Kubadwa kwa mwana kumayesa mphamvu ya chikondi pakati pa makolo.
Mu magawo awiri mwa atatu a maanja, kukhutira ndi maubwenzi a m'banja, malinga ndi zotsatira za kafukufuku, zikuchepa, chiwerengero cha mikangano chikuwonjezeka kwambiri, ndipo kuyandikana kwamtima kumasowa. Koma 33% ya okwatirana amakhutitsidwa wina ndi mnzake. Kodi amachita bwanji zimenezi? Kodi maanja ozunzidwa amasiyana bwanji ndi mabwanawe? Poyankha funsoli, John Gottman ndi Julie Schwartz-Gottman, oyambitsa ndi otsogolera a Gottman Institute ndi Seattle Center for Family Relations Research, akunena kuti tonse titha kukhala “ambuye” mwa kugwiritsa ntchito njira zomwe mabanja opambana amagwiritsa ntchito. . . Olembawo amapereka njira zisanu ndi imodzi zomwe zingathandize makolo kusangalala ndi kuyankhulana ndi mwana wawo komanso wina ndi mzake.
Mann, Ivanov ndi Ferber, 288 p.