Nkhani yoyamba kuchokera pazowunikira zingapo zachifundo "Change One Life" za momwe ndi momwe anyamata ndi atsikana akukhalira tsopano kumalo osungira ana amasiye aku Russia "- imasindikizidwa limodzi ndi portal Snob.ru. Nkhani Ekaterina Lebedeva.
Lera adalowa mchipindamo ndikuyenda movutikira pang'ono. Mosakayikira, anakhala patebulo, n’kuwerama mapewa ake, n’kumuyang’ana pansi pa nkhope yake. Ndipo ine ndinawona maso ake. Ma cherries awiri owala. Kuyang'ana mwamantha koma molunjika. Ndi vuto. Ndipo ndi kukhudza kwa ... chiyembekezo.
Kumalo osungira ana amasiye kumwera chakumadzulo kwa dera la Moscow, tidabwera ndi woyang'anira thumba lathu lachifundo "Change One Life" kuti tiwombera mphindi yayifupi, imodzi ndi theka, kanema wokhudza Valeria wazaka 14. Tikukhulupirira kuti videoanketa athandiza msungwana wachikulireyu kupeza banja latsopano. Ngakhale kuchita izi, tivomerezane, sikophweka.
Ndizowona, koma ambiri a ife timaganiza za achinyamata - malo osungira ana amasiye, ngati sichoncho pomalizira pake, ndiye sichoncho poyamba. Chifukwa ambiri mwa iwo omwe ali okonzeka kulandira ana kuchokera kumalo osungira ana amasiye m'mabanja awo amafunikira zinyenyeswazi mpaka zaka zitatu. Mpaka asanu ndi awiri osachepera. Mfundo zake n'zomveka. Ndi ana zimawoneka ngati zosavuta, zomasuka, zosangalatsa, pamapeto pake ...
Koma mu database yathu, pafupifupi theka la mavoketi (ndipo iyi, kwa mphindi, ili pafupifupi makanema zikwi zinayi) ndi ana azaka 7 mpaka 14 zakubadwa. Ziwerengero zimamveka ngati makapu pansi pa matailosi, zikuphwanya maloto a omwe angakhale makolo olera kuti apeze makanda m'nyumba za ana: m'mayendedwe a ana, mayina a achinyamata amakhala m'mizere yambiri yosungira deta. Ndipo malinga ndi ziwerengero zomwezo, achinyamata amakhala ndi yankho laling'ono kwambiri pakati pa amayi ndi abambo omwe angakhale nawo.
Koma Lera sayenera kudziwa chilichonse chokhudza ziwerengero. Zomwe amakumana nazo pamoyo wake zimakhala zowala nthawi zambiri kuposa ziwerengero zilizonse. Izi zikuwonetsa kuti iye ndi anzawo samakonda kupita nawo kumabanja. Ndipo ambiri mwa ana atakwanitsa zaka khumi adataya mtima. Ndipo amayamba kudzipangira okha tsogolo popanda makolo awo. Mwachidule, amadzichepetsa.
Mwachitsanzo, limodzi ndi Leroy, tinkafuna kujambula kanema wa mnzake wam'kalasi. Mnyamata wokongola wokhala ndi maso owala bwino - "anzeru zamakompyuta athu," monga momwe aphunzitsi ake amamutchulira - mwadzidzidzi anakwiya ataona kamera. Adakalipira. Anasuntha masamba ake opyapyala. Anatseka maso ake mkati ndikutchingira nkhope yake ndi bokosi lalikulu laziphuphu.
“Ndiyenera kupita ku koleji m'miyezi isanu ndi umodzi!” Mukufuna chiyani kwa ine kale? - adafuula mwamantha ndikuthawa pamalowo. Nkhani yokhazikika: Achinyamata ambiri, omwe timabwera kudzawombera kanema, amakana kukhala kutsogolo kwa kamera.
Ndidafunsa anyamata ambiri: bwanji simukufuna kuchita, chifukwa zitha kukuthandizani kupeza banja? Iwo amakhala chete poyankha. Amatembenuka. Koma, samangokhulupirira. Iwo sakukhulupiriranso. Nthawi zambiri, maloto awo ndi chiyembekezo chawo chopeza nyumba zidaponderezedwa, zidang'ambika, ndikuphulika kukhala fumbi m'mabwalo amasiye omwe amasinthasintha. Ndipo zilibe kanthu kuti adachita ndani (ndipo monga lamulo, chilichonse ndichaching'ono): aphunzitsi, amayi awo kapena abambo awo oterewa, omwe adathawa okha, kapena mwina abwerera kumabungwe osavomerezeka ndi mayina owuma ngati chipale chofewa pansi pa phazi lawo: "malo osungira ana amasiye", "sukulu yogonera komweko", "malo okonzanso anthu» ...
"Koma ndimawakonda kwambiri mahatchi," Lera mwadzidzidzi akuyamba kunena za iye mwamanyazi ndikuwonjezera mosadabwitsa: "O, ndizowopsa." Ali ndi mantha komanso samakhala bwino kukhala kutsogolo kwa kamera ndikudziwonetsera kwa ife. Ndizowopsa, zovuta komanso nthawi yomweyo ndimafuna, amafunitsitsa kuti adziwonetse yekha kuti wina amuwone, azigwira moto ndipo, mwina, tsiku lina adzakhala mbadwa.
