CHARGE Syndrome: kukumana ndi Ferdinand

Ferdinand ali ndi zaka 23, ali ndi matenda a CHARGE, anabadwa ndi mng'oma waukulu ndipo wachitidwapo maopaleshoni atatu. Samva ndipo maso ake saona bwino, zomwe zimapangitsa kuyesa kulikonse kolankhulana kukhala kovuta. "Johnny wamng'ono adatenga mfuti yake" yemwe sakanapanga nkhondo. Kufika pamlingo uwu wa zolemba za blog mumadziuza nokha "Osatayanso, ndikulira".

Kupatulapo kuti bukhu lolembedwa ndi atate ndi apongozi a Ferdinand, losonyezedwa bwino kwambiri, limasimba mongopeka ndi nthabwala za moyo watsiku ndi tsiku wa mwana amene angalingaliridwe kukhala wolekanitsidwa ndi dziko koma amene amasonyeza malingaliro osefukira ndi okhazikika. kugwirizana ndi ena.

Album yokongola iyi (yachita bwino kwa wofalitsa, HD, yemwe sanachite mantha ndi nkhaniyi), akuyang'ana ana a zaka za 3 ndipo akufotokoza chifukwa chake Ferdinand amalira, amakhudza chirichonse, amapondaponda mapazi ake pamene akusangalala. Tikamachoka ku chikhalidwe, m'pamenenso timachita ndakatulo. Ferdinand amamvetsera nyimbo ndi manja ake, amakonda kwambiri firiji, amakonda kuganiza mu kusamba kwake. Kumbuyo kwa nthabwala za mwana wamuyaya, magawo amoyo, zoseketsa zoseketsa komanso zopeka zachilendo, pali zolemba zosamveka. Zomwe owerenga achichepere sangazindikire, zomwe zimayika makolo awo pakhosi: nyonga yowonjezereka ya banja lonse, limodzinso ndi luso lake lopanga zinthu, kuchitira zinthu limodzi ndi mwana ameneyu kuchokera kwina kulikonse.. Muyenera kumugwira dzanja pamene ali khanda, ndipo mwanjira inayake, kumunyamula, mochuluka, kumuwonetsa kuti sali yekha, ndikulozera ku chirichonse. Ndiye ndi zojambula zomwe Ferdinand amaphunzitsidwa malamulo otetezeka. Tsiku limene makolo ake ndi alongo ake atatu azindikira kuti wamng’ono kwambiri amalankhula ndi chinenero chamanja, aliyense amamvera. Banja lidakonzedwa kuti lithandizire kupita patsogolo kwa mwana wosakondedwayu ngakhale kusiyana kwake koma yemwe amakondedwa mowonekera, nayenso, chifukwa umodzi wake.

Ndikupeza m’chimbale chimenechi zimene ndinkamva nthaŵi zonse ndikamafunsa amayi a ana olumala. Kumverera kwachilendo komanso kosokoneza. Kumverera kumeneku kuti kupyola kuzunzika, kutopa, kuzunzika, kusalungama, makolo awa ndi ana awa adaluka chomangira chapadera, champhamvu ndi chowonadi chosafikirika kwa ena, "Wachibadwa". Ndipo ndingalembe? Zinandichitikira m’nkhanizi kuti ndimve kuwawa mumtima mwanga poganiza kuti sindidzakhalanso mgonero umenewu ndi ana anga amene ali bwino kwambiri.  

Kumanani ndi Ferdinand, Jean-Benoît Patricot ndi Francesca Pollock, HD editions, € 10

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