Amayi Oipa: Zinthu za Craziest Zomwe Amachita

2017 ikhoza kutchedwa chaka chomwe makolo ambiri, monga akunena, adapenga. Tsiku lililonse, pali mauthenga atsopano: Mayi wina akufunafuna malo ojambulira ma tattoo a mwana wamwamuna wazaka zisanu, wina amaona kuti mwana wake wamkazi ndi katundu wake ndipo amaika chithunzi cha mwana wachaka chimodzi ataboola. Tsiku la Akazi lasonkhanitsa mu mlingo umodzi amayi onse odabwitsa omwe amakhulupirira kuti akhoza kuchita chilichonse chimene akufuna ndi ana awo.

Mu Epulo chaka chino, anthu adasangalatsidwa ndi mbiri yachilendo ya mayi wina. Anapempha malangizo pa mphatso ya mwana wake. Momwemonso, mkaziyo adaganiza kale zodzidzimutsa yekha - "chojambula chokongola pamutu wa ubale wa amayi ndi mwana wamwamuna." Anangopempha kuti amupangire salon, momwe angatanthauzire lingaliro lake kukhala zenizeni. Ogwiritsa ntchito Reddit, kumene positiyo adayikidwa, adadabwa: pambuyo pake, kuyambira zaka 16, wachinyamata akhoza kubwera ku salon ndi makolo ake mosavuta, ndipo sadzamukana. Zinkaganiziridwa kuti mnyamata wobadwa ali ndi zaka 13-14. Pankhaniyi, ndi bwino kudikirira ndi tattoo. Komabe, yankho linadabwitsa aliyense: mnyamatayo anali ndi zaka zisanu zokha panthawiyo, ndipo chizindikirocho chiyenera kukhala mphatso ya kubadwa kwake kwachisanu ndi chimodzi. Ogwiritsa ntchito anayesa kukambirana ndi amayi: pa msinkhu uwu, thupi likukulabe, ndipo sizidziwika momwe mwanayo angachitire ndi ululu. Ana ambiri ndi jekeseni kuchokera kwa dokotala sangathe kupirira popanda misozi. Ena apereka malingaliro osagwirizana: "womasulira", omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito mofulumira ndipo sangapweteke mwanayo. Sizikudziwika ngati mayi anga anamvera malangizo abwino.

Koma mayi wosakwatiwa Amy Lin wakhala akugwiritsa ntchito ma tattoo akanthawi kwa mwana wawo wamkazi kwa nthawi yayitali. Amapakanso tsitsi lake mitundu yosangalatsa kwambiri ndikumulola kupanga zodzoladzola. Pamalo ake ochezera a pa Intaneti, amayi anga amawulula mofunitsitsa zithunzi za mtsikanayo, pomwe otsutsa ambiri amasonkhana nthawi zonse. Ndipo anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito mwana ngati chidole n’kosayenera. Zitha kuwoneka kuti mtsikanayo akungotengera amayi ake osadziwika bwino: Amy Lin mwiniwake wavala tsitsi lapinki ndi zojambulajambula thupi lake lonse. Koma mtsikanayo sakuona kuti ili vuto lalikulu: “Ndangosiya Bella kukhala ine. Iye saopa kutsutsidwa, iye ndi wolimba mtima. Ndikufuna kumupatsa ufulu wolankhula. Pamenepo sadzataya nthaŵi ya unyamata wake kuti amvetse chimene iye alidi. Ngati aphunzira kufotokoza maganizo ake kudzera m’maonekedwe ake, adzaphunzira kulankhula zimene zili zofunika kwa iye. Ufulu wa kulankhula, mukumvetsa? Sadzazengereza kufotokoza zakukhosi kwake ndi zokhumba zake. ” Sikuti aliyense ali ndi njira yatsopano yolerera ana, koma pali ena amene amathandiza Ann.

