Zamkatimu
- Mawu oletsedwa a 7 kwa makolo
- 2. “Ndiwe chiyani…” (wauve, wolira, wovutitsa, ndi zina zotero)
- 3. "Osalira, usakhale wochepa kwambiri!"
- 4. "Palibe kompyuta, bye ...", "Palibe zojambula, bye ..."
- 5. “Mukuona, simungathe kuchita chilichonse. Ndiloleni ndichite! “
- 6. “Aliyense ali ndi ana ngati ana, koma inu…”
- 7. “Musakhumudwe ndi zamkhutuzi!
Mawu oletsedwa a 7 kwa makolo
Mawu ambiri oti "zamaphunziro" kwa ife, makolo, amangotuluka zokha. Tinawamva kwa makolo athu, ndipo tsopano ana athu amamva kwa ife. Koma ambiri mwa mawuwa ndi owopsa: amachepetsa kwambiri kudzidalira kwa mwanayo ndipo angawononge moyo wake. Tiyeni tiyese kudziwa zomwe ana "amakonzedweratu" ndi zomwe mawu odziwika bwino a makolo amatsogolera.
Lero sitidzalemba za mfundo yakuti sizingatheke kuopseza mwana ndi madokotala, jekeseni, babaykami. Ndikukhulupirira kuti aliyense akudziwa kale kuti nkhani zoopsa zoterezi sizingagwire ntchito yabwino. M'nkhaniyi, tidzakambirana za zotsatira zamaganizo za mawu omwe makolo amalankhula nthawi zambiri, osaganizira mphamvu yeniyeni ya zotsatira za mawuwa.
Mawuwa angamveke mosiyana pang'ono, mwachitsanzo, "Ndisiye ndekha!" kapena “Ndatopa nawe kale!” Ziribe kanthu momwe mawuwa amamvekera, pang'onopang'ono amasuntha mwanayo kutali ndi amayi (chabwino, kapena abambo - malingana ndi omwe akunena).
Ngati muthamangitsa mwanayo motere, adzawona kuti: "Palibe chifukwa cholumikizana ndi amayi, chifukwa nthawi zonse amakhala wotanganidwa kapena wotopa." Ndiyeno, atakula, iye mosakayikira sadzakuuzani za mavuto ake kapena zochitika zomwe zinachitika m'moyo wawo.
Zoyenera kuchita? Mufotokozereni mwana wanu nthawi yeniyeni yomwe mudzakhala nayo nthawi yosewera, yendani naye. Kulibwino kunena kuti, “Ndili ndi chinthu chimodzi choti ndimalize, ndipo mungojambula pakadali pano. Ndikamaliza, tituluka panja. ” Ingoonani zenizeni: ana aang’ono sangathe kudzisangalatsa okha kwa ola limodzi.
2. “Ndiwe chiyani…” (wauve, wolira, wovutitsa, ndi zina zotero)
Timaika zilembo pa ana athu kuti: “N’chifukwa chiyani ndiwe wovutitsa chonchi?”, “Ungakhale bwanji chitsiru chotere?” Nthaŵi zina ana amamva zimene timalankhula kwa ena, mwachitsanzo: “Iye ndi wamanyazi,” “Ndi waulesi.” Ana aang’ono amakhulupirira zimene amamva, ngakhale zitawakhudza iwowo. Chifukwa chake zilembo zoyipa zimatha kukhala mauneneri odzikwaniritsa.
Palibe chifukwa choperekera khalidwe loipa la umunthu wa mwanayo, kulankhula za zochita za mwanayo. Mwachitsanzo, m’malo mwa mawu akuti “Ndiwe wovutitsa kwambiri! Mwamulakwiranji Masha? ” nenani kuti: “Masha anali wachisoni ndi wowawa kwambiri pamene unamuchotsa chidebecho. Kodi tingamutonthoze bwanji? “
3. "Osalira, usakhale wochepa kwambiri!"
Munthu wina ankaganiza kuti misozi ndi chizindikiro cha kufooka. Kukula ndi maganizo amenewa, timaphunzira kuti tisalire, koma nthawi yomweyo timakhala odzaza ndi mavuto a maganizo. Pambuyo pake, popanda kulira, sitichotsa thupi la hormone yopsinjika maganizo yomwe imatuluka ndi misozi.
Zimene makolo amachita akamalira mwana zimakhala zaukali, ziwopsezo, makhalidwe abwino, mantha, ndi umbuli. Zomwe zimachitika kwambiri (mwa njira, ichi ndi chizindikiro chenicheni cha kufooka kwa makolo) ndikukhudzidwa kwa thupi. Koma chofunika ndicho kumvetsa chimene chimayambitsa misozi ndi kuthetsa vutolo.
4. "Palibe kompyuta, bye ...", "Palibe zojambula, bye ..."
Makolo nthaŵi zambiri amauza mwana wawo kuti: “Simufunikira kompyuta mpaka mutadya phala, simuchita homuweki.” Machenjerero akuti “inu kwa Ine, Ine kwa inu” sadzabala zipatso. Zolondola, zidzabweretsa, koma osati zomwe mukuyembekezera. M'kupita kwa nthawi, kusinthanitsa komaliza kudzakutsutsani: "Kodi mukufuna kuti ndichite homuweki yanga? Ndiloleni ndipite panja. “
Musaphunzitse mwana wanu kuti apindule. Pali malamulo ndipo mwanayo ayenera kuwatsatira. Dzizolowereni. Ngati mwanayo akadali wamng'ono ndipo sakufuna kuyika zinthu m'njira iliyonse, ganizirani, mwachitsanzo, masewera "Ndani adzakhala woyamba kuyeretsa zidole." Kotero inu ndi mwanayo mudzaphatikizidwa mu ntchito yoyeretsa, ndipo muphunzitseni kuyeretsa zinthu madzulo aliwonse, ndikupewa ultimatums.
5. “Mukuona, simungathe kuchita chilichonse. Ndiloleni ndichite! “
Mwanayo amasewera ndi zingwe kapena kuyesa kuyika batani, ndipo nthawi yakwana yotuluka. Inde, n'zosavuta kumuchitira chilichonse, osalabadira "ndekha" waubwana wokwiya. Pambuyo pa "thandizo lachisamaliro" ili, zikhumbo za kudzidalira zimauma mofulumira.
"Ndipatseni bwino, simungapambane, simudziwa momwe, simukudziwa, simukumvetsa ..." - mawu onsewa amakonzeratu mwanayo kuti alephere, kumupangitsa kuti asadziwike. Amadziona kuti ndi wopusa, wovuta ndipo chifukwa chake amayesa kuchitapo kanthu pang'ono momwe angathere, kunyumba ndi kusukulu, komanso ndi mabwenzi.
6. “Aliyense ali ndi ana ngati ana, koma inu…”
Ganizirani momwe mumamvera ngati mukuyerekezeredwa poyera ndi munthu wina. Mwayi wake, mwadzazidwa ndi kukhumudwa, kukanidwa, ndipo ngakhale mkwiyo. Ndipo ngati wachikulire amavutika kuvomereza kuyerekezeredwa kumene sikunamukomere, ndiye tinganene chiyani za mwana amene makolo amamuyerekezera ndi winawake pa mpata uliwonse.
Ngati zimakuvutani kupewa kufananiza, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kuyerekeza ndi inu nokha. Mwachitsanzo: “Dzulo munachita homuweki yanu mofulumira kwambiri ndipo kulemba pamanja kunali koyera kwambiri. Bwanji simunayese tsopano? ” Pang’ono ndi pang’ono phunzitsani mwana wanu luso la kuona zinthu modzidzimutsa, m’phunzitseni kupenda zolakwa zake, kupeza zifukwa zopambana ndi zolephera. Muthandizeni nthawi zonse ndi m'zonse.
7. “Musakhumudwe ndi zamkhutuzi!
Mwinamwake izi ndizopanda pake - tangoganizani, galimotoyo inatengedwa kapena sinapatsidwe, atsikanawo amatcha chovalacho chopusa, nyumba ya cubes inaphwanyika. Koma izi ndizopanda pake kwa inu, ndi kwa iye - dziko lonse lapansi. Lowani mu malo ake, musangalatse iye. Ndiuzeni, kodi simungakhumudwe mutabera galimoto yanu, imene mwasunga kwa zaka zingapo? N’zokayikitsa kuti mungasangalale ndi zodabwitsa ngati zimenezi.
Ngati makolo samachirikiza mwanayo, koma amatcha mavuto ake zopanda pake, ndiye kuti patapita nthawi sangakuuzeni maganizo ake ndi zochitika zake. Posonyeza kunyalanyaza "zisoni" za mwanayo, akuluakulu akhoza kutaya chikhulupiriro chake.
Kumbukirani kuti palibe zongoyerekeza za makanda, ndipo zomwe timanena mwangozi zitha kukhala ndi zotsatira zosasinthika. Mawu amodzi osasamala amatha kulimbikitsa mwana ndi lingaliro lakuti sangapambane ndipo amachita zonse zolakwika. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti mwanayo apeze chithandizo ndi kumvetsetsa m'mawu a makolo ake.