Ana: Mavuto 11 adathetsedwa chifukwa cha maphunziro abwino

Mavuto 11 omwe ali ndi ana amathetsedwa ndi maphunziro abwino.

Kuyambira miyezi 10 mpaka 5 zaka

Mwana wanga amandimamatira tsiku lonse

Kodi. Chilichonse chimene timachita, amatipachika, mpaka amatitsatira ku bafa. Pasanathe zaka 3, palibe chachilendo mu khalidweli. Ana ambiri amachita mwanjira imeneyi, ngakhale kuti ena, omwe akuwoneka kale kukhala odziimira okha, ndi osiyana. Ngati ali ndi zaka zoposa 3, mwana wathu sakhala wotetezeka ndipo amapeza chitonthozo ndi anthu omwe amamukonda, abambo ake ndi amayi ake.

ndimachita. Kuyimba foni yofunika kuyimba? Mukufuna kupuma pang'ono? Timapita naye kuchipinda chake ndikumuuza modekha kuti "Amayi ayenera kukhala okha kwakanthawi ndipo abweranso kudzakutengani pakangopita mphindi zochepa". Panthawiyi, timamupatsa chidole chake kapena buku lake, kapena bulangeti kuti amutsimikizire.

Poyembekezera. Ndikofunika kuzindikira gwero la vuto. Ife tikumufunsa iye. Wina amamukwiyitsa kusukulu, posachedwa adzakhala ndi mchimwene wake kapena mlongo wake… Zifukwa zambiri zomwe zingayambitse kusatetezeka kwake. Timamutsimikizira ndipo timakhalabe mukulankhulana, nthawi zambiri popanda kumukwiyira ndi kumutsutsa pamene akutitsatira. Timamufotokozera kuti akhoza kulankhula nafe nthawi iliyonse, za chisangalalo chake, zowawa zake, zokhumudwitsa zake, ndipo timaonetsetsa kuti tisamapereke chikhulupiriro chake (mwa kumuseka mwachitsanzo).

Kuyambira miyezi 18 mpaka 6 zaka

Amakana kudya chitumbuwa cha tchizi chomwe adachikonda sabata yapitayo

Kodi. Ngati adakonda sabata yatha, palibe chifukwa chomwe sakufuna kulawa chitumbuwa lero. Ndithu chifukwa chakuti tinasintha china chake pomupereka: tinadula gawo lomwe lili patsogolo pake pamene akufuna kudzitumikira, tidampatsa gawo losweka, laling'ono kapena lalikulu kwambiri ... Ndipo izi zimamuvutitsa!

ndimachita. Popanda kudziimba mlandu, timapewa mikangano yozungulira mbale. Tisanapeze nthawi yoti tidziwe chifukwa chake sanakhutire, titha kupanga kaphwando kakang'ono kosangalatsa kotero kuti aiwale chokhumudwitsachi ndikulawanso. Kwa ana ang'onoang'ono, tikhoza kukondweretsa chitumbuwa ichi powonjezera tomato yaing'ono yachitumbuwa ngati maso ndi msuzi wa ketchup kuti ajambule kuseka. Kwa ana okulirapo, mutha kuyika pambali chidutswa cha chitumbuwacho ndikungochisiya chidule china.

Poyembekezera. Kupatsa mwana chitumbuwa cha tchizi sizinthu zomwe zimagayidwa kwambiri, makamaka madzulo. Kwa ana ang'onoang'ono omwe amakana komanso omwe alibe mwayi wolankhulana ndi makolo awo, timaonetsetsa kuti sizikuchokera ku matenda a m'mimba.

