Zamkatimu
Pokhala ndi mwana, ndakhala ndikuziganizira kuyambira pamene ndinayamba kukondana, monga chinthu chodziwikiratu, chosavuta, chachibadwa… Ine ndi mwamuna wanga takhala ndi chikhumbo chofanana chokhala makolo. Choncho tinaganiza zosiya mapiritsiwo mofulumira kwambiri. Pambuyo pa chaka cha "zoyesayesa" zosapambana, ndinapita kukaonana ndi gynecologist.. Anandipempha kuti ndisinthe kutentha kwa miyezi itatu! Zikuwoneka motalika kwambiri mukakhala ndi chilakolako chofuna mwana. Nditabwerako kuti ndidzamuone, sanaoneke ngati “mwachangu” ndipo nkhawa yanga inayamba kukula. Ziyenera kunenedwa kuti m'banja langa, mavuto obereka akhala akudziwika kuyambira amayi anga. Mchemwali wanga nayenso anali akuyesetsa kwa zaka zingapo.
Kufufuza mozama kwambiri
Ndinapita kukaonana ndi dokotala wina yemwe anandiuza kuti ndiiwale za kutentha kwapakati. Tinayamba kuyang'anira ovulation yanga ndi endovaginal ultrasounds. Anaona mwamsanga kuti sindinali ovulating. Kuchokera pamenepo, kuyezetsa kwina kunatsatira: hysterosalpingography kwa ine, spermogram kwa mwamuna wanga, kulowetsedwa kwa mtanda, kuyesa kwa Hühner… Tinadzipeza tokha, m'mwezi umodzi, taponyedwa kudziko lachipatala, ndi nthawi yokumana ndi kuyesa magazi mobwerezabwereza. Patatha miyezi iwiri, matendawa adadziwika: Ndine wosabala. Palibe ovulation, vuto la ntchentche, mavuto a mahomoni… Ndinalira kwa masiku awiri. Koma kumverera koseketsa kunabadwa mwa ine. Ndinali ndikudziwiratu kwa nthawi yaitali. Mwamuna wanga, ankawoneka wodekha. Vuto silinali kwa iye; Ndikuganiza kuti zimenezo zinamulimbikitsa. Sanamvetse kukhumudwa kwanga chifukwa ankakhulupirira kuti mavutowo akadzadziŵika, njira yake idzabwera. Iye anali wolondola.
Njira yokhayo yothetsera vutoli: kubereketsa
Dokotala anatilangiza kuti tizipanga insemination (IAC). Zinali zotheka kokha. Pano takhazikika m'dziko lothandizira kubereka. Ma jakisoni a timadzi, ma ultrasound, kuyezetsa magazi kunabwerezedwa kwa miyezi ingapo. Kudikirira msambo, zokhumudwitsa, misozi… Lolemba October 2: D-tsiku la msambo wanga. Palibe. Palibe chomwe chimachitika tsiku lonse ... ndimapita kuchipinda chosambira kasanu kuti ndikawone! Mwamuna wanga amabwera kunyumba ndi mayeso, timachitira limodzi. Mphindi ziwiri zazitali zakudikirira… Ndipo zenera likusanduka pinki: NDINE MIMBA !!!
Pambuyo pa miyezi isanu ndi inayi ya mimba yosavuta, ngakhale kuyang'aniridwa kwambiri, ndinabereka mwana wathu wamkazi, 3,4 kg ya chilakolako, kuleza mtima, ndi chikondi.
Lero zonse ziyenera kuyambiranso
Ndangochita IAC yanga yachinayi ndikuyembekeza kupatsa mwana wathu wamkazi mchimwene kapena mlongo… Koma mwatsoka wachinayi kulephera. Sinditaya mtima chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti titha, koma mayeso onse amakhala ovuta kupirira. Gawo lotsatira likhoza kukhala IVF chifukwa ndili ndi ufulu wochita ma TSI asanu ndi limodzi okha. Ndimakhalabe ndi chiyembekezo chifukwa ndili pafupi, mlongo wanga wakhala akuvutika kwa zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri tsopano. Sitiyenera kusiya, ngakhale pamene sitingathenso. Ndizofunikadi !!!
Christèle