Psychology

Amadziwa zomwe akufuna komanso zomwe akufuna, ndipo amazipeza. Amakonda kugonana podikirira kalonga pahatchi yoyera - yowala, yolemera, yosiyanasiyana, amasiyana mosavuta ndi abwenzi ngati asiya kugwirizana nawo. Iwo ndi Casanovas mu masiketi.

Zaka zingapo zapitazo, Ammayi ndi TV presenter Vera Sotnikova adanena za iye pofunsidwa kuti: "Ndine Casanova mu siketi." M'masiku amenewo, chikhalidwe cha banja chinali chofala pakati pa akazi, ndipo chitsanzo chotero cha khalidwe chinkawoneka chachilendo, chodabwitsa komanso chachimuna. Koma zonse zasintha.

Zowona zamasiku ano zowawa nthawi zambiri zimafuna mikhalidwe yachimuna kuchokera kwa akazi. Malire pakati pa amuna ndi akazi ndi osowa, zitsanzo za akazi ndi amuna mu maubwenzi akuyandikira. Kuphatikiza apo, kulumikizana kukuchulukirachulukira, kutali, ndipo pamakhala mantha okulirapo omasuka, kuyandikana, ndi kusatetezeka. Amayi ndi abambo amawopa malingaliro amphamvu omwe sangapeweke mu maubwenzi apamtima. Kodi Casanova ndi yosiyana bwanji ndi ena onse?

1. Amanyengerera mwaluso

Akazi a Casanova amakopeka kwambiri. Nthawi zina amagwiritsa ntchito yogwira, «mwamuna» njira, koma m'malo osowa: nthawi zambiri mkazi kunyengerera ngati mkazi - mochenjera, chisomo ndi imperceptibly. Iye adzakuledzeretsa ndi fungo la zonunkhiritsa, masiketi okankhira, mawonedwe otayirira.

Simudzazindikira kugwira ndikugwa m'chikondi. Mudzamutenga ngati mkazi amene akufuna kukwatiwa, ndipo kwa kanthawi mudzaganiza kuti amakukondani kwambiri kuposa momwe amafunira ndipo amadalira inu. Mudzamusamalira, kumuwonongera ndalama. Mwina mudzayamba kukonzekera tsogolo logwirizana. Koma pakapita nthawi, adzawonetsa nkhope yake yeniyeni.

2. Safuna kukwatiwa. Amangofuna kugonana

Monga lamulo, amayi omwe akwaniritsa kale "programu yochepa ya anthu" amakhala Casanovas: anali okwatirana, ali ndi ana, ndipo tsopano ali omasuka kukhala momwe akufunira. Mkazi wotero safunikira kukhala ndi moyo ndi iwe ndikufa tsiku lomwelo. Amangoganizira za potency yanu, zachiwerewere, malingaliro ogonana, zosangalatsa zomwe mungamupatse.

“Ndimangofuna kugonana pompano. Zambiri. Zabwino komanso zosiyanasiyana,” akutero Yuliya, wazaka 39. “Kuno, kugonana ndi chinthu chosangalatsa kwambiri. Koma kugonana kumabwera ndi maubwenzi, zomwe zimandilemetsa. Momwe mungapezere kugonana kokha, popanda chiyanjano chotsatira? ”- Inna, wazaka 42, amafanana naye.

Nthawi zambiri, atsikana omwe adakhumudwitsidwa kwambiri m'chikondi chachikondi amakhala Casanovas mwadala. Popeza ichi ndi chigoba chokha, pali chiyembekezo chosintha mtsikana wotero kukhala mkazi wokhulupirika.

3. Kumasuka ku maudindo. Ngati ukwati, ndiye boma

Patapita nthawi ali pachibwenzi ndi mkazi wa Casanova, mwamunayo akuwona kuti mnzakeyo akukhala mwachilendo, akuphwanya malingaliro achizolowezi a khalidwe lachikazi. Sayesa kukhazikitsa moyo wogwirizana, sapempha mphatso, samayitana mwamuna kuntchito kasanu patsiku, samamva chikhumbo chopita kumalo owonetserako masewero ndi malo odyera, amapewa kukumana ndi anzake ndi achibale ake. Koma nthawi zonse amayankha mwachidwi kuperekedwa kwa kugonana - maubwenzi onse pang'onopang'ono amabwera kwa iye.

Posachedwapa, ndapeza nkhani zambiri zokhudzana ndi ukwati wa boma, momwe mkazi amasonyezera mbali imodzi. Olembawo amamuwonetsa ngati wozunzidwa ndi mwamuna yemwe "amamugwiritsa" iye. Sindimagwirizana ndi izi. Amayi ambiri mwachidwi amasankha ukwati wa boma ngati njira yabwino kwambiri yaubwenzi kwa iwo eni. Inde, si onse omwe ali a Casanovas: ambiri muukwati wa boma akumanga ubale weniweni.

Mwachidziwikire, mkazi wa Casanova amapewa lingaliro lililonse lachikhalire, koma ngati avomereza kukwatirana, ndiye kuti ukwati wapachiweniweni umakhala wokwanira: zimatsimikizira kugonana kotetezeka, koma zimamasula kuzinthu zina zaubwenzi zomwe mkazi woteroyo amawona kuti ndizosafunika.

4. "Wamezedwa ndi kusiya"

Chitsanzo chotero cha khalidwe lasiya kukhala mwayi wa theka lamphamvu la umunthu. Mzimayi amatha kusiya mwamuna yemwe wasiya kumukhutiritsa pogonana, kapena kumulowetsa m'malo mwake ndi bwenzi loyenera - monga momwe amuna amasiya akazi chifukwa cha kusakhutira ndi kugonana kapena kukumana ndi zomwe zimawasangalatsa kwambiri.

Chifukwa chiyani akazi a Casanova ndi abwino?

Amunawo ayenera kuti anawerenga ndipo anachita mantha kwambiri. Komabe, maubwenzi ndi akazi oterewa amalonjeza mabonasi ambiri, chifukwa:

  • sayembekezera kalikonse kwa inu, samakupangani inu kukhala ndi udindo wa tsogolo lanu;
  • osakuyenerani inu, akuzunza inu ndi nsanje ndi kulamulira;
  • musatenge gawo lanu laumwini: osati maganizo kapena thupi;
  • musapange ubwenzi, womwe pafupifupi nthawi zonse umakhala ndi ululu, palibe munthu payekha, kugonana kokha;
  • odziwa, okonda zachiwerewere, okonda kugonana, amakhala ndi malingaliro ogonana otukuka, ndi iwo mutha kukhala ndi malingaliro ogonana osangalatsa;
  • adzadziteteza nthawi zonse pogonana, choncho inu;
  • wokongoletsedwa bwino, wokongoletsedwa bwino, wokongola.

Chifukwa chake dzifunseni funso: "Ndikufuna ubale wotani?" Ndipo yankhani moona mtima. Kwa iwo omwe amangofuna kugonana, mkazi wa Casanova ndiye bwenzi labwino kwambiri. Ubale ndi iye ndi wosavuta kwambiri: kugonana kokha, zabwino ndi zosiyanasiyana. Phwando lachisangalalo, zomverera. Mwina izi ndi zomwe mukufunikiradi?

Osangogwa m'chikondi.

Siyani Mumakonda