Psychology
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Munthu wamkulu pa udindo wamkulu.

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​Maudindo Akuluakulu ndi mawonekedwe ndi chikhalidwe chomwe munthu amatha kudzidzutsa mwa iye yekha, kupanga ndi kusunga. Uwu ndi udindo waumwini. "Ndili ndi udindo pazomwe ndiyenera kuchita, iwe uyenera kukhala ndi udindo pazako."

Kodi Mkulu Wamkati amasiyana bwanji ndi Udindo Wachikulire?

Ngati Mkulu mwa ife adzichitikira yekha, ngati zichitika zokha, tikukamba za Mkulu wamkati mwa ife. Ngati ife tokha tinadzipanga tokha akuluakulu, ngati tinali mu malo ogwira ntchito, tikukamba za udindo wa Wamkulu. Tinasankha udindo wa Wamkulu, tinaima pa udindo wa akulu. Akuyang'ana Mkulu Wam'kati mwa iwo okha, amapanga malo a Wamkulu.

Zokambirana za Inner Adult nthawi zambiri zimachitidwa ndi akatswiri azamisala omwe amagwira ntchito ndi makasitomala omwe alibe chizolowezi chokhala ndi udindo komanso udindo. Mu njira ya syntone, funso la udindo wa munthu wamkulu limafunsidwa ngati chofunikira: "Kodi ndinu wamkulu? Kodi munthu wamkulu amachita bwanji pamenepa?

Udindo wa Wamkulu ndi udindo wa munthu wamalonda, wodekha, makamaka pa malo achitatu a kuzindikira.

Kuyika koyambira: Ndimachita zomwe zili zolondola pakuwona mlanduwu, popanda kutengeka ndi zokambirana zosafunikira. Ndikufuna - ndichita. Muyenera - muzichita.

Paleti yamalingaliro: kukhalapo kwadekha, kukomerana kwaubwenzi, kusakhala ndi malingaliro owala komanso opupuluma.

Intonation ndi masitaelo a adilesi: mabizinesi onse - kufunsa ndi kugwirizanitsa zokonda, pempho lomveka bwino, lingaliro labizinesi lamphamvu, zambiri zokhudzana ndi chikhumbo ndi dongosolo linalake.

Ziwonetsero zotheka:

Malo aliwonse (wamakolo-wamkulu-mwana) ali ndi mawonekedwe osiyanasiyana - abwino ndi oyipa.

Ziwonetsero zabwino za udindo wa munthu wamkulu - mtsogoleri wodalirika, amadziwa zomwe akufuna ndikukwaniritsa modekha. zotheka zoipa mawonetseredwe - wodzudzula wodzudzula, wosiyana - ozizira ndi motalikirana, amafuna zochita, "popanda lisping." Ma Beacons Payekha Payekha: Ndisiye ndekha. Ndichita ndekha. Kukufunsani ndikokwera mtengo. Tiyeni titsike ku bizinesi, palibe chinyengo. Simunapemphedwe. Ndipo anakufunsani ndani? Ngati mukufuna kuchita bwino, chitani nokha.

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