Zamkatimu
Pambuyo pa msonkhano woyamba uwu udzayamba ndiye nthawi ya "kuweta mowirikiza", ya kusintha pang'onopang'ono. Aliyense amadziwana, zomwe zimachepa zimatcha "kuyanjana koyambirira": mayi ndi mwana wake wakhanda "amalenga" wina ndi mnzake, amazolowerana wina ndi mnzake mwa chisamaliro. , kusewera, kuyamwitsa kapena kuyamwitsa botolo!) ndi… china chirichonse! Ndi nthawi yokoma kwambiri, "coco" kwambiri, ngakhale kuchotsedwa pang'ono, koma kofunikira, kumene aliyense m'banja amapanga malo ake atsopano mwa kusiya gawo labwino kwa watsopano (ngakhale sichoncho. tsiku ndi tsiku zosavuta).
Malangizo : miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yoyambirira, tengerani mwayi! Limbikitsani mphamvu mwana wanu, zimapita mwachangu kwambiri ... Nyamulani, gwedezani, nunkhirani, m'kumbatirani, mpatseni chikondi chanu "yaiwisi", lolani zokhumba zanu zilankhule zokha. Azimayi ena amachita zimenezi mokhutiritsidwa, amene amadzipeza kuti ndi amayi opambanitsa, monga momwe Juliette wa ku Rennes akutiuzira kuti: “Matthis wandisinthiratu! Koma ndidayenera kudzitengera ndekha (ndipo abambo adandithandiza kwambiri) kuti ndithane ndi chiyeso chodzitsekera mu awiriwa… ”.
Samalani, "kukhala paumodzi" ndi Mwana siudindo kuti akhale ndi moyo wabwino! Ndipo imatha kukhala sclerosing pambuyo pake. Chinthu chachikulu: kumvetsera mwana wanu pamene mukukhala nokha. Pakukhazikika kwa munthu aliyense komanso banja lonse, ndikofunikira kuti muzimvera nokha, kuti musaiwale ...
Tetezani mwana popanda kumuteteza kwambiri
Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, mbalame yaing'ono imakula ... ndipo chilakolako chimayamba kutambasula mapiko ake kuti chikulitsa chisa chake pang'ono, chidziwitso chake ndikufufuza zakunja. Chifukwa ichinso ndi gawo la munthu wamng'ono: apa pali wofufuza yemwe anabadwa ali ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi chirichonse!
Ngakhale mikono ya Amayi ndi Abambo ikhala (ndipo ikhala) yolimbikitsa nthawi zonse, Mwana mwachibadwa komanso amakankhidwa kwenikweni ndi kuwonjezereka kwa moyo kumeneku komwe kumamupatsa, monga Christopher Columbus mu mathalauza aafupi, chikhumbo chochoka pang'ono "chifuwa" cha makolo. M'mawu a "ukadaulo", izi zimapereka: kutuluka pachitetezo kuti mupite ku zomwe akatswiri amatcha "zone yotulukira". Wonyamulidwa ndi miyendo yake yaying'ono yonenepa komanso kuyang'ana kwake mwachidwi, Mwana samasiya kupita patsogolo ndikukankhira mabizinesi ake patsogolo.
Inde, koma ndi izi, adzatha kutero ngati chigawo choyamba chalembedwa kwambiri, m'lingaliro lakuti mwana wanu akudziwa zimenezo.ngati ali ndi nkhawa, amatha kubweranso kuti adzazengereze kumalo otetezeka, ndiye kuti ... ndi inu! Ndipo mukapanga malowa kukhala malo amtendere pang'ono, m'pamenenso Mwana amamasuka kusiya. Zodabwitsa? Ayi, mwachindunji ku chikhalidwe cha anthu.
Kwenikweni, inu, makolo ake, mumatenga gawo lofunikira pakuwongolera kwake: ndichifukwa choti mwana wanu adzatsimikiza kuti sadzataya chikondi chanu kuti azitha kudzipatula kwa inu… Njira yeniyeni yamtsogolo ! Komanso udindo wopatulika, tikukupatsani ...
Makolo: ganizirani (komanso) za inu!
Limbikitsidwani, Chilichonse chimachitika mwachibadwa, ndikugunda pang'ono ndi zolakwika, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimapangitsa kuti zisinthe kuwomberako. Mosaiwala zinthu ziwiri popanda zomwe ndondomekoyi imakhala yovuta kwambiri :
- choyamba, mfundo yakuti mayi "amalola" mwana wake kuti adzipatula ndipo motero achoke kwa iye (inde, kwa ena, siziri zoonekeratu!), Zofunikira kuti mwanayo adzidalira yekha ndikukhala ndi malire ake. Pansi pa maso anu onyada, mwachikondi komanso mwatcheru, ndithudi, koma palokha. Mwachitsanzo, m'paki, palibe chifukwa chomumenya "Ugwa!" nthawi zonse, pachiwopsezo choletsa zoyeserera zake. M'malo mwake mupite naye ndi mawu kumupatsa mayankho ngati ali ndi zovuta, koma popanda kulowererapo.
- Chachiwiri, yesetsani, inunso, kuti mudziteteze kwa Mwana nthawi ndi nthawi, ndipo osadziimba mlandu chonde! Sizidzakulolani kuti muyandikire kwa abambo kapena kukupatsani nthawi koma kuwonjezera apo, zidzakuchitirani zabwino zambiri (ngati tikukuuzani!). Chifukwa izi ndi zomwe Mwana amafunikira kwambiri kuti akule mosangalala: makolo awiri E-PA-NOUIS! Ndipotu, zonse ndi za golide.
Mwa njira, kodi mukudziwa chifukwa chake hedgehogs amakhala mtunda wabwino wina ndi mzake? Chifukwa chakuti, kutali kwambiri, akanakhala ozizira koma pafupi kwambiri, akanadzibaya okha. Chabwino, Amayi ndi Mwana, ndi nthano yokongola yofanana….
Zizindikiro za kulumikizidwa "kotetezedwa".
- Mwana akulira kapena kulira, koma amadekha msanga ataona kholo lake komanso atachitapo kanthu;
- Amayankha ndikumwetulira;
- Kuyambira miyezi yoyamba, amasonyeza chidwi chapadera kwa kholo lake: amamutsatira ndi maso ake, amatambasula manja ake kwa iye, amamuwombera, amakonda kusewera, kuyanjana naye;
- Chidwichi chimangowonjezereka pakapita nthawi mpaka chikhala chokhazikika pazaka zenizeni (nkhawa yopatukana pafupifupi miyezi 8 kenako kuopa ziwerengero zakunja pafupifupi miyezi 15);
- Mwana akufuna kukhala nanu ndikuchita zionetsero mukachoka;
- Amakondwera kwambiri ndi chilengedwe chakunja ndipo amawona zomwe mukuchita pamene akupita "kufufuza".