Iwalani mantha ake, manyazi ake kuchita, kunena, kudzionetsera, kuyiwala kuwongolera kuti asiye zofuna zake. Disinhibition yapeza dziko lake, la malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Pakati pa kuwonongeka ndi maubwino.

Kutsutsana ndi choletsa chomwe chimatanthawuza kuwongolera momwe mumachitira ndi zomwe zikuchitika pafupi nanu, kudziletsa ndiko kunena kapena kuchita zinazake mwakufuna kwanu, osaganizira nthawi yayitali kuti vutolo lingakhale lotani. zotsatira zosafunikira kapena zoopsa. Palinso njira ina yoganizira za kupha tizilombo toyambitsa matenda: monga kuchepetsako kuwongolera zikhumbo kapena zikhumbo zanu, zomwe zikutanthauza kulephera kuletsa, kuchedwa kapena kusintha ("kulepheretsa") chinthu chomwe sichili choyenera. momwe mungadzipezere.

• kutengeka, kudzera pamafotokozedwe osavuta a malingaliro, kaya abwino kapena oyipa (nkhawa, chisoni, mkwiyo, chikondi, chisangalalo);
• m'mawu, m'mawu, mwano, mokuwa kapena podziwa;
• zongoyerekeza, mwa kufotokoza kwa malingaliro kapena zokhumba;
• thupi, kudzera m'mizere kwa ena, maliseche kapena kuwonetsa momwe akumvera;
• kugonana, kudzera mukugonana kosadziteteza popanda zoletsa.

Disinhibition amadziwika ndi:

• kusowa ulemu ndi kudziletsa;
• machitidwe ozolowereka pakamwa kapena mthupi;
• kusakhala ndi mantha onse;
• ngozi ina;
• kudzidalira kwakukulu;
• malingaliro odabwitsa;
• chiwonetsero;
• ndemanga zovuta kapena zamwano;
• kukhudza. 

Kuchita zinthu mopupuluma kapena mopupuluma nthawi zambiri kumakhala ndi zotsatira zoyipa kapena zoyipa. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa chakuti anthu osadziletsa amalephera kuchita zinthu zosayenera, monga kutenga chakudya cha munthu wina mwadzidzidzi, kukhala zowopsa mwangozi komanso zowopsa, monga kuba, moto, ziwopsezo. waukali kapena wodzivulaza. Ngakhale mankhwala ophera tizilombo amachitika pang'onopang'ono, masekondi ochepa amatha pakati pa lingaliro lakuchita mopupuluma ndikuphedwa kwake. Munthuyo amayamba kumva kumverera kwowonjezereka kapena chisangalalo, chilimbikitso. Kenako azichita mopupuluma ndikumverera chisangalalo, mpumulo kapena kumverera kokhutitsidwa, kukhutira. Pambuyo pake, atha kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa kapena amadzimvera chisoni. Kudziletsa paokha ndi chizolowezi chomwa mowa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Lingaliro lodziletsa lingatipangitse ife kuganiza molakwika kuti zomwe sizimaletsedwa ndizowona kapena zowona kuposa gawo lathu lomwe limaletsa.

Tikudziwa kuti pa intaneti, anthu amakonda kunena ndi kuchita zomwe sakanachita komanso sakananena zakuthupi. Kusadziwika (palibe amene amandidziwa, palibe amene angandiwone, kulumikizana ndizosangalatsa), kumathandizira kupewetsa zida. Malinga ndi a John R. Suler, pulofesa wama psychology ku Rider University (New Jersey), anthu ali omasuka, osadziletsa komanso amalankhula momasuka. Samazengereza kugawana zidziwitso zaumwini, kuwulula zakukhosi kwawo, mantha awo, zokhumba zawo. Amatha ngakhale kufika pofika posonyeza kukoma mtima, kuwolowa manja kwa ena. Mankhwalawa samapindulitsa nthawi zonse. Koma tikuwonanso kutukwana, kutsutsa mwankhanza, mkwiyo, chidani, ngakhale kuwopseza. Ndi dziko lobisika la intaneti, malo azolaula, zachiwawa, zachiwawa, dziko lomwe sangafufuze zenizeni. 

Anthu ena akamagwiritsa ntchito intaneti amadziletsa ndipo amadziulula okha. Komabe, nthawi yomweyo, mwina sangakhale akulimbana ndi zomwe zimayambitsa zoletsa izi ndikusowa mwayi wopeza china chake chofunikira chokhudza iwo, china chake chowona, koma nthawi zambiri samadziwa kanthu. . Ngakhale kuti kusadziwika pa intaneti kumachepetsa nkhawa za anthu kuti azikhala omasuka kufotokoza zakukhosi kwawo, amadaliranso chinthu china chofunikira kwambiri pa zomwe ali. Mphamvu zofunikira pamakhalidwe zimamangidwa munthawiyi.

Zachidziwikire, aliyense amakhala ndi nthawi yomwe machitidwe "osadziletsa" samapweteketsa ndipo amathandizanso kusangalala, monga kutsika pagule laphwando. Anthu omwe ali oletsedwa mwamphamvu ndipo omwe ali ndi vuto lawo atha kupeza zabwino zenizeni popita, mwachitsanzo, ku zisudzo, zisudzo zovina. Chifukwa cha maubwino, kudzidalira, kutulutsa nkhawa, kuchepetsa nkhawa, kugona bwino, kucheza bwino, mavuto amisala ndi thanzi labwino. Zimamasula munthu yemwe amakhala wochita zambiri komanso yemwe amadzidalira.

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