"Dowryless" Larisa: kodi symbiosis ndi amayi ake chifukwa cha imfa yake?

Kodi zifukwa zazikulu za zochita za olemba mabuku otchuka ndi chiyani? Nchifukwa chiyani amapanga izi kapena kusankha, nthawi zina kutiyika ife, owerenga, chisokonezo? Tikuyang'ana yankho ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo.

Chifukwa chiyani Larisa sanakhale mbuye wa olemera Mokiy Parmenych?

Moky Parmenych amalankhula ndi Larisa ngati munthu wamalonda: amalengeza zikhalidwe, akufotokoza ubwino wake, amamutsimikizira za kukhulupirika kwake.

Koma Larisa sakhala ndi phindu, koma ndi malingaliro. Ndipo maganizo ake ali mu chipwirikiti: iye anangophunzira kuti SERGEY Paratov, amene anakhala naye usiku wa chikondi (poganiza kuti tsopano adzakwatirana), ali pachibwenzi ndi wina ndipo sadzakwatira. Mtima wake ndi wosweka, koma akadali moyo.

Kukhala mbuye wa Mokiy Parmenych kwa iye kuli kofanana ndi kudzipereka, kusiya kukhala munthu wokhala ndi moyo ndikukhala chinthu chopanda moyo chomwe chimachokera kwa mwiniwake kupita kwa wina. Kwa iye, izi ndizoyipa kuposa imfa, zomwe amasankha kukhala "chinthu".

Larisa anabwera ndi chilango kwa iye yekha, ngakhale iye alibe mlandu chifukwa alibe dowry.

Larisa anakulira m'banja losauka popanda bambo. Amayi anavutika kuti akwatire ana ake aakazi atatu (Larisa wachitatu). Nyumbayi yakhala ngati chipata, amayi amagulitsa mwana wawo wamkazi, aliyense amadziwa za vuto lake.

Larisa akuyesera kuthetsa mavuto atatu: kupatukana ndi amayi ake, kupeza chikhalidwe chokhazikika cha "mkazi" ndi kusiya kukhala chinthu cha zilakolako za kugonana kwa amuna. Pochita manyazi chifukwa cha moyo mu "gypsy camp", Larissa akuganiza kuti adzipereke kwa woyamba amene adzapereka dzanja lake ndi mtima wake.

Moral masochism ndi yofunika kwambiri popanga chisankho. Larisa anabwera ndi chilango kwa iye yekha, ngakhale iye alibe mlandu chifukwa chakuti alibe dowry; kuti Paratov anamusiya kuti asapite patali ndi kukwatira mtsikana wosauka; kuti amayi ake akuyesera "kumulumikiza" kuti akwatire anthu osayenera.

Ululu umene Larisa amadzipangira yekha uli ndi mbali imodzi - kupambana kwa makhalidwe abwino kwa amayi ake, mphekesera ndi miseche, ndi chiyembekezo cha moyo wabata m'mudzimo ndi mwamuna wake. Ndipo kuvomereza pempho la Mokiy Parmenych, Larisa adzachita mogwirizana ndi malamulo a mawerengedwe, adzakhala mbali ya dziko lachilendo kwa iye.

Kodi zingakhale zosiyana?

Ngati Moky Parmenych anali ndi chidwi ndi malingaliro a Larisa, akumva chisoni naye, anayesa kumuthandiza osati ndalama zokha, koma maganizo ndi makhalidwe, sanafulumire kusankha, mwina nkhaniyo ikanapitirira mosiyana.

Kapena ngati Larissa anali wodziimira, wosiyana ndi amayi ake, angapeze woyenera, ngakhale, mwina, osati munthu wolemera. Amatha kukulitsa luso lake lanyimbo, amatha kusiyanitsa malingaliro owona mtima kuchokera kuchinyengo, chikondi ndi chilakolako.

Komabe, mayiyo, amene anagwiritsa ntchito ana ake aakazi monga njira yopezera ndalama ndi udindo wa anthu, sanalole kuti luso lake losankha zochita, kuzindikira zinthu, kapena kudzidalira kuti likule.

Siyani Mumakonda