Ndipo kotero, makamaka pakuwombera, adavala nsapato zachikondwerero zazitali komanso bulauzi yoyera. "Amakuyembekezerani kwambiri, kukonzekera komanso kuda nkhawa kwambiri, simungamvetse momwe akufunira kuti mumutenge pa kanema!" - Mphunzitsi wa Lera amandiuza monong'ona, ndipo amathamanga ndikumupsompsona patsaya.
- Ndimakonda kukwera mahatchi ndikuwasamalira, ndipo ndikakula, ndimafuna kuzisamalira. - Mtsikana wokhotakhota, wosokonezeka amabisala m'maso mwathu nthawi zonse - matcheri awiri owala - ndipo kulibenso vuto m'maso mwake. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, posachedwa, amayamba kuwonekera ndikudzidalira, ndikusangalala, ndikulakalaka kugawana zambiri komanso posachedwa zonse zomwe akudziwa. Ndipo Lera akuti akuchita nawo zovina komanso sukulu yophunzitsa nyimbo, amawonera makanema ndipo amakonda hip-hop, amamuwonetsa zaluso zingapo, madipuloma ndi zojambulazo, amakumbukira momwe adawombera kanema pagulu lapadera komanso momwe adalembera script - zokhudza nkhani yamsungwana yemwe amayi ake adamwalira ndikumusiyira chibangili chamatsenga ngati chikumbutso.
Amayi ake a Lera ali moyo ndipo amalumikizana nawo. China china chowoneka ngati chosamveka bwino, koma chomvetsa chisoni chopezeka paliponse pamoyo wa achinyamata amasiye - ambiri aiwo ali ndi achibale amoyo. Omwe amalumikizana nawo ndipo omwe, pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana, zimawavuta pamene ana awa sakhala nawo, koma kumalo osungira ana amasiye.
- Chifukwa chiyani simukufuna kupita kumalo osungira ana? - Ndimamufunsa Leroux atatsegula kwathunthu, adataya sikelo yakudzipatula kwake ndipo adakhala wosavuta kucheza ndi atsikana, woseketsa komanso womenyera pang'ono.
- Inde, chifukwa ambiri aife tili ndi makolo - - amagwedeza dzanja lake poyankha, mwina awonongedwa. “Amayi anga alipo. Anapitilizabe kulonjeza kuti anditenga, ndipo ndinapitilizabe kukhulupirira ndikukhulupirira. Ndipo tsopano ndizo zonse! Ndingatani, ndingatani ?! Ndinamuuza tsiku lina: mwina unditengere kunyumba, kapena ndikafuna banja lolera.
Chifukwa chake Lera anali patsogolo pa kamera yathu yamavidiyo.
Achinyamata omwe ali m'malo osungira ana amasiye nthawi zambiri amatchedwa m'badwo wosowa: majini oyipa, makolo omwe ndi zidakwa, ndi zina zambiri. Mazana a zinthu. Maluwa a malingaliro opangidwa. Ngakhale aphunzitsi ambiri amalo osungira ana amasiye amatifunsa moona mtima chifukwa chomwe timawombera achinyamata pavidiyo konse. Kupatula apo, ndi iwo "ndizovuta" ...
Sizovuta nawo. Khalidwe lokhazikika, kuya kwa zokumbukira zopweteka, zawo "Ndikufuna - sindikufuna", "Nditero - sindifuna" ndipo ndakula kwambiri, opanda mauta apinki ndi akalulu a chokoleti, mawonekedwe amoyo. Inde, tikudziwa zitsanzo za mabanja opeza bwino omwe ali ndi achinyamata. Koma momwe mungakope chidwi cha ana zikwizikwi ochokera kumidzi ya ana amasiye? Ife pa maziko, kunena zowona, sitikudziwa mathero ake.
Koma tikudziwa motsimikiza kuti njira imodzi yogwirira ntchito ndikunena kuti ana awa ALIPO, ndipo ajambulitse makanema awo ndi zikwapu zowonda, zowulutsa mpweya, ndikuwonetsetsa kuti awapatse mwayi woti anene za iwo okha ndikugawana maloto awo ndi zokhumba.
Komabe, titatha kujambula achinyamata masauzande angapo m'misasa yamasiye ku Russia, tikudziwa chinthu chimodzi chotsimikizika: ANA onsewa mosimidwa, mpaka kumva kuwawa chifukwa chomenyedwa ndi zibakera, mpaka misozi yomwe amameza, akupita kuzipinda zawo, akufuna kukhala mabanja awo.
Ndipo Lera wazaka 14, yemwe amatiyang'ana ndi zovuta, kenako ndi chiyembekezo, amafunitsitsa kukhala banja. Ndipo tikufunadi kumuthandiza kuti apeze. Ndipo kotero timawonetsa ku kanema wa kanema.