Njira yoyamba yothetsera vuto ndiyo kuzindikira vutolo. Tinene zoona, ngakhale zozizwitsa zimachitika m'miyoyo yathu, ndizosowa (ndicho chifukwa chake ndi zozizwitsa). Kotero, nthawi zambiri, kuti mukwaniritse chinachake, muyenera kuyesetsa kwenikweni ndikupita ku cholinga chanu. Kuphatikizirapo ngati ntchitoyo ndi kuthana ndi manyazi komanso manyazi kwambiri, zomwe sizingathandizire kuchita bwino komanso chitukuko. Kodi n’chiyani chimasiyanitsa munthu amene amakhulupirira kwambiri mphamvu zake ndi luso lake ndi munthu amene nthawi zonse amadzikayikira? Otsatirawo, m'malo mwake, amafuna kudziteteza kuti asachite mantha, ngakhale zosangalatsa, ntchito ndi mwayi, amavomereza zochepa kuposa zomwe angathe. Komabe, kupanga ndi kukulitsa kudzidalira nthaŵi zina kungakhale ntchito yaikulu. Ndi chinthu chimodzi kudziwa kufunika kokhala ndi chidaliro mu luso lanu, koma ndi chinthu chinanso kukhala munthu ameneyo, makamaka pamene mukuchita manyazi kulengeza malo okwerera basi kapena kuyitana ntchito yobweretsera kuyitanitsa pizza. Funso losapeŵeka likubuka: chochita ndi ndani amene ali ndi mlandu? Yankho lagona. Anthu odzidalira samakayikira kuti angathe kuthana ndi vuto (ntchito) mosasamala kanthu za zochitika. Poyang’anizana ndi vuto, amadziŵa kuti angatembenuze mkhalidwewo kukhala wopindulitsa kwa iwo. M’malo mongoganizira kapena kuopa vuto nthaŵi zonse, amaphunzira kuchokera m’zokumana nazo, “kupopera” luso lawo ndi kukhala ndi makhalidwe amene angawatsogolere ku chipambano. Izi sizikutanthauza konse kuti munthu wodzidalira ali wachilendo ku ululu wa kukhumudwa kapena kukanidwa kwa chinthu, koma amadziwa momwe angapitiriremo mwaulemu, osalola kuti mkhalidwewo usokoneze mtsogolo. Ndikofunika kukulitsa luso la kuchira msanga kuchokera ku zolephera osati kutengera zinthu zakunja kuti muwonjezere kudzidalira. Zowonadi, ndikwabwino kulandira chitamando kuchokera kwa abwana anu kapena mphotho yapamwamba mumakampani anu, koma podalira kuzindikira kwa ena, mumachepetsa kuthekera kwanu komanso momwe mungakhudzire tsogolo. Chidaliro chozama chimachokera ku zinthu ziwiri: . Kuzindikira koteroko kumatenga nthawi. Tikukupemphani kuti tiganizire zingapo zothandiza zomwe zingachitike kwakanthawi kochepa. Kupeza ndi kudziwa maluso anu achilengedwe, machitidwe ndi zilakolako zamatsenga zimakulitsa chidaliro chanu ndi ulemu wanu. Yambani ndikuganizira zomwe zimakusangalatsani, cholinga chomwe chimakusangalatsani. Mwinamwake gawo lina la inu lidzanong'oneza "Simungathe kuchita izi", khalani osasunthika, lembani makhalidwe anu abwino papepala lomwe lingakuthandizeni kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna. Mwachitsanzo, mwapeza chikhumbo chanu - kulemba zolemba zamakanema. Poyang'ana koyamba, izi zikuwoneka zosatheka, koma mukangoyika zonse pamashelefu, monga mukumvetsetsa: zonse zomwe zimafunikira kwa inu ndi chilakolako cha cinema, luso lopanga komanso luso lolemba nkhani, zonse zomwe muli nazo. Timakonda kupeputsa luso lathu, ngakhale kuti izi sizingatheke ndipo nthawi zambiri ndi zolakwika. Ganizirani za zomwe mwachita, monga kupeza ntchito yanu yoyamba kapena kupambana mayeso ovuta. Ganizirani zomwe munachita kuti zitheke? Kodi kunali kulimbikira kwanu, luso linalake kapena njira? Luso lanu ndi mikhalidwe yanu ingagwiritsidwe ntchito pokwaniritsa zolinga zotsatirazi. Chizolowezi chimene chimapha anthu ambiri ndicho kudziyerekezera ndi ena nthaŵi zonse. Ndiwe, ndiye lekani kudzifananiza ndi anthu ena mpaka kufika potaya ulemu wanu. Njira yoyamba yochotsera manyazi ndikuvomereza kwathunthu momwe muliri, ndi mikhalidwe yabwino osati momwemo. Kanikizani malire anu pang'onopang'ono, pang'onopang'ono. Mudzadabwa ndi kuthekera kwa munthu kuti azolowere mikhalidwe yatsopano! Pitani kumalo opezeka anthu ambiri, mawonetsero, misonkhano, zikondwerero ndi zochitika, zipange kukhala gawo la moyo. Zotsatira zake, mudzayamba kuzindikira momwe mumakhalira omasuka, ndipo manyazi amapita kwinakwake. Kumbukirani, kukhala mkati mwa malo anu otonthoza kumatanthauza kuti simusintha, ndipo motero, kuchita manyazi sikudzatha. Kukanidwa ndi gawo lachibadwa la moyo. Mwanjira ina, m'moyo wonse timakumana ndi anthu omwe zokonda zawo ndi zikhulupiriro zawo sizigwirizana ndi zathu, kapena olemba anzawo ntchito omwe sationa ngati gawo la gulu lawo. Ndipo izi, kachiwiri, ndi zachilendo. Phunzirani kuti musatenge zinthu ngati zotere ngati mwano, koma ngati mwayi wakukula. Chilankhulo cha thupi chimakhala ndi mgwirizano wachindunji ndi momwe timamvera. Ngati muimirira chogwedera, kunjenjemera kuchokera paphewa lanu ndi mutu wanu pansi, mumangodziona kuti ndinu wosatetezeka ndipo, titero kunena kwake, mukuchita manyazi. Koma yesetsani kuwongola msana wanu, kuwongolera mapewa anu, kukweza mphuno yanu monyadira ndikuyenda molimba mtima, popeza inu nokha simudzazindikira kuti mumamva ngati munthu woyenera komanso wolimba mtima. Zimatenganso nthawi, koma dziwani kuti nthawi yakwana.
2022-11-11