Chenjerani ndi zojambula: chavuta ndi chiyani ndi zilembo za Disney

"The Lion King"

Chojambula chokondedwa cha ana ambiri ndi akulu. Koma iyi si sewero chabe la moyo wa nkhalango, komanso nkhani ya mkangano wamkati womwe Simba anali nawo.

Nkhaniyo ikanakhala ndi mapeto osiyana ngati ngwazi yathu inali ndi dongosolo lake lamtengo wapatali, losaperekedwa ndi aliyense, akudziwa kuyimitsa nthawi kuti "aganize" ndikudzifunsa mafunso "kodi ndikufuna izi?" ndi "kodi ndikuchifuna?" ndipo angalole pang'ono kukhala mosasamala.

Ndipo ndi nkhani yothawa nokha - pambuyo pa imfa ya abambo ake, Simba adagwidwa ndi manyazi, ndipo adapeza kampani yatsopano, Timon ndi Pumbaa. Mkango umadya mbozi ndipo m’njira iliyonse umatsutsa chiyambi chake. Koma pamapeto pake, amazindikira kuti izi sizingapitirire, ndipo amayamba kufunafuna zenizeni zake.

"Aladin"

Nkhani yokongola yachikondi yomwe, kwenikweni, ingakhale yolephera. Aladdin akukumana ndi Jasmine ndipo mwa njira zonse amayesera kuti amupeze, ndipo akuganiza kuti achite mwachinyengo.

Koma zomwe tikuwona: Aladdin ali ndi mzimu wochenjera kwambiri, ndipo amadzichititsa manyazi. Chinsinsi chake chikuwululidwa, Jasmine amamukhululukira. Ubale woterewu - "wovutitsa ndi mwana wamkazi" - nthawi zambiri umapezeka m'moyo, ndipo muzojambula chithunzi cha chigawenga-Aladdin chimakondedwa.

Kodi unansi womangidwa pa chinyengo ungakhale wachimwemwe? Zokayikitsa. Koma pambali pa izi, ndi bwino kulabadira mfundo ziwiri apa: ndithudi, kuba ndi chinyengo ndizoipa, koma ngati mutabisa ndi zolinga zabwino, kodi ndizololedwa?

"Kukongola ndi Chirombo"

Ubale pakati pa Adamu (Chirombo) ndi Belle (Kukongola) ndi chitsanzo cha ubale wodalirana pakati pa narcissist ndi wozunzidwa. Ngakhale kuti Adamu amabera ndikugwira Belle mokakamiza, amamukakamiza m'maganizo, chifaniziro chake chimayambitsa chifundo.

Timalungamitsa khalidwe lake ndi tsogolo lolimba ndi chisoni, chomwe chimasinthidwa ndi chiwawa ndi kusokoneza, koma kwenikweni ichi ndi chizindikiro chachindunji cha narcissism ndi kusowa udindo wa moyo wa munthu.

Panthawi imodzimodziyo, Belle angawoneke wouma khosi, wouma khosi komanso wopusa: kodi sakuwona kuti amamukonda ndipo ali wokonzeka kumuchitira chilichonse? Ndipo iye, ngakhale ali wanzeru komanso kuganiza mozama, amagwerabe m'manja mwa narcissist ndipo amakhala wozunzidwa.

Zachidziwikire, nkhaniyo imatha ndi kutha kosangalatsa: Chirombocho chimakhala kalonga wokongola, ndipo iye ndi Beauty amakhala mosangalala mpaka kalekale. M'malo mwake, maubwenzi ankhanza ongodalira pawokha sangathe, ndipo simuyenera kuyang'ana zifukwa za khalidwe la munthu wotero.

Momwe mungawonere zojambula ndi mwana

• Funsani mwanayo mafunso. Khalani ndi chidwi ndi ndani mwa anthu omwe amawakonda komanso chifukwa chake, yemwe akuwoneka ngati ngwazi yoyipa, momwe amakhudzira zochita zina. Kuchokera kutalika kwa zomwe mwakumana nazo, inu ndi mwana wanu mutha kuyang'ana zochitika zomwezo m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Ndikoyenera kumufotokozera mofatsa masomphenya anu a momwe zinthu zilili ndi kukambirana za vutolo mosiyanasiyana.
• Kambiranani zinthu zimene simulola m’maphunziro ndi kulankhulana. Fotokozani chifukwa chake izi sizovomerezeka komanso momwe mungachitire zinthu zinazake. Mwachitsanzo, chiwawa kapena nkhanza zojambulidwa m’katuni nthaŵi zina zimasonyezedwa kukhala zachikondi, ndipo mwanayo angayambe kuganiza kuti nzololeka m’mikhalidwe yapadera.
• Fotokozani maganizo anu kwa mwanayo - modekha ndi mosamala, popanda kumukakamiza kapena kumudzudzula chifukwa chosamvetsetsa chinachake. Osanyalanyaza mafunso owerengera. Ndithudi iye adzakhala ndi chidwi kudziwa maganizo anu za otchulidwa, mikhalidwe, kumva za maganizo anu zimene zikuchitika.
• Funsani mwana wanu wamwamuna kapena wamkazi kuti akambirane chifukwa chake, malinga ndi malingaliro awo, khalidweli linachita mwanjira imeneyi osati mwanjira ina, chomwe chinali chisonkhezero chake, kaya mwanayo amavomereza khalidwe lake. Funsani mafunso otsogolera - izi sizidzangothandiza kulingalira, komanso kuphunzitsa mwanayo kuganiza mosanthula.