Zamkatimu
Nthawi zonse timafuna kuchita bwino ndi ana, koma nthawi zina sitidziwa kuti tingakhale ndi maganizo otani kuti tikhale kholo lachitsanzo. Kenako timadzipeza tikusuntha dziko lapansi ndi thambo, kupereka mphatso zosawerengeka kapena kukonza zinthu zodabwitsa.
Komabe, ubwana uli kale ndi mwayi wapamwamba uwu wokhala malo odabwitsa! Choncho palibe chifukwa kukhala mopitirira muyeso kukondweretsa mwana wanu, ndi mu zinthu zosavuta kuti adzakula mokwanira.
Kodi ndi chiyani? mizati ya chisangalalo cha ana? Nayi kalozera kakang'ono ka makolo: Zinthu 9 zomwe zimakondweretsa ana.
1- Malo otetezeka
Ngati tinyalanyaza kukhutitsidwa ndi zofunikira zakuthupi, kufunikira kwa chitetezo kumadza koyamba mu piramidi ya Maslow (Hei eya, pitani mukakonzenso maphunziro anu amalingaliro!).
Kwa mwana, chilengedwe chimakhala chowopsa kwambiri kuposa kwa ife ndipo malingaliro amachulukitsidwa. Kufunika kwa chitetezo kotero kumawonjezekanso kakhumi.
Chifukwa chake, pewani kukhala wodzidzimutsa kapena wosadziwikiratu, ayenera kudalira inu nthawi zonse. Muwonetseni kuti akhoza kumva kuti ali otetezeka ku zoopsa zonse zapakhomo, ndipo mutsimikizireni za mantha ake opanda nzeru (zilombo zongoganizira, nyama, ziwombankhanga, mabingu, ndi zina zotero).
2- Makolo osamala
Nthawi zonse mulimbikitseni mwana wanu kuti apeze kapena kuphunzira ndikupindula zomwe akuchita tsiku ndi tsiku. Musazengereze kumuyamikira pamene kuli koyenera (matamando opanda pake, timachita popanda!).
Peŵani kudzudzulidwa, m’malo mwake mupatseni njira yomangirira yowongokera pamene walephera. Pomaliza, samalirani chilankhulo chanu, kuyambira ali aang'ono ana amamvetsetsa zonse ndipo ndi masiponji enieni.
3- Zitsanzo zili m'manja mwanu
Simukuganiza kuti ndinu angwiro… iye ali! Ndinu chitsanzo chake, ngwazi yake, mumamupangitsa kukhala ndi maloto ndipo amangofuna kukhala ngati inu, choncho khalani achitsanzo. Muyenera kumuwonetsa kuti ndinu wokondwa koposa zonse.
Onetsani chidwi, kuyendetsa, kulimba mtima pakufunika. Wang’ono amene amaona makolo ake akumvera chisoni tsoka lawo posachedwapa amawatsanzira.
Komanso dziwani kuti si inu nokha amene angagwiritse ntchito kuti adziwike. Ngati mukufuna kuti mwana wanu azisamalidwa pafupipafupi, sankhani nanny wanu motsatira mfundo zomwezi.
Zowerenga: Momwe mungaphunzitsire malingaliro anu kukhala olimbikitsa
4- Muonetseni kuti mumamukhulupirira
Pakati pa akuluakulu, ziwonetsero za kukhulupirirana zimangowoneka ngati pali mtengo weniweni. Ndi ana ang'onoang'ono, vutoli silofunika! Nthawi zazing'ono zaufulu, zodziyimira pawokha zomwe mumamupatsa ndizokwanira kuti amve kuti akutengedwa mozama.
Mofananamo, kumupatsa ntchito zing’onozing’ono za tsiku ndi tsiku kudzasonyeza kuti mumamukhulupirira, kuti angakhale wothandiza! Palibe chabwinoko chokulitsa kudzidalira kwanu (kumakonda kufowoka pachabe paubwana wanu).
