Ana okongola adzulo amasanduka zigawenga. Wachinyamata amachoka kwa makolo ake ndipo amachita zonse mosamvera. Makolo amadabwa kuti analakwitsa chiyani. Katswiri wa zamaganizo Daniel Siegel akufotokoza kuti: chifukwa chake ndi kusintha kwa msinkhu wa ubongo.
Tayerekezani kuti mukugona. Bambo ako amalowa m’chipindamo, akupsompsona pamphumi ndi kunena kuti: “Moni, wokondedwa. Kodi chakudya cham'mawa chidzadya chiyani? "Oatmeal," mumayankha. Theka la ola kenako mumabwera kukhitchini - mbale yotentha ya oatmeal ikukuyembekezerani patebulo.
Izi ndi zomwe ubwana unkawoneka kwa ambiri: makolo ndi anthu ena apamtima ankatisamalira. Koma nthawi ina tinayamba kuwasiya. Ubongo wasintha, ndipo tinaganiza zosiya oatmeal wokonzedwa ndi makolo athu.
Ndicho chimene anthu amafunikira unyamata. Chilengedwe chimasintha ubongo wa mwanayo kuti mwini wake asakhale ndi amayi ake. Chifukwa cha kusinthako, mwanayo amachoka ku moyo wamba ndikupita ku njira yatsopano, yosadziwika komanso yoopsa. Ubale wa wachinyamata ndi anthu nawonso ukusintha. Amachoka kwa makolo ake komanso kuyandikira anzake.
Ubongo wachinyamata umadutsa muzosintha zambiri zomwe zimakhudza ubale ndi anthu. Nazi zina mwazofunikira kwambiri.
Kuwonjezeka kwa malingaliro
Pamene unyamata ukuyandikira, maganizo a mwana amakula kwambiri. Achinyamata nthawi zambiri amamenya zitseko ndikukwiyira makolo awo - pali malongosoledwe asayansi a izi. Maganizo amapangidwa ndi kuyanjana kwa limbic system ndi tsinde laubongo. Mu thupi la wachinyamata, zigawozi zimakhala ndi chikoka chachikulu pakupanga zisankho kusiyana ndi ana ndi akuluakulu.
Kafukufuku wina anaika ana, achinyamata, ndi akuluakulu pa CT scanner. Ochita nawo kuyesera adawonetsedwa zithunzi za anthu omwe ali ndi nkhope yosalowerera ndale kapena okhudzidwa mtima. Asayansi alemba kuyankha kwamphamvu kwamalingaliro kwa achinyamata komanso kuyankha kwapakatikati pakati pa akulu ndi ana.
Tsopano ife tikumva monga chonchi, koma mu miniti izo zidzakhala zosiyana. Akuluakulu azikhala kutali ndi ife. tiyeni timve zomwe tikumva
Komanso, achinyamata amakonda kuona mmene anthu ena akumvera, ngakhale atakhala kuti palibe. Achinyamata atawonetsedwa zithunzi zosalowerera ndale pankhope pa CT scanner, cerebellar amygdala yawo idatsegulidwa. Achinyamata ankaona kuti munthu amene ali pachithunzipa akukumana ndi mavuto.
Chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa malingaliro a achinyamata, zimakhala zosavuta kupsa mtima kapena kukhumudwa. Maganizo awo amasintha nthawi zambiri. Sadzimvetsa okha bwino. Mnyamata wina nthawi ina anandiuza kuti: “Uzani akuluakulu. Tsopano ife tikumva monga chonchi, koma mu miniti izo zidzakhala zosiyana. Akuluakulu akhale kutali ndi ife. Tiyeni timve zomwe tikumva. " Umenewu ndi uphungu wabwino. Ngati akuluakulu amakakamiza achinyamata ndikuyesera kuwalanga chifukwa chokhala okhudzidwa kwambiri, izi zimangowasiyanitsa.
Kukopa kwa chiopsezo
Tili ndi neurotransmitter dopamine m'thupi lathu. Zimakhudzidwa ndi ntchito yolumikizana ya tsinde laubongo, limbic lobe ndi cerebral cortex. Dopamine ndizomwe zimatipangitsa kumva bwino tikalandira mphotho.
Poyerekeza ndi ana ndi akulu, achinyamata ali ndi magawo otsika a dopamine koma ma spikes apamwamba pakupanga dopamine. Zachilendo ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe zimayambitsa kutulutsidwa kwa dopamine. Chifukwa cha izi, achinyamata amakopeka ndi chilichonse chatsopano. Chirengedwe chapanga dongosolo lomwe limakupangitsani kuyesetsa kusintha ndi zachilendo, zimakukankhirani ku zomwe simukuzidziwa komanso zosatsimikizika. Tsiku lina izi zidzakakamiza mnyamatayo kuchoka panyumba ya makolo.
Ubongo wachinyamata umayang'ana mbali zabwino ndi zosangalatsa za chisankho, kunyalanyaza zotsatira zoipa ndi zomwe zingakhale zoopsa.
Miyezo ya dopamine ikatsika, achinyamata amatopa. Zonse zakale ndi zabwino zimawafooketsa. Izi ziyenera kuganiziridwa pokonzekera maphunziro apakati ndi sekondale. Masukulu ndi aphunzitsi ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito chidwi cha achinyamata kuti azichita zachilendo kuti asangalale.
Mbali ina ya ubongo wachinyamata ndi kusintha kwa njira yowunika zomwe zili zabwino ndi zoipa. Ubongo wachinyamata umayang'ana mbali zabwino ndi zosangalatsa za chisankho, ndikunyalanyaza zotsatira zoipa ndi zomwe zingakhale zoopsa.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amatcha kuganiza kwamtunduwu kukhala hyperrational. Zimakakamiza achinyamata kuyendetsa galimoto mwachangu, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso kugonana koopsa. Makolo samada nkhaŵa pachabe ponena za chitetezo cha ana awo. Nthawi yaunyamata ndi yoopsa kwambiri.
Kuyandikana ndi anzanu
Zomata za nyama zonse zoyamwitsa zimatengera zosowa za ana za chisamaliro ndi chitetezo. M’zaka zoyambirira za moyo wa munthu, chikondi n’chofunika kwambiri: mwanayo sangakhale ndi moyo popanda chisamaliro cha akulu. Koma pamene tikukula, ubwenzi sutha, umasintha maganizo ake. Achinyamata amadalira kwambiri makolo komanso anzawo.
Paunyamata, timalumikizana mwachangu ndi anzathu - izi ndizochitika zachilengedwe. Ndi mabwenzi omwe tidzadalira tikachoka panyumba ya makolo athu. Kutchire, nyama zoyamwitsa sizikhala ndi moyo zokha. Kuyanjana ndi anzawo kwa achinyamata kumawonedwa ngati nkhani yopulumuka. Makolo amazimiririka m'mbuyo ndipo amadziona ngati okanidwa.
Choipa chachikulu cha kusinthaku ndikuti kukhala pafupi ndi gulu la achinyamata kapena ngakhale munthu mmodzi kumawoneka ngati nkhani ya moyo ndi imfa. Zaka mamiliyoni ambiri za chisinthiko zimachititsa wachichepere kuganiza kuti: “Ndikapanda bwenzi lapamtima limodzi, ndifa.” Makolo akamaletsa wachinyamata kupita kuphwando, zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni kwa iye.
Akuluakulu amaganiza kuti ndi zopusa. M'malo mwake, utsiru ulibe chochita nazo, zimayikidwa ndi chisinthiko. Mukaletsa mwana wanu wamkazi kupita kuphwando kapena kukana kugula nsapato zatsopano, ganizirani za kufunika kwa iye. Izi zithandiza kulimbitsa ubale.
Mapeto a akulu
Akuluakulu ayenera kulemekeza njira yokulira ana. Achinyamata amagwidwa ndi malingaliro ndikukakamizika kuchoka pansi pa phiko la makolo, kuyandikira kwa anzawo ndikupita ku chatsopano. Choncho, ubongo kumathandiza achinyamata kupeza «oatmeal» kunja kwa makolo. Wachinyamatayo amayamba kudzisamalira ndi kufunafuna anthu ena amene angamusamalire.
Izi sizikutanthauza kuti palibe malo m'moyo wa wachinyamata kwa makolo ndi akuluakulu ena. Ubongo wa mwanayo umasintha, ndipo zimenezi zimakhudza ubale wake ndi anthu ena. Ndikofunika kuti makolo avomereze kuti udindo wawo m’moyo wa mwana nawonso ukusintha. Akuluakulu ayenera kuganizira zimene angaphunzire kwa achinyamata.
Kupsa mtima, chikondi, kucheza ndi anthu, ubwenzi, zachilendo komanso zaluso zimalimbikitsa kukula kwa ubongo ndikuusunga kukhala wachinyamata.
Ndi achikulire angati amene atsatira mfundo zaunyamata, kuchita zimene amakonda? Kodi ndani amene anapitirizabe kucheza ndi anthu, kukhalabe ndi mabwenzi apamtima? Ndani amene amayesabe zinthu zatsopano ndipo samagwirizana ndi zakale, kukweza ubongo wawo ndi kufufuza zinthu?
Akatswiri a sayansi ya ubongo apeza kuti ubongo umakula nthawi zonse. Amachitcha chinthu ichi neuroplasticity. Kuphulika kwamalingaliro, chikondi, kucheza ndi anthu, ubwenzi, zachilendo, ndi zojambulajambula zimalimbikitsa kukula kwa ubongo ndikusunga unyamata. Zonsezi ndi makhalidwe omwe munthu amakhala nawo paunyamata.
Kumbukirani izi pamene mukufuna kunyoza wachinyamata chifukwa cha khalidwe lake kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "wachinyamata" monyoza. Musayese kuseka maganizo awo ndi kupanduka, ndi bwino kukhala wamng'ono wachinyamata nokha. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti izi ndi zomwe timafunikira kuti malingaliro athu akhale akuthwa komanso achichepere.