Funso loti "kukhala kapena kusakhala?" m'dziko lokongola lakula kukhala "kupenta kapena kusapenta?" Funso limeneli ndi lovuta kwambiri pankhani ya ana aang'ono. Olemba mabulogu okongola pa Instagram ndi YouTube amatulutsa makanema atsatanetsatane amomwe angapangire izi kapena zodzoladzolazo. Pano pali makanda okha pazidendene zawo, omwe amawongolera ndi ufa ndi milomo yoipa kwambiri kuposa akatswiri ojambula ojambula. Mwachitsanzo, Charlie Rose. Wang'ono uyu ali ndi zaka zisanu zokha, koma amagwiritsa ntchito kale zowunikira, maziko ndi zonyezimira. Sikuti akuluakulu onse amagwiritsa ntchito njira zoterezi. Mosadabwitsa, ena anasonyeza kusakhutira kwenikweni. Choyamba, makolo a mtsikana amene amalola Charlie Rose kuchita izi. Komabe, adayesetsa kutsimikizira omvera: mtsikanayo akugwira ntchito zodzoladzola ndi mavidiyo ngati chinthu chosangalatsa, nthawi zonse amawoneka ngati mwana wamba.

Zomwe mungatenge kwa amayi achichepere omwe posachedwapa anali ana ndipo sanakhalepo ndi nthawi yoti akule. Koma mkazi wachitsanzo chabwino ndi mayi wa ana asanu ndi mmodzi akayamba kunyodola mwana, anthu ambiri amapita patsogolo. Kotero izo zinachitika ndi Enedina Vance, yemwe anaika chithunzi cha mwana wake wamkazi wa chaka chimodzi. Ndipo chithunzicho chingangodzutsa chikondi, ngati sichoncho pang'onopang'ono - kuboola kumawonekera pankhope ya mwanayo. “Ine ndine mayi, ndi mwana wanga wamkazi, choncho ndili ndi ufulu wochita naye chilichonse chimene ndikufuna! Ndidzasankha mpaka atakwanitsa zaka 18, chifukwa ndinamubereka, ndi wanga,” Enedin anasaina khadi. Zoonadi, nthawi yomweyo mawu ambiri oipa adawagwera amayi anga. Winawake amakayikira thanzi lake lamalingaliro, ambiri adalonjeza kutembenukira kundende ndikumulanda mayi wonyalanyaza ufulu wa makolo. Komabe, sizinafike pakukwaniritsidwa kwa ziwopsezo. Pambuyo Enedina Vance posakhalitsa anafotokoza kuti chithunzicho ndi montage, ndipo lembalo ndi choputa koyera. Mayiyo anafuna kutchula vuto la kukhulupirika kwa ana. Makolo sayenera kugamula kuti mwana wawo alembe chizindikiro, kuboola makutu, kapena kudulidwa. Zomvetsa chisoni bwanji kuti si amayi onse omwe amamvetsetsa izi. Ndipo amapitirizabe kugwiritsira ntchito ana awo kuti adzikondweretse okha, osasamalira mwanjira iriyonse za ubwino ndi chikhumbo cha mwanayo.

Ayi, tsopano sitilankhula za momwe amayi amanyodola atsikana pofuna kupambana mipikisano yokongola. Palibe amene amabaya Botox, ngakhale zovala zopenga ndi zodzikongoletsera zimakhalabe nazo. Komabe, zinthu sizili bwino pamene mayi amasamalira kwambiri maonekedwe ake ndipo chifukwa cha kukongola kwake ali wokonzeka kufa ndi njala. Izi ndi zomwe mkazi wachingelezi Andrea Dalzell anachita. Mayiyo ankaopa kwambiri ukalamba moti anayamba kusiya kuchita opaleshoni ya pulasitiki pafupifupi zaka 15 zapitazo. Ndipo zikuwoneka ngati palibe cholakwika. Koma Andrea sanagwire ntchito, ndipo adasonkhanitsa ndalama zogwirira ntchito kuchokera ku phindu la ana anayi. Popeza pulasitiki ndi okwera mtengo zosangalatsa, nthawi yonseyi banja ankakhala mikhalidwe ya chuma kwambiri. Ankadya kamodzi pa tsiku kuti ndalama iliyonse yowonjezereka ikasungidwe m’nkhokwe yamtengo wapatali. Andrea watsala pang'ono kukwaniritsa cholinga chake, anali atakweza kale masaya, kukweza nsidze, mammoplasty. Mkaziyo sadzasiya, koma zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti apulumutse: tsopano amalandira phindu la mwana mmodzi yekha. Ngakhale, mwina, iye sadzawonanso ndalama izi. Bungwe la Taxpayers’ Alliance, lomwe limayang’ana malipiro a anthu, lidakwiya kwambiri litamva zomwe ndalamazo zikuwonongera. Ndipo kwa maloto atsopano, Andrea ayenera kusonkhanitsa kwa nthawi yayitali kwambiri.