Makhalidwe a Psychopathic sasungidwa kwa zigawenga zowopsa komanso anthu omwe ali ndi vuto lamalingaliro - kumlingo wina kapena imzake, ndizodziwika kwa aliyense wa ife. Kodi izi zikutanthauza kuti tonsefe ndife a psychopathic? Katswiri wa zamaganizo Lucy Foulkes akufotokoza.
Aliyense wa ife nthawi ndi nthawi amanama, amabera kapena kuswa malamulo. Aliyense sangasonyeze chifundo ndi kumvetsetsa koyenera pazochitika zina. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti pafupifupi aliyense adzapeza mikhalidwe ya psychopathic mwa iwo okha.
Kudziwa kupezeka kwawo mwa munthu aliyense kumalola mafunso a Self-Report Psychopathy Scale (funso lodziwira kuchuluka kwa psychopathy). Mafunsowa ali ndi ziganizo 29, zokhala ndi mayankho kuyambira "kuvomereza mwamphamvu" mpaka "kutsutsa mwamphamvu". Nayi imodzi mwa izo: "Nthawi zina ndimauza anthu zomwe akufuna kumva." Ndithudi ambiri aife tingagwirizane ndi mawu awa - koma kodi izo zimatipanga ife psychopaths?
"Osati pokhapokha ngati titapeza zambiri pa mawu ena," akutero katswiri wa zamaganizo Lucy Foulkes. "Komabe, ndi owerengeka chabe aife omwe titha kumaliza kafukufukuyu ndi zotsatira za ziro. Choncho pali chinachake choti uganizire. "
Nthawi zina, kutsika kwa psychopathy kungakhale kopindulitsa. Mwachitsanzo, dokotala wochita maopaleshoni amene ali wokhoza kuthetsa kuvutika kwa wodwala wake mwachidziŵikire angachite bwino kwambiri. Ndipo munthu wabizinesi amene amabera anthu mwaluso komanso amabera nthawi zambiri amapambana.
Timachita mantha ndi kukopeka ndi khalidwe lawo: Kodi zilombozi ndi ndani, kotero mosiyana ndi ife?
Ambiri amakopeka ndi mikhalidwe yotere ya psychopaths monga kuthekera kokopa ena, ludzu lachiwopsezo, chidwi ndi maubwenzi wamba. "Komabe, m'mawonekedwe ake omaliza, psychopathy ndi vuto lowononga umunthu," akutero Lucy Foulkes. Amaphatikiza machitidwe odana ndi anthu komanso kufunafuna chisangalalo (komwe kumawonekera mwaukali, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, kuchita zoopsa), nkhanza komanso kudekha, kusowa wolakwa komanso kufuna kunyengerera ena. Kuphatikiza uku ndikomwe kumapangitsa psychopaths kukhala yowopsa kwa ena. ”
Zinthu zomwe zimalepheretsa anthu wamba kuchita zolakwa - kumva chifundo kwa munthu yemwe atha kuzunzidwa, kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa, kuopa chilango - sizikhala ngati chiwopsezo cha psychopaths. Sakusamala ngakhale pang’ono za mmene khalidwe lawo limakhudzira anthu owazungulira. Amasonyeza chithumwa champhamvu kuti apeze zomwe akufuna, ndiyeno amaiwala mosavuta yemwe sadzakhalanso wothandiza kwa iwo.
Tikamawerenga za anthu omwe amatchulidwa kuti ali ndi psychopathic, timachita mantha komanso kutengeka ndi khalidwe lawo: Kodi zilombozi ndi ndani, mosiyana ndi ife? Ndipo ndani anawalola kuchitira ena nkhanza chonchi? Koma chochititsa mantha kwambiri ndi chakuti makhalidwe a psychopathic sali mwa anthu omwe ali ndi vuto lodziwika bwino. Iwo ali, titero, "atayika" m'deralo, ndipo mosagwirizana: kwa anthu ambiri, zinthuzi zimakhala zochepa kwambiri, kwa anthu ochepa - mwamphamvu. Timakumana ndi anthu omwe ali ndi psychopathy yamagulu osiyanasiyana m'magalimoto apansi panthaka komanso kuntchito, timakhala moyandikana nawo ndikudya chakudya chamasana limodzi mu cafe.
Lucy Foulkes anakumbutsa kuti: “Mikhalidwe ya psychopathic siingoperekedwa kwa apandu owopsa ndi anthu amene ali ndi vuto la m’maganizo, kumlingo wina kapena imzake, iwo ali mikhalidwe ya aliyense wa ife.”
Psychopathy ndi nsonga chabe ya mzere womwe tonse timayimapo
Akatswiri azamisala azachipatala akuyesera kuti amvetsetse zomwe zimatsimikizira malo omwe tidzatengere pamlingo wa anomaly. Ma genetics amathandiziradi: ena amadziwika kuti amabadwa ali ndi chidwi chokulitsa mikhalidwe yama psychopathic. Koma si zokhazo. Zinthu zachilengedwe zimafunikanso, monga chiwawa chimene chinachitidwa pamaso pathu pamene tinali ana, khalidwe la makolo athu ndi mabwenzi.
Monga mbali zambiri za umunthu wathu ndi khalidwe lathu, psychopathy ndi zotsatira osati za kuleredwa kapena mphatso zachilengedwe, komanso kugwirizana kovuta pakati pawo. Psychopathy si njira yamwala yomwe simungathe kuyisiya, koma "chida choyendera" chomwe chimaperekedwa pakubadwa. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti njira zina, monga kuthandizira makolo omwe ana awo ali ndi makhalidwe apamwamba a psychopathic, akhoza kuchepetsa izi.
M'kupita kwa nthawi, Lucy Foulkes akuyembekeza, akatswiri azamisala azachipatala apeza chithandizo chomwe chingathandize kuchepetsa zomwe zimatchedwa psychopathic. Komabe, pakali pano, padakali anthu ambiri—m’ndende, m’zipatala za anthu amisala, ndi m’moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku—omwe amaonetsa milingo yowonjezereka ya psychopathy ndi amene khalidwe lawo limawononga anthu oyandikana nawo.
Koma ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti ma psychopaths sali osiyana ndi ife. Iwo amangopatsidwa mikhalidwe yowonjezereka ya makhalidwe ndi makhalidwe omwe tonsefe tiri nawo. Ndithudi, khalidwe la ena mwa anthu ameneŵa—kupha, kuzunza, kugwirira chigololo—n’lonyansa kwambiri moti n’kovuta kulimvetsa, ndipo n’koyeneradi. Koma zenizeni, khalidwe la psychopaths limasiyana ndi khalidwe la anthu wamba kokha ndi digiri. Psychopathy ndi gawo lowopsa kwambiri la mzere womwe tonse timayima.