Anthu awiri otchuka, amayi awiri. Zonse mu microblogging ndi kusiyana kwa maola angapo pali cholowa pamutu womwewo - ana aphokoso m'malo opezeka anthu ambiri. Alena Vodonaeva ndi Victoria Daineko adalongosola malingaliro osiyana kwambiri. Ndipo mu ndemanga pansi pazolemba za onse awiri, nkhondo yeniyeni idabuka.
Vodonaeva adalemba zolemba zazitali kufotokoza momwe amamuvutira usiku wapitawo mu lesitilanti. Pamodzi ndi iwo, kampani yokhala ndi ana idapumira mnyumbayo. Kuphatikiza apo, ana anali ndi khalidwe, kuyika modekha, osati kwambiri: adathamanga pakati pa matebulo, akufuula. Mmodzi wa iwo, atanyamula kapu ya madzi a lalanje m'manja mwake, adapunthwa ndikugwa pagome pomwe Alena adakhala.
"Mwanayo - ali ndi chibwano chake pansi, galasi pansi pa mapazi anga, nsapato zanga zofiirira" kulowa munyama ". Nthawi imeneyo, nsapato zidandidetsa nkhawa, chifukwa ndimachita mantha ndi nkhope yamnyamatayo. Tithokoze Mulungu, palibe chomwe chidachitika. Ndinamuthandiza kuti adzuke, ndikumufufuza. Osati nkomwe. Anathamangira kwina. Ndipo makolo… sanazindikire kugwa ”, - Vodonaeva wakwiya.
Atabwerera kunyumba, Alena adanong'oneza bondo kuti sanapereke ndalama za nsapato zowonongekazo kwa makolo ake.
Nyenyeziyo idalemba kuti: "Ndizosatheka kuti ndimvetsetse momwe kudzikonda komanso kusasamala ndikulandirira zinthu ngati izi."
Malinga ndi Alena, adakwiya kwambiri ndikuti makolo sanaphunzitse ana awo kutsatira malamulo amakhalidwe abwino. Ndipo iye sakonda, atakhala mu cafe kapena malo odyera, akumvetsera kulira kwa ana.
“Funso kwa makolo. Manyazi akugwireni? Bwanji, ngati mumapita ndi ana kumalo opezeka anthu ambiri, simukuwatsatira? Chifukwa chiyani amakhalanso otere m'malo odyera? Ndikumvetsetsa mwana akalira. Koma pamene ana, omwe ali pa msinkhu woti ingakhale nthawi yoti adziwe kale malamulo amakhalidwe m'malo aboma, azichita motere, amangonena kuti makolo ndiamakhalidwe oyipa komanso osamvera. "
Ndipo ndidadutsa machitidwe apamwamba amakono a maphunziro aulere:
"Pali achikulire omwe amalungamitsa izi motere: 'Sitikuletsa ana athu chilichonse! Njira yathu yakuleredwera ndi ufulu! “Zabwino zonse, uwu si ufulu, uku ndi chisokonezo! Munthu wosalamulirika akukula m'banja mwanu, yemwe angakhale ndi zovuta mtsogolo. "
"Kupha anthu nthawi zonse kumazizira," - nthawi yomweyo, Daineko adalemba patsamba lake.
Woimbayo adalowa nkhani yosasangalatsa atakhala munyumba ya Sapsan.
"Amalume ake ovala ma jeans ovala komanso jekete laubweya adakwiya kwambiri pamalangizo kuti sitimamulola kugona. Sitikulolani kuti mugone nthawi ya XNUMX koloko. Woyang'anira sitimayo adamufotokozera, zachidziwikire, kuti ana, kuphatikiza ana, atha kukhala m'kalasi yoyamba, ndipo mwana wazaka chimodzi (yemwe sanalire ngakhale, koma ankangosewera ndikuseka) sangathe ikani mkamwa mkamwa mwake, "Daineko adagawana nawo omwe adalembetsa.
