Woimbayo, yemwe adakhala mayi kwachitatu mwezi watha, amadziwa kuonetsetsa kuti palibe nsanje pakati pa ana.
18 May 2017
Pezani nthawi yoyenera yodziwitsa akulu anu za kuwonjezera pabanja
- Sindinauze ana anga aakazi kuti ndikuyembekezera mwana kwa nthawi yayitali. Iye mwini sanakhulupirire chisangalalo chake. Ndakhala ndikufuna mwana kwa nthawi yayitali! Ananena kokha mwezi wachinayi kapena ngakhale wachisanu. Ndinawasonkhanitsa ndi kunena kuti: “Ndili ndi mawu ofunika kwa inu: mudzakhala ndi mbale kapena mlongo.” Monica (msungwanayo ali ndi zaka zisanu. - Pafupifupi. "Antenna") anasangalala nthawi yomweyo, amatikonda kwambiri, ndipo Alina, ali ndi zaka 12, amasunga maganizo ake onse, choncho adatenga nkhaniyi mozama. Mwina anakumbukiranso mmene zinalili pamene Monica anabadwa. Ali ndi khalidwe lophulika, ali wokangalika, amakonda chidwi, ndiye kuti wamkulu adapeza.
Pangani akulu kukhala ndi phande m’chiyembekezo.
Ndinakumbutsa ana anga aakazi kuti ndinali kudalira thandizo lawo, kuti adzamwetsa ndi kudyetsa mwanayo pamodzi ndi ine, ndipo atsikanawo anasangalala kwambiri ndi zimenezi. Monica sanapite ku kindergarten osapsompsona mimba yanga. Ndipo Alina, monga wamkulu, anali ndi nkhawa kwambiri za ine, adaonetsetsa kuti ndisanyamule chilichonse cholemera. Kawirikawiri, aliyense ankayembekezera mwachidwi wachibale watsopanoyo.
Kuti mupewe kusamvana pakati pa ana, khalani limodzi.
Chimene sindimayembekezera chinali chakuti chinthu chovuta kwambiri kuti aliyense agone ndi mwana wachitatu chidzakhala. Ana onse amapita kukagona nthawi imodzi. Ndipo adazolowera kukanda misana yawo, kunena nthano, koma mulibe manja ambiri. Anaganiza zogona kwa nthawiyo zinayi, kuti ndisang'ambe. Ndipo atsikanawa sanadandaulepo kuti mchimwene wawo amadzuka usiku. M'malo mwake, pamene mphamvu zanga zikutha, ndipo ndili wokonzeka kudzipereka, mwadzidzidzi mumdima dzanja la Monica ndi nsonga ya mawere imandifikira. Monica ndi Alina nthawi zina amandithandiza kugwedeza mchimwene wanga ndi kumukhazika mtima pansi. Izi ndi zamtengo wapatali.
Osawonetsa vuto mpaka litachitika
Kutuluka kwa chiŵalo chatsopano chabanja kumafunanso kusintha kwa moyo wanthaŵi zonse kwa wina aliyense. Mwanayo akudziwa bwino za izo. Ndipo akhoza kuyambitsa nsanje. Koma ife tiribe mawu otero mu lexicon ya banja. Ndine wotsimikiza kuti nkhandwe imene mumadyetsa imapambana. Ngati mulabadira kwambiri nkhani ya nsanje ndikubwerezabwereza kwa akulu anu kuti: “Usakhumudwe kuti mbale wako apeza zochuluka, amayi akonso amakukonda iwe,” inu modzifunira mudzakhala nkhonya ya mawu anu, ndipo mmodzi wa iwo amakukondani. anawo adzayamba kumva kuti akumanidwa.
Pumulani ndi kusangalala ndi banja lanu
Nthawi zambiri, ndi mwana wachitatu, kuunikanso kwakukulu kwa makhalidwe kumayamba, kumayamba kuganizira zinthu zofunika kwambiri komanso kunyalanyaza zazing'ono. Ndine wokonda kuchita bwino mwachilengedwe. Zakhala zofunikira kwa ine kuti ana anga aakazi amavala bwino, amapita kusukulu ndi maphunziro omaliza. Zinali zosatheka kuvala ana atatu zonse zoyera, kukhala ndi nthawi yodyetsa ndi kutumiza aliyense za bizinesi yawo. Pamene mukuchita chachiwiri, woyamba watsanulira kale compote pa yekha. Ndimadzitsimikizira ndekha kuti palibe vuto ngati tsiku lina mwana wanga wamkazi adzapita kusukulu ali ndi banga pa T-shirt yake. Ndi bwino kupulumutsa mitsempha yanu, zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti mayi wodekha ndiye chinsinsi cha chisangalalo cha banja. Pakali pano, mwachitsanzo, Monica akuchita homuweki ataima pampando ndi mapazi ake, akufuula chinachake ndi kujambula zolemba. Muyenera kukhala ndi dongosolo lamanjenje lamphamvu kuti musayambe kufuula kuti: "Khala pa bulu wako, lekani kulekerera," koma ingosiyani kuti achite homuweki momwe zimamukondera. Ngakhale ndizovuta kwa inenso, ndikhulupirireni.
Lolani mwanayo akhale yekha, musamufanizire ndi wina aliyense, musapereke zifukwa zowonjezera kuti mukhale opanda ungwiro.
Posachedwapa, kwa nthawi yoyamba, ndinamenyana kwambiri ndi Alina. Chifukwa chakuti amathera nthawi yambiri pafoni. Zowonongeka, zikuwoneka kwa ine. Ine, monga makolo onse, nthawi zina ndimatengeka ndikudzipanga ndekha bwino kuchokera kwa ana, ndimabwereza tsiku lililonse kuti zilankhulo ndizosavuta kuphunzira tsopano kuposa zaka 22, ndikosavutanso kugawanika tsopano kuposa nthawi. 44. Ndikufuna kuti apewe zolakwika zilizonse, ndipo ana, monga ana onse, amafuna kuti wina asawakhudze ndikukhala ndi moyo. Kotero muyenera kumenyana choyamba ndi ana anu aakazi, ndiyeno ndi inu nokha, mukukumbukira kuti ali ndi njira yawoyawo. Ndipo ndilibe chodetsa nkhawa, ndili ndi ana odabwitsa, ndiwo chuma chachikulu m'moyo wanga. Mmodzi wa iwo anabwera akuthamanga ndi kukokedwa ndi dzanja, kotero ine ndinapita kukachita homuweki yanga.
Khalani gulu. Koma mwana aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi mwayi wocheza ndi amayi okha.
Ndimaphunzitsa atsikana kuganizira zinthu zabwino, ndimawauza kuti ndife banja, gulu, tiyenera kuthandizana, kuti sindingathe kupirira popanda iwo, ndipo mchimwene wanga sangakhale popanda iwo, chifukwa iwo ndi ofunika kwambiri. anthu m'moyo wake. Mwana aliyense ayenera kudzimva kukhala wofunika, kukhala ndi ntchito yoti achite m’nyumba, ndipo panthaŵi imodzimodziyo akhale ndi nthaŵi yosiyana yokhala yekha ndi amayi ake. Osakhudzidwa. Ndi Monica, mwachitsanzo, timachita homuweki tsiku lililonse, ndi Alina timayenda galu.