Zitsanzo zina zopusa: “Kodi mungapite kukawauza abambo kuti ndikuwafuna?” Ndizofunikira kwambiri! »,« Mukayika chivundikirocho chingandithandize kwambiri! “” Kodi mungandithandize kuchotsa zoseweretsa za mlongo wanu wamng’ono? “.
5- Kudziwa kukhala wolimba
Makolo abwino, ngati sali makoma amwala, sakhalanso ma marshmallows. Pamene palibe, palibe. Nthawi ikadzafika, ndi pambuyo pake.
Samalani, komabe, kuti musamusiye mumdima: mukamukana kanthu, nthawi zonse mufotokozere chifukwa chake, ndipo musakhale pamutu wotsutsa.
“Ayi, palibe TV usikuuno, uyenera kugona bwino kuti ukhale wabwino kusukulu!” Mukakonza chipinda chanu, tipita ku funfair mawa, simusamala? »Ndipo presto, timasintha kukana kukhala vuto lolimbikitsa.
6- Msiyeni akulitse umunthu wake
Mwina mumaganiza kuti mungakhale ndi mini-inu, zaphonya! Mwana wanu alidi munthu wokwanira ndi zokonda zake! Mutha kukhala ochezeka, odzaza ndi abwenzi, okonda masamu ndi nyimbo.
Zosungidwa kwa iye, amakonda mabuku ndi chilengedwe. Muthandizeni kuti adzipangire yekha, adzilimbikire mozungulira, mulimbikitseni kuti ayese kuchita zomwe amakonda.
7- Mlingo wabwino wamasewera
Kusewera ndiye gwero lalikulu lachisangalalo komanso njira yolumikizirana kwambiri mwa ana. Kaya ndi masewera a badminton ndi inu, nyumba ya Lego pakona panu kapena mpikisano wamagalimoto oseweretsa ndi mnansi wanu, zilizonse zomwe zikuchitika.
Sinthani magwero a zosangalatsa momwe mungathere kuti asafanane ndi chisangalalo cha masewerawo ndi zochitika zinazake.
8- Landirani zachinsinsi chake
Inde, kaya ndi zaka 3, 5 kapena 8, tili kale ndi dimba lachinsinsi, ndipo sitikufuna kuti amayi abwere kudzazezera mkati!
Kamtengo kakang'ono aka kamene amamukonda mobisa, Manon wotchuka uyu yemwe sakufuna kukuuzani, matenda omwe anali nawo modabwitsa ...
Mwachidziwitso, mwanayo amafunikira malo oti akhale chete: kaya ndi chipinda chake, chipinda chochezera kapena kanyumba m'munda, musalowemo konse, ndi ufumu wake.
9- Pewani kufananiza
"Mchimwene wako, pa msinkhu wako, anali akupanga kale zingwe za nsapato zake", "munali 14 m'mbiri? ndi zabwino kwambiri ! ndipo margot wamng'ono anali ndi zingati? »: Izi ndi ziganizo zoyenera kuletsedwa. Choyamba, aliyense ndi wapadera ndipo amawonekera m'malo osiyanasiyana.
Chachiwiri, khalidwe lotereli limasokoneza chidaliro chimene mwana wanu wadzipangira yekha. Pomaliza, ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri yopangira nsanje ndikuyambitsa mikangano (kutchulidwa mwapadera poyerekezera pakati pa abale ndi alongo).
Kutsiliza
Pomaliza, kuti musangalatse mwana wanu, yang'anani mbali ziwiri zazikulu:
Chilengedwe: Kodi mwana wanu ali ndi mwayi wopeza zinthu (zowoneka ndi zosaoneka) zomwe zimafunikira kuti akule mozungulira?
Chidziwitso: kodi mumamuthandiza kukula, kudzimanga, kumulimbikitsa kusonyeza umunthu wake?