“Simungathe kupita ku bwalo lamasewera ndi ana, pandege amawoneka onyinyirika komanso okwiya, m'sitima amakwiya, m'malo odyera amakwiya. Kodi ana ochepera zaka 16 amafunika kukula ngati chomera? Chosangalatsa ndichakuti, ndi iwo omwe akwiya, nawonso, mpaka zaka zakumapeto sanapite kunja kwa chipinda chawo? Kotero kuti msungwana wina wachipani ku Moscow patsamba lake la Facebook salemba cholembera ndi chitonzo: "Chabwino, apsa mtima," Victoria akudandaula. Woimbayo adadabwitsadi: kodi ndizotheka moona mtima kuganiza kuti ngati mwana waphunzira kuyenda, ndiye kuti waphunzira kale malamulo onse azikhalidwe? Nanga “amayi abwino” amapirira bwanji ana awo? Kodi amawapopa ndi zotetezera? Ndipo imakopa chidwi cha anthu kukhala chinthu chimodzi chofunikira kwambiri:
"Ndizodabwitsa, chifukwa, mkalasi lomwelo la bizinesi kapena mkalasi yoyamba amalume ake ofunikira kwambiri amamwa mowa kwambiri ndikuyamba kulengeza zamkhutu m'kanyumba yonse ya ndege kapena kuvutitsa ena, palibe amene angayerekeze kutsegula pakamwa pake."
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Olembetsa amatchula mayina a omwe adalemba zolemba, wina ndi mnzake, ana, makolo ndi oyang'anira malo odyera ndi mawu amtundu uliwonse wonyansa. Pafupifupi aliyense amakumbukira nkhani zina kuchokera m'moyo wake: momwe ana a anthu ena sanawapatse moyo, momwe amapindulira ndi ntchito zawo komanso momwe amachitira akadzidzimva. Ena adanong'oneza bondo kuti Vodonaeva sanamupatse mnyamatayo mbama pamutu - akuti, zingamuthandize.
“Chabwino, ndiwe ndani kuti usiye kuimba nyimbo ukakuona, ana amasiya kuthamanga uku ndi uku, operekera zakudyawo anangokhala chete? Palibenso zovuta pamoyo, monga nkhomaliro yowonongeka ndi nsapato - ndi ana… Ana amalowerera - khalani ndikudya kunyumba! Kapena mugule malo odyera! ”- analemba ena.
“Ndimayang'ana nkhope yako pamene, atakhala mu lesitilanti, mwana wina wankhanza akukuthirani madzi. Iwe, kukwera, ndiwe m'modzi mwa amayi omwe, pamodzi ndi ana awo, amapangitsa ubongo wa aliyense kukhala m'malo abata abwino, ”ena adalavulira nyongo poyankha.
"Zikuwonekeratu kuti: ana otere sangakwanitse, mwatsoka," ena akuwonetsa maluso owonera.
Ena, sachita changu kuti athyole nthungo, koma yesetsani kupeza malingaliro olakwika:
“Bwanji ngati pali zovuta zina zomwe palibe amene anganyamuke nazo? Palibe namwino, palibe agogo kapena sangathe, atani? Osamusiya mwana ali yekha kunyumba? Kapena osabwera ku holide? Ine ndekha sindinapite, koma anthu ndi osiyana, mikhalidwe ndi yosiyana… Mwadzidzidzi anali atatopa ndi ntchito zapakhomo moti anangonyamuka nkumapita. "
Malo odyera amakhalanso ndi mateche ambiri: akuti, ndi vuto la oyang'anira kuti alibe chipinda cha ana, koma amawalola kulowa ndi ana.
Ndi ochepa okha omwe adayitanitsa kukhala achifundo: "Tiyenera kuyesa kumvetsetsana. Chilichonse chitha kuchitika. "
Kucheza
Kodi zili bwino kupita ndi mwana waphokoso ku malo odyera?
Inde, musamusiye yekha. Akukula - amaphunzira kuchita.
Inde, koma pokhapokha ngati makolo sangamulole kusokoneza ena.
Asiyeni atenge, koma awasiye m'chipinda cha ana. Kapena osachepera mu zovala, koma samakokera kwa anthu.
Ana alibe malo odyera. Makamaka ngati sakudziwa momwe angakhalire.