Kuyambira wazaka 2 mpaka 5

Mwana wanga wamwamuna amagubuduzika pansi pa supermarket ndikakana kumugulira maswiti

Kodi. Kuchita kwamtunduwu sikukhudzana ndi kukhumudwa chifukwa chosowa maswiti. Uku ndiye kutanthauzira komwe timapanga chifukwa zimabwera atangokana. Zoona zake n'zakuti, ndi magetsi (unyinji, chipwirikiti, anthu achangu…) komanso zaukadaulo (zokulirakulira, zosungira ndalama zamagetsi ndi zowonera zamitundu yonse…) zomwe zimamukwiyitsa. Ubongo wake umakondoweza kwambiri, ma neurons ake amakhutitsidwa, ndiye kuti izi zimachitika mopitilira muyeso. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, amatenga chidziwitso china chofunikira: kuti kholo lake silimamuganizira, ndipo zimamuvutitsa. Ndipo mkwiyo umabuka! 

ndimachita. Timapuma mozama. Timatembenukira kwa omvera osavomereza ndikuwayang’ana ndi mitu yawo m’mwamba, kuwasonyeza kuti tikusamalira mkhalidwewo mwangwiro. Zimachepetsa mavuto ndikuchepetsa kupsinjika kwa tonsefe. Timagwada pamaso pake ndikumugwadira kuti timukumbatire. Ngati zimenezo sizikukwanira kapena sitingayerekeze, timamuuza molunjika m’maso kuti: “Sudzakhala ndi masiwiti, koma wasankha dzinthuzo!” Tulakonzya kusyoma kuti: “Twaiya kucibalo eeci ncotukonzya kwiiya kubikkila maano kujatikizya makani aaya, pele kuzwa ciindi eeco cilaanguzu! Kapena timalankhula naye za ife pa msinkhu womwewo: "Inenso, tsiku lina, ndinakwiya kwambiri, chifukwa agogo anakana kundigulira chidole". Zimamudabwitsa!

Poyembekezera. Momwe mungathere, mukapita kukagula zinthu ndi mwana wanu, amapatsidwa ntchito imodzi kapena zingapo malinga ndi nthawi yomwe mumagula. Kaya ikugubuduza kangolo kakang'ono kogulira ndikudzaza mukamapita, ndikusankha pasitala yomwe amamukonda kapena kuyeza zipatso ndi ndiwo zamasamba ... adzamva kukhala wothandiza komanso osalabadira kwambiri kutenthetsa kwamagetsi. malo.

Kuyambira wazaka 2 mpaka 5

Nthawi zonse ndimayenera kukambirana kuti andipatse dzanja lake mumsewu

Kodi. Mumsewu, timathera nthawi yathu ndikumulamula kuti: "Ndipatseni dzanja lanu", "N'koopsa kuwoloka!" »… Mawu ndi kamvekedwe kamvekedwe kaukali komwe sikudutsa m'malo mwathu. Pochitapo kanthu, iye adzakana kutithandiza, mosasamala kanthu za kuchuluka kwa zokambirana zomwe zayesedwa.

ndimachita. Timayiwala malamulo omwe amapempha dera lake lopanikizika komanso lomwe mwadongosolo limakhala ndi zotsatira zosiyana: mwanayo adzafuna kuthamanga osati kumvetsera. Ndikwabwino kukhazikitsa naye malangizo "Mumsewu, munthu amapereka dzanja". Ndipo ngati, pakati pa msewu, atapandukira, amapatsidwa kuyendetsa woyendetsa pamene akukhala kumbuyo kwake, amapatsidwa baguette, kathumba kakang'ono ka zakudya kapena makalata a tsiku ndi dzanja limodzi atagwira kuchokera pamenepo. . 'zina. Cholinga cha masewerawa: "Sitiyenera kusiya mpaka kunyumba."

Poyembekezera. Khazikitsani kuyambira ali aang'ono kuti mumsewu, timagwirana manja ndipo palibe njira zina zothetsera. Kuti amuphatikize, tikhoza kumuthandiza posewera, ndi Playmobil kapena mafano omwe amakonda kwambiri: "Tawonani, Playmobil iyi ikuwoloka msewu. Mwawona, amapatsa amayi ake dzanja lake bwino ”…

