Nkhani zokambidwa m’nthano zingaphunzitse zambiri. Koma pa izi muyenera kumvetsetsa mtundu wa mauthenga omwe amanyamula. Psychotherapist Ilene Cohen akugawana malingaliro ake pazomwe zojambula za Walt Disney zimaphunzitsa ana ndi akulu.
"Nthano ndi bodza, koma pali lingaliro, phunziro kwa anthu abwino," Pushkin analemba. Masiku ano, ana amakulira m’nthano zochokera m’zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana. Ndi chiyani chomwe chimayikidwa m'maganizo mwa anthu ang'onoang'ono ndi nkhani yatsopano - ndi yakale? Katswiri wa zamaganizo Ilene Cohen adayang'ananso mauthenga omwe zilembo za Disney zimatengera ana ndi akulu. Analimbikitsidwa kuganiza zopita kumalo osangalatsa a Disneyland ndi mwana wake wamkazi - zaka zambiri Ilene mwiniwakeyo atakhalako komaliza.
"Ine ndi mwana wanga wamkazi tawonera zojambula zambiri za Disney. Ndinkafuna kumudziwitsa za anthu amene ndinkawakonda kwambiri. Nthano zina zidandilimbikitsa ndili mwana, zina ndidayamba kuzimva ndili wamkulu, "akutero Cohen.
Ku Disneyland, Ilene ndi mwana wake wamkazi adawona Mickey ndi Minnie akuvina mozungulira siteji ndikuyimba za momwe zimakhalira wekha.
"Ndidadzifunsa kuti chifukwa chiyani kuyambira ndili mwana ndidayesetsa kwambiri kuti ndisinthe ndipo osawona kuti anthu omwe ndimawakonda a Disney amaphunzitsidwa mosiyana. Sindinamvetsetse kuti muyenera kunyadira kuti ndinu ndani, ”adavomereza psychotherapist.
Nkhani za Disney zimanena za kufunika kotsatira maloto anu, kukwaniritsa bwino ndikumvera nokha panjira yopita ku cholinga. Tikatero moyo wathu udzakhala mmene tikufunira. Izi ndi zothandiza osati ana, komanso akuluakulu.
Komabe, mwana wamkazi Ilene atayang'ana mafano ake mwachidwi, katswiri wa zamaganizo anaganiza - kodi anthu omwe amajambula zithunzi zawo zomwe amakonda amanyenga ana? Kapena kodi nkhani zawo zimaphunzitsadi chinthu chofunika kwambiri? Pamapeto pake, Ilene adazindikira kuti nthano za Disney zimalankhula zomwezo zomwe adalemba m'nkhani zake ndi mabulogu.
1. Osanong'oneza bondo zakale. Nthawi zambiri timanong’oneza bondo zomwe tinanena ndi kuchita, timadziimba mlandu, timalota kubwerera m’mbuyo ndi kukonza zolakwa zathu. Ku The Lion King, Simba adakhalapo kale. Anachita mantha kubwerera kwawo. Iye ankakhulupirira kuti banjali lidzamukana chifukwa cha zimene zinachitikira bambo ake. Simba analola mantha ndi chisoni kulamulira moyo wake, anayesa kuthawa mavuto.
Koma kunong’oneza bondo ndi kulosera za m’mbuyo n’kosavuta kuposa kuchita panopa. Zimatengera kulimba mtima kuti udzivomereze nokha ndikuyang'anizana ndi zomwe zimakuwopsyezani ndi nkhawa. Konzani mfundo ndikupita patsogolo. Iyi ndi njira yokhayo yopezera chisangalalo.
2. Osachita mantha kukhala wekha. Tiyenera kukhala tokha, ngakhale pamene anthu onse otizungulira amatiseka. Ilene Cohen akuti: "Zojambula za Disney zimaphunzitsa kuti kukhala wosiyana si chinthu choipa."
Zomwe zimatipangitsa kukhala opambana. Pokhapokha powakonda, Dumbo wamng'ono akanatha kukhala chimene iye anali.
3. Osataya mawu. Nthawi zina zimaoneka kwa ife kuti mwa kudzisintha tokha, tidzakondweretsa ena, pokhapokha amene timawakonda adzatha kutikonda. Kotero Ariel mu The Little Mermaid adasiya mawu ake okongola kuti atenge miyendo pobwezera ndikukhala ndi Prince Eric. Koma mawu ake ndi amene ankawakonda kwambiri. Popanda mawu, Ariel analephera kufotokoza yekha, anasiya kukhala yekha, ndipo kokha mwa kupezanso luso lake loimba ndiye potsiriza anatha kukwaniritsa maloto ake.
4. Musaope kufotokoza maganizo anu. Ambiri amaopa kunena zomwe akuganiza, amaopa kuti adzaweruzidwa. Makamaka nthawi zambiri akazi amachita motere. Ndi iko komwe, kudzichepetsa ndi kudziletsa zimayembekezeredwa kwa iwo. Ena mwa otchulidwa a Disney, monga Jasmine (Aladdin), Anna (Frozen) ndi Merida (Olimba Mtima), amatsutsa malingaliro awo, kumenyera zomwe amakhulupirira, amalankhula malingaliro awo popanda mantha.
Merida salola aliyense kuti amusinthe. Chifuniro champhamvu ndi kutsimikiza mtima zimamuthandiza kukwaniritsa zomwe akufuna ndikuteteza zomwe amakonda. Anna amachita chilichonse kuti akhale pafupi ndi mlongo wake, ndipo amapitanso ulendo woopsa kuti amupeze. Jasmine amateteza ufulu wake wodziimira. Mafumu ouma khosi amatsimikizira kuti simungathe kutsatira malamulo a munthu wina.
5. Tsatirani maloto anu. Makatuni ambiri a Disney amakuphunzitsani kuyesetsa kukhala ndi cholinga ngakhale muli ndi mantha. Rapunzel analota kupita kumudzi kwawo ndikuyang'ana nyali pa tsiku lake lobadwa, koma sakanatha kuchoka pansanjayo. Anali otsimikiza kuti kunja kunali koopsa, koma pamapeto pake mtsikanayo anauyamba ulendo wopita ku maloto ake.
6. Phunzirani kukhala oleza mtima. Nthawi zina, kuti maloto akwaniritsidwe, muyenera kudekha. Njira yopita ku cholinga sinthawi zonse yowongoka komanso yosavuta. Pamafunika khama komanso khama kuti mupeze zomwe mukufuna.
Dziko lamatsenga la nthano za Disney limatiphunzitsa zomwe sitingathe kuchita popanda munthu wamkulu. “Ndikanakhala kuti ndinapenyerera makatuni ameneŵa mosamalitsa pamene ndinali mwana, ndikanatha kumvetsetsa zambiri pasadakhale ndi kupeŵa zolakwa zimene ndinapanga,” Cohen akuvomereza motero.
Za wolemba: Ilene Cohen ndi psychotherapist komanso mphunzitsi ku Barry University.