Childfree: Mawu 23 omwe sayenera kunenedwa kwa amayi opanda ana

Pazifukwa zina, anthu ozungulira nthawi zambiri amafotokoza maganizo awo pa nkhani zaumwini pamene sanafunsidwe za izo nkomwe.

"Mulungu adapereka bunny, ndipo adzapereka udzu" - mawu omwe amandikwiyitsa mosaneneka. Kubelekela antoomwe naa kuleka kubelekela antoomwe amuntu uuli woonse. Ine ndekha. Ndipo kukhala ndi ana, kudalira Chirasha mwina, nthawi zambiri ndimawona kusasamala kwakukulu. Mafunso ngati "Chabwino, yachiwiri ndi liti?" Ndimayesetsa kunyalanyaza. Kupanda kutero ndidzanena zinthu zonyansa poyankha. Tiyenera kuvomereza: dziko lathu limaikabe chitsenderezo kwa amayi, poganizira kuti kubadwa kwa ana ndicho cholinga chokha cha msungwana aliyense wokhwima pogonana.

Kawirikawiri, anthu amachita chidwi kwambiri ndi mfundo yakuti wina anaganiza zosakhala ndi ana: zimadabwitsa anthu ambiri, wina amalankhula za wopanda mwana ndi kunyansidwa, wina amanong'oneza bondo. Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti akazi oterowo amadana ndi ana. Inde, akulakwitsa. Ndipo ambiri saganiza ngakhale pang’ono kuti ena sangabereke chifukwa cha matenda.

Chabwino, kunena zoona: kodi tiyenera kupanga zifukwa zosafuna kubereka? sindikuganiza ayi. Twitter idapanganso gulu la anthu pamutuwu ndikusonkhanitsa zinthu zokwiyitsa kwambiri zomwe amayi opanda ana ayenera kumvera.

1. "Serious? O, kusiya ana ndi kupusa kwambiri. Ndiye mudzamvetsa, mudzanong'oneza bondo. “

2. "Ana ndiye tanthauzo lokha m'moyo wa mkazi wabwinobwino."

3. "Kodi mukufuna kukhala mayi wamphaka wopenga pofika zaka 40?"

4. “Kodi ukuganiza kuti watopa? Simudziwa chilichonse chokhudza kutopa! “

5. “Ndiwe wodzikonda basi. Umangoganiza za wekha. “

6. Simunakumanepo ndi munthu ameneyo.

7. “Ndiye ukudikira chiyani? Pachimake? “

8. Ngati aliyense akanaganiza choncho, inu simunabadwe!

"Kusafuna ana ndiko kuzindikira"

9. "Mukudziletsa chimwemwe chachikulu padziko lapansi - kukhala mayi."

10. "Ndipo koloko ikupita."

11. “Kukhala mayi ndiye tsogolo la mkazi aliyense. Simungathe kutsutsana ndi chilengedwe. “

12. “Ukungoseka. Sindikukhulupirira. Ndipo ndani adzakupatsa kapu yamadzi? “

13. "Kuyenera kukhala mtundu wina wa vuto lamalingaliro kwa ana."

14. “N’chifukwa chiyani mukufuna nyumba yotero ngati muli awiri okha? Malo ambiri opanda kanthu. “

15. "Ndikukhulupirira kuti mungakhale mayi wabwino kwambiri."

16. “Zilibe kanthu kuchokera kwa ndani, kwa inu nokha. Ndikuthandizani kukhala ndi ana. “

17. "Tsopano mukuganiza kuti simukufuna ana, koma akawonekera, mudzaganiza mosiyana kwambiri."

18. “Sindinayende, kapena chiyani? Osachedwetsa kwambiri, ndiye kuti kudzakhala mochedwa. “

19. “Kodi suopa kuti ukapanda kubereka mwamuna wako, adzapeza amene akubereka?

20. “Simukumvetsa, simunabereke.”

21. "Simukudziwa kuti chikondi chenicheni ndi chiyani."

22. "Kodi mwayesera kupita kwa psychologist?"

23. “Kodi umafunadi kukhala wekha ukakalamba?”

24. “Kodi munthu angaleke bwanji chimwemwe mwa kufuna kwake!”

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Panthawiyi

Posachedwapa, wolemba mabulogu Maria Tarasova - iye ndi Masha Kakdela - adapanga filimu yokhudzana ndi kusabereka yomwe siwoneka kwa aliyense: zokhudzana ndi zochitika za banja, mafunso opanda nzeru, za zosatheka kukhala ndi ana, zachisoni ndi chiyembekezo. - "Ana ali liti?"

“Cholinga chathu ndikuthandizira kukulitsa mbadwo wosangalala wa amayi. Timaphunzitsa atsikana m’magawo osiyanasiyana kuphatikizapo zaumoyo. Choncho, mufilimuyi, ndinakambirana ndi dokotala za kusabereka komanso kuteteza thanzi. Popeza kuti inenso ndakhala m’banja kwa chaka chimodzi ndipo nthaŵi zonse ndimafunsidwa mafunso okhudza ana, ndinaganiza zosonyeza zimene zingachitike kumbali ina ya funso lakuti “Kodi anawo adzakhala liti?” Ndipo perekani mbali zonse zoyankhulirana njira yothetsera vutoli, "Maria akutero za ntchito yake yatsopano.

Nkhani yonse ilipo kale pa njira ya Maria ya YouTube, ndipo tikukupemphani kuti muwone kachidutswa kakang'ono kameneka.

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