwira ntchito bwino kuposa kudzudzula!
Akadali wamng'ono, muyenera kudekha!
Zodziyimira pawokha, koma osati kwathunthu. Kuposa kale lonse, mwana wanu akufunsa kuti azichita yekha zochita za tsiku ndi tsiku. Patebulo, ndi yabwino, ngakhale mutadula nyama yanu mpaka zaka 6. Kusamba, kutsuka mano, amadziwa momwe angachitire. Anayamba kuvala pafupifupi zaka 4, ndi zovala ndi nsapato zomwe zinali zosavuta kuvala. Koma kuchita bwino ndi kuthamanga sikunafike pokumana. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zofunikira kupita kumbuyo kapena kukonzanso. Chitani mwanzeru kuti musafooketse chifuno chake chabwino!
Ukhondo ndi zolephera zake. Mpaka zaka 5, bola ngati amasunga nthawi, kukodza usiku sayenera kuda nkhawa. Ngati zichitika nthawi zonse kapena mwadongosolo, ndipo ngati zipitilira pamenepo, tiyenera kuchitapo kanthu. Ngati mwana wanu sanayambe waukhondo usiku, funsani kuti aone ngati alibe zinchito kusakhwima kwa mkodzo dongosolo. Ngati anali ndipo “anabwereranso”, yang'anani chomwe chinayambitsa: kusuntha, kubadwa, mikangano mu ubale wanu ... Osayesa kunyalanyaza vutolo. Chifukwa kwa mwana wanu, zimakhala zovuta kudzuka ali wonyowa, sayesa kukagona ndi ena ndipo amadziimba mlandu chifukwa chakukuvutitsani. Ndipo kwa inu, usiku ndi wotanganidwa ndipo tulo tanu timasokonekera. M'pofunika kukambirana izo, pamodzi, ndi dokotala, kapena ngakhale zamaganizo.
Lingaliro la nthawi akadali pafupifupi. Mwana wanu ayamba kumvetsetsa lingaliro la nthawi chifukwa cha maumboni okhazikika: onetsani zochitika zodziwika bwino zomwe zimatsimikizira tsikulo, ndi kusintha ndi zochitika zomwe zimatsimikizira nyengo ya chaka. Lingaliro lake la kutsatizana kwa nthawi lidzayamba kugwiritsidwa ntchito pakanthawi kochepa. Amayamba kukhala wokhoza kuyembekezera zam'tsogolo, koma musaganizire kumuuza zam'mbuyo. Chifukwa chake, ngati akuganiza kuti munabadwa m'masiku ankhondo, musakhumudwe!
Nthawi zina amakayikira katchulidwe. Mungathe kulangiza mwana wanu, kuyambira zaka 5, kuti abwereze ziganizo zomwe zidzayesa katchulidwe kake, pa chitsanzo cha otchuka "Masoko a Archduchess ndi owuma, owuma". Zovuta zanu pozitchula zidzasokoneza nthawi yomweyo! Ndipo zilibe kanthu ngati tanthauzo lawo silikudziwika. Kuti ayesedwe, mwachitsanzo: “Anzeru asanu ndi mmodzi abisala pansi pa mtengo wamlombwa; "Ndimakonda chitumbuwa cha apulo chofewa kuposa chitumbuwa cha phwetekere" ndi zina.
Nthawi yodandaula Kuyambira ali ndi zaka 3 ngati sanatchule mawu ake oyambirira kapena ngati kulephera kwake kumveka sikumulola kuti amvetsetse komanso pafupi ndi zaka 6 ngati akupitiriza kukhumudwa ndi makonsonanti oposa amodzi kapena awiri. Pakakhala chibwibwi, m'pofunika kuchitapo kanthu mwamsanga pamene vutoli likuwonekera.