Masiku angapo apitawo, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti adasesedwa ndi funde la gulu lina lachiwembu. Ogwiritsa amakamba nkhani zakulephera kwawo komanso kulephera kwawo, kumawatsatira ndi tag #mewasn't ganyu. Kodi zonsezi zikutanthauza chiyani pankhani ya psychotherapy? Katswiri wathu Vladimir Dashevsky ndi wachigawo: uku ndi kulira kuchokera ku moyo wa anthu okhumudwa, ndipo gulu lachiwonetsero lokha ndilodzikonda komanso lachibwana.
Mu psychotherapy, chinthu chachikulu ndikumvetsera. Ngati simuli Sherlock Holmes osati Dr. House, ngati mulibe diso lachitatu ndipo simungathe "kuyang'ana mu moyo" ndikujambula malingaliro, maso aumunthu ndi makutu ndi zochitika zidzachita. Anthu akulankhula za iwo eni. Mwachindunji, pamphumi, mosalekeza ndi zambiri.
Kungoti samalankhula ndi mawu, koma ndi zomwe zili pakati: kusalankhula, malingaliro, kutanthauza. Mwasayansi, izi zimatchedwa "kutanthauza". Mawu aliwonse amatanthauza chinachake, ndipo kulankhulana pakati pa anthu kumamangidwa mothandizidwa ndi mauthenga otere. Zomwezo zimachitikanso m'malemba. Makamaka m'malemba a malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Makamaka pa Facebook (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia).
Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwawerenga mpaka mizere iyi, munganene chiyani ponena za ine monga wolemba? Mwachitsanzo, wolemba ndi snob, ndi nerd ndi «nerd» amene anaganiza kukwera pa yokazinga, ndi mantha anaganiza kuti atha kunyamula owerenga ndi tanthauzo lopusa, «harnesses kwa nthawi yaitali pamene kung'anima khamu. imayamba." Ndi zina zotero. Ndizo zonse zomwe mumawerenga pakati pa mizere yalemba.
Choncho, si zimene anthu amanena kapena kulemba zimene zimasangalatsa, koma zimene amatanthauza ndi mauthenga awo. Pambuyo pake, izi ndi zomwe munthu amamva, pamlingo wa chikomokere, chinachake chimene sangathe kuchilamulira.
Masiku ano n’zochititsa manyazi kusachita bwino. Makamaka pama social media
Kotero, za gulu la flash, iwo #sananditenge ine. Ndizodabwitsa momwe adagonjetsera mwachangu Facebook (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia). Zodabwitsa matenda mphamvu! Kwa masiku awiri - masauzande, masauzande a zolemba, makalata, nthabwala, maulalo, zolemba ndi zolemba. Ndili wotsimikiza kuti ofufuza abadwa kale omwe angafotokoze malamulo atsopano a psychology ya chikhalidwe cha anthu pogwiritsa ntchito chitsanzo cha khalidwe la anthu pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti.
Zomwe zili pamwamba ndi zomwe ambiri adalemba kale: gulu la anthu # sananditengere - 90% mwa izi ndi nkhani zopambana. "Ndiloleni ndisalembedwe ganyu ndi kampani X, koma tsopano ndili ku kampani Y ("ndinayambitsa bizinesi yanga" / "kutenthetsa mimba yanga ku Bali") komanso mu chokoleti chathunthu." Tiyeni tizitcha chinyengo cha anthu.
Masiku ano n’zochititsa manyazi kusachita bwino. Makamaka pama social media. Zonona zokhazokha za dziko la tsiku ndi tsiku zimasindikizidwa pano. Amapezeka ndi atolankhani, ojambula zithunzi, olemba, omwe nthawi zambiri amatchedwa gulu la kulenga. Ndipo, ndithudi, pamaziko a zolembazi, ndizosatheka kuganiza za zifukwa zolephera. Pali chinthu choterocho - «kulakwitsa kwa wopulumukayo», pamene, malinga ndi zizindikiro za zipolopolo pa fuselage ya ndege yobwerera m'munsi, amayesa kulingalira za zifukwa zochepetsera «kupulumuka» kwa ndege. Ndege zomwe zidagundidwa ndi injini kapena gasi zimalephera ndipo sizibwerera. Palibe chomwe chimadziwika za iwo.
Omwe #satenga nawo gawo mumgululi. Mwina zimapweteka kapena palibe nthawi.
Ego ya wolemba imatenga timadziti tambiri, kudzidalira kumakula, cholinga chimakwaniritsidwa.
Tsopano za zomwe zabisika, za tanthauzo lake.
Misozi ya olembawo inauma, koma mkwiyo udakalipo. Kukwiyira omwe ali #samifools, #sindinanditenge kukongola, #lumani zigongono, #nuisabogus musatenge nawo mbali pa izi. Ndemanga zimawonekera nthawi yomweyo pansi pazolemba: "asiyeni achite kaduka tsopano", "ali ndi mlandu", "ndinu abwino". Ego ya olemba imatenga timadziti taudatory, kudzidalira kumakula, cholinga chimakwaniritsidwa. Komanso, monga lamulo, zochitika ndi zakale, mkwiyo ndi wachibwana, ndipo mkwiyo waubwana ndi wokhumudwitsa kwambiri.
Kukwiya kochuluka. Kuchokera ku chipale chofewa chaching'ono chomwe chinayambika masiku awiri apitawo, madandaulo oponderezedwa akudutsa paphiri la Facebook (bungwe lonyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia). Zigawo zochulukirachulukira zikukakamira, zoulutsira nkhani zosiyanasiyana zikutola ndodo, tsopano chiwopsezo chachikulu chikusesa pa intaneti, kusesa owerenga, kusesa nkhani ndi mitu ina. Ndi zophweka, zotetezeka komanso zothandiza. Zikuwoneka kuti ndikuchita nawo gulu lamasewera osangalatsa, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo ndikulandira chithandizo chamankhwala.
Ndi chipongwe chotani nanga, chigulu choterechi - odzikonda ndi akhanda. Mawu akuti “Sindinatengedwe” akusonyeza kuti ndine chinthu chimene munthu wamphamvu, wopatsidwa mphamvu, ali ndi ufulu wochitenga kapena kusachitenga. Wolembayo amangoganizira za wozunzidwayo ndipo sangathe "mwamkulu", kuyang'ana momwe zinthu ziliri.
Kuphulika kwa mkwiyo ndikwabwino, ngati kutulutsa mafinya pachilonda. Koma ndimakonda kuyimirira pambali panthawiyi, kuti ndisapwetekedwe ndi kuphulika kwafunde.
Kuthamanga kwa kugawa ndi kuchuluka kwa ndondomekoyi kungasonyeze kuti ndi yothandiza. Ndazindikira kuti magulu akuluakulu ochezera a pa Intaneti (monga #Ndikuopa kunena) nthawi zonse amakhala psychotherapeutic. Monga lamulo, kumapeto kwa gulu la flash, zotsatira za narcissistic zimasakanizidwa pano.
Ndikofunikira kuyang'ana izi, pamene tikuyang'ana nyali yowala - kuchokera pansi pa zikope zotsekedwa theka, kuti mawu apite, ndikuyang'ana zomwe zikuchitikadi.