Kuyambira miyezi 18 mpaka 2 zaka

Nditangomaliza kukonza, amatembenuza chipinda chake mozondoka

Kodi. Pafupifupi zaka 2, amakonda kutitsanzira. Amationa tikukonza, kupereka nsalu, tsache kapena chotsukira, ndipo amayesa kubwerezanso manja aang’onowa. Mwadzidzidzi, osati kuyeretsa komalizidwa, apa kumasokoneza chilichonse. Amatsuka zonyansazo kuti akhale ndi chisangalalo chobwezeretsa zonse… m'njira yakeyake. Ndipo zimenezo zimatikwiyitsa, ndithudi.

ndimachita. Pomwepo, kuti tipewe zodabwitsa zosasangalatsa tikayika chipindacho, timamupatsa chiguduli. ndiye amatha kusangalala ndikupukuta zovala zake, mipiringidzo ya bedi lake ... Kuti tikhale odekha, timadziuza tokha kuti zomwe amachita ndi zachilengedwe. Ndi gawo la chitukuko chake. Chotero ife sitiwona chokhota mwa iye, palibe chikhumbo chofuna kutiputa ife, mkhalidwe umene iye sangakhoze kukhala nawo pa nthawi ino.

Poyembekezera. Kuti tikhale chete, timayeretsa kwambiri mwanayo akakhala ku nazale, kwa mlendo, kapena kupita kokayenda ndi agogo ndi agogo. Apo ayi, pamaso pake, amapatsidwa ngodya pang'ono kuti azichita yekha.

2 kwa zaka 5

Sanafune kugona pabedi lake kwa sabata ... koma ndi ife

Kodi. Mkhalidwe umenewu umasonyeza kuti ali ndi nkhaŵa, kuti ayenera kukhala pafupi ndi makolo ake ndi kuti akudera nkhaŵa kugona yekha pabedi lake.

ndimachita. Choyamba, timamufunsa funso lakuti: chifukwa chiyani? Ngati alankhula, adzatifotokozera kuti mzukwa wazembera pansi pa kama wake, kuti akuwopa chilombo chachikulu chodzaza ndi bedi lake, ndi chithunzi chomwe mwamunayo akumva chisoni ... ndikofunikira kubwezeretsa mwambo wolimbikitsa panthawi yogona. Zidzamuthandiza pang'onopang'ono kubwezeretsa malo ake usiku. Timamuwerengera nkhani yodekha (popanda nyama zakutchire, palibe zithunzi kapena zojambula zomwe zili zakuda kwambiri kapena zachinsinsi), timamupatsa mwayi woti tigone naye, ngakhale zitanthauza kukhala pambali pake mpaka atagona, kapena kusiya kuwala kwausiku kuti agone. mausiku angapo oyambirira.

Poyembekezera. Monga mkaka pamoto, zonse zimachitidwa kuti azimitse motowo m’malo mwa kupukuta mkaka wosefukira. Timayesetsa kuti chipinda chake chikhale chopanda chilichonse chosokoneza, kuti chimakhala chokongoletsera kuti chikhale bwino pamenepo. Timapewa kudzaza nyama kapena zifaniziro, timazimitsa zidole zonse zamagetsi zomwe zimatha kulankhula kapena kung'anima usiku. Tikuwonanso ngati mithunzi yaku China imapangika pamakoma achipindacho galimoto kapena galimoto ikadutsa mumsewu, mwina kumuwopseza ...

3 kwa zaka 6

Usiku, amakana kusamba

Kodi. Mwinamwake dzulo lake, iye anangosokonezedwa mu masewera omwe ankafuna kutsogolera mpaka kumapeto, kuti anali m'dziko lake longoganizira kumene adachotsedwa mwankhanza. Mwadzidzidzi, iye analoŵapo. Nthaŵi zina, ifenso timaganiza molakwa kuti vuto ndi losamba. Mulimonsemo, mwanayo amatsutsana ndi chinachake.

ndimachita. Pakali pano, tikuyesera kuti nthawi yosamba ikhale yosangalatsa kuti tithetse vutoli. Timayimba, timatulutsa machubu a sopo… Tithanso kulola kuti lidzaza mchubu palokha ndikuwonjezera madzi osambira. Tsiku lililonse, timatha kusinthasintha zosangalatsa ... Timatenganso mwayi wozindikira chomwe chachititsa kuti akane polankhula naye, zazikulu zokwanira tsopano kuti tinene, pomutsimikizira. Osamukankha chifukwa tili pachangu!

Poyembekezera. Mofanana ndi homuweki, chakudya kapena nthawi yogona, kusamba kuyenera kuchitika madzulo aliwonse nthawi imodzi. Akabwerezedwa, zizolowezi za ana aang'ono sizimakanidwa. Mwanjira imeneyi, tingathe kumumasulira nthawi ina pambuyo pake kuti azisewera akamaliza kusamba kapena homuweki, popanda kusokonezedwa. Kuti mukhazikike mtima pansi, mutha kumasulanso kusamba tsiku lotsatira ...

2 kwa zaka 6

Mwana wanga nthawi zonse amakankhira kumbuyo nthawi yoti agone

Kodi. Usiku uliwonse amagona pambuyo pake. Ndikagona, amandiuza kuti ndimuwerengere nkhani, kenaka awiri, kenako katatu, kangapo akufunsa kuti andikumbatire, magalasi angapo amadzi, amabwerera kukakodza kawiri kapena katatu ... Ku France, timayesa kugona ana. . nthawi ya 20 pm, ndi chikhalidwe. Kupatula kuti, monga akuluakulu, mwana aliyense ali ndi nthawi yake yogona, "nthawi yawo". Ndizokhudza thupi, ena amagona mofulumira, ena amagwera m'manja a Morpheus pafupifupi 21pm, kapena 22pm Ndipo sikuti mwanayo sakufuna kugona, koma sangathe kugona. Mu nkhani iyi, ndi bwino kubetcherana kuti iye satopa.

ndimachita. Ok sakutopa? Amaloledwa kukhazikika bwino pakama pake kuti amayi kapena abambo amuwerengere nkhani imodzi kapena ziwiri. Mwayi ayamba kuphethira. Mukhozanso kukhala buku kapena kuwerenga nyuzipepala kwa kanthawi pafupi naye. Zidzamulimbitsa mtima.

Poyembekezera. Ndikofunikira kuzindikira "nthawi yake yogona", nthawi yomwe ayamba kukhudza nkhope yake, kutikita m'maso kuti ayambe mwambo wotsuka mano - kukumbatirana-nkhani ndi kupsompsona kwakukulu. Ngati kumapeto kwa mlungu, timapita kokayenda komanso kuti timayendetsa galimoto yambiri, timaonetsetsa kuti, atagwedezeka ndi msewu, sagona paulendo wonse kuti asasokoneze kugona kwake usiku.

2 kwa zaka 8

Amanamizira kumvetsera, koma amachita zimene akufuna

Kodi. Akavala, kuvala nsapato, kudya… amaoneka kuti amatimva, amatiyang'ana, koma sachita chilichonse. Zimachitika kwambiri pazaka izi, makamaka ndi anyamata ang'onoang'ono. Anthu ena, mu kuwira kwawo, mu masewera kapena pamene akuwerenga, amatha kumva phokoso lakunja, koma osalabadira kwambiri kuposa izo.

ndimachita. Sitilankhula naye pa ntchentche. Timayandikira ndi kukhudza mkono wake kuti tilankhule naye ndi kukopa chidwi chake. Timamuyang'ana m'maso, timamufotokozera kuti "tidzadya chakudya chamadzulo mumphindi 5". Kupatula apo, sitingathe kunena mokwanira, koma kufuula, kulamula kapena mawu oponyedwa mozungulira alibe zotsatira, kupatula kukwiyitsa aliyense. Ponena za otchuka: "A taaaable!" », Zomwe amamva kwambiri tsiku ndi tsiku, sazisamaliranso!

Poyembekezera. Pazochita zing'onozing'ono za tsiku ndi tsiku, timatengera ndi mwana wathu mwambo wa masekondi angapo kuti timufotokozere zomwe akuyenera kuchita. Mwachitsanzo, tingamufunse kuti abweretse mkate patebulo ... Sizitenga nthawi yochuluka ndipo mu 99% ya milandu, kusamala kosavuta kumeneku ndikokwanira. 

Kuyambira miyezi 10 mpaka 5 zaka

Ndi wabwino ku nazale / kusukulu, koma ndikangofika madzulo amakwiya!

Kodi. Bambo kapena amayi ake akabwera kudzamutenga ku nazale kapena kusukulu, iye amakana kuvala malaya ake, kuthamangira mbali zonse, kukuwa… kwa abwenzi ake, ku chimango ndi kwa aulamuliro… Ndipo madzulo, munthu akafika (kawirikawiri mawonekedwe amalingaliro omwe ali pafupi kwambiri), amachotseratu chitsenderezo.

ndimachita. Ndi njira yodziwikiratu, yathanzi kwathunthu mwa ana aang'ono. Koma zimatipanikiza chifukwa zimachitika usiku uliwonse, timakhala ndi chizolowezi chodutsa m'bwalomo tisanabwerere kunyumba kuti athe kutulutsa nthunzi pang'ono, timamulola kuti azisewera m'munda asanasambe… kukondoweza ndi kupanikizika kwa tsikulo.

Ndipo pambuyo… Ngati nthawi ili yofunika kwambiri mukafika kunyumba, mungapemphe mwana wanu kuti azikonza tebulo pamene chakudya chikukonzedwa kapena kumuthandiza “kuphika” pamene tikucheza. Nthawi zamtengo wapatali ndipo nthawi zambiri zimayikidwa pansi pa chizindikiro cha nthabwala zabwino zomwe zimakhala ndi luso lochotsa mikangano.

4 kwa zaka 8

Amangodya ndikamusiyira piritsi patebulo

Kodi. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, chizoloŵezi chokhumudwitsa ichi chodyera ndi piritsi chinagwira kunyumba, pang'ono tsiku lililonse. Ndipo lero, loulou wathu amafuna piritsi kumeza kuluma kulikonse.

ndimachita. Choyamba, timaonetsetsa kuti asakhale ndi chakudya chambiri m’mbale yake. Nthaŵi zina, timakhala ndi lingaliro lakuti sakudya kalikonse, ngakhale kuti wapatsidwa mbale ya akulu! Malangizo pang'ono kuti mulemekeze kuchuluka kwa nyama mwachitsanzo: timadziletsa tokha kotala la chikhatho chaching'ono cha dzanja lanu! Funsoli linathetsedwa, vuto la piritsili lathetsedwa. Ndipo titakhala pansi kuti tidye chakudya chamadzulo, piritsi yomwe ili kumapeto kwa tebulo, yowonekera bwino, timayamba kulankhula naye za chilakolako chake cha tenisi, bwenzi lake lapamtima, tchuthi lotsatira ... kukangana. Ndipo ngati atipemphanso, timamugwira ndikumupempha kuti atiuze za masewera ake ... Ndipo bwanji, tim'patse masewera a board atatha kudya.

Ndipo pambuyo… Timaganiza zomuuza kuti tikupita ku tebulo 5 mphindi zisanachitike, kuti athe kumaliza masewera ake ndipo momveka bwino, timadzikakamiza kuyika foni yamakono yathu m'chipinda china kusiyana ndi chakudya kuti tisayesedwe. Chifukwa ... kuyamwa kwaukadaulo ndikoyenera kwa aliyense (kuphatikiza ife!), Kungosintha zizolowezi izi. Nthawi zambiri, timayika piritsi patebulo ndikuigwiritsa ntchito pang'ono momwe tingathere kunja! Kafukufuku wasayansi atsimikizira izi: ndizowopsa kwa thanzi la ana osakwana zaka 3. Chidwi chake chokha? Pamene mwana ayenera kulandira chithandizo chamankhwala, mwachitsanzo jakisoni. Kusewera filimu yaing'ono kapena kujambula pa piritsi kumamuthandiza kusokoneza maganizo ake ndikuiwala za